ddjay:
catch who young,u sound like the early twenties chick/babe/chic/baby etc..... op ur a million times correct,these babies think love is range rover,mansion,shopping in dubai,bb porsche,high heel,long hair,yellow complexion....

Toks2008:


8 years is perfect so groom her please. Apparently you hold the four aces and if you play well i see her as the mother of your children in future.

Good luck aburo

Beamborla:

It would do you lots of good if you break away from this illusion of yours

markmira:

never make a woman feel like god else she will dump u 4 a guy who feel's like a god and treat her like his angel.be INCHARGE MAN women worship confident men,d man who dosent giva a shi*t about loosing her,d man who ask a lot of questions before dropping the money she asked 4,d man who f*cks her so hard to da xtent e dosent care if she die in the process ,and to kill it all the same man luvs her,i wasnt that man b4 buh i became him after a serious hrt break dat destroy my relationship wit my uncle.GOD bless u

Toks2008:


Interesting.


Just that most times the steps you teach the young ones will usuallky be used to dance with another.

I was 27 when i met my ex at 19 but all the 11 years we were together i realized that she was always wondering how the outside world looks like and before we parted 2years ago she was saying stuffs like she feels caged all her life that she has no life outside our affair having spent all her life wth me bla bla so she eventually left.

Now tell me if i happen to meet her in her late 20s after she must have had experience will she utter such words?

i have come to realize that only experience can shape us and this is why these age group are usually calmer,wiser and ready to settle down.

Toks2008:


See your sef?,bad belle, people like you are stating intelligent diverse opinion na grammer you dey blow and number of likes dey vex you.

You will make a terrible discussant walahi.

Toks2008:


I enjoy your well articulated counter view except for the fact that you misconstrue my post in its entirety.

I never delved on late or early marriage but just as the topic denotes.

All you wrote are apparently true for some because i never generalized.

Nice opinionated views.

e be like you dey America o, here in Nigeria_ society puts a lot of pressure (marital pressure) on the female folk. So, whether you delved into late/early marriage or not, mentioning late 20s/30s...that's what comes to the average stereotyped nigerian mind.

I can see your opinion is founded on experience, but normal case scenario_ you would see a youngman dating a lady for 11yrs. When it's time for marriage, he remembers she is approaching menopause. Most guys actually stick to them because of 'financial merger', not even most of your listed points.

I understood your point well, the serious minded guys... drew my attention. Are guys who do otherwise unserious?

In the longrun, anyone could be mature or immature.
Decent or indecent.
Caring or uncaring.

Pls don't meet a lady in her 'early 20s' and write her off. I beg on their behalf biko

saasala:


That shiit wasn't even written by you. I have seen an exact write up before on this forum. You definitely stole someone else's work. This is pure plagiarism.

Swaggzkid:
I want to use this medium to beg rain to stop falling in my area.
Bekonu I've got somewhere important to go .


*back to topic*

thumbs-up! Toks2008 Good write-up

Number 6 and 10 tight* from experience

Oketwin:
Abeg tell d rain make him come Sagamu abeg all my plantian don dry finish

MrsPhyno:

Lol nah play o I'm nobodies wifey

Beamborla:
Then you have no business mentioning if you can't go beyond 'hmmmm'
You are scared of expressing yourself or what?

Toks2008:

Yes it does at least 7 out of 10 instances.

vickerz:

and u will be close to 30 years old oo.. , hw do u get comfortable dating a teenager,

no wonder all those girls no longer date their age mates.. he no good oo . lol

please im just joking, no offence intended

biz2get:

Baby have you seen my Range Rover Call me

Beamborla:

At this junction, i should ask you if being advanced in age automatically makes one matured?

Beamborla:

ehen? You can't be serious

Toks2008:


Lol you dont even know me

im a writer that never runs out of ideas and if i write an article everyday of my life i will never run out of ideas.

if you dount me visit my profile page and you will see creative writing and if you visit my fbook wall you will see countless number of writeups that will wow you.

Many times i have seen my very own write up on other platforms but i just look away.

And conclusively it is even allowed to modify or redefine an article based on the one you see somewhere so its really no biggy if i formulated a write up from an existing one and thats what creativity is all about so continue with your unwarranted antagonistic disposition.

One person writes why sex before marriage is bad

Another writes on why sex before marriage is good..

this is called creative writing and no one should trash down another but present intelligent stanpoint like the lady you quoted did. i repeat,bad belle does not pay.

Beamborla:

how nau

Tell me sweetheart, how?

Toks2008:
10 Reasons why serious minded guys should not date any lady in their early twenties.

A man asked "What age group of ladies should i approach if i really want to settle down?"

The answer is not far fetched but before i answer i would like to state emphatically that age is no factor as we have some teenagers who are more matured mentally and psychologically than ladies in their thirties but nevertheless i will advice that any man who really wants to settle down should forget approaching ladies below the age of 25years because most of these ladies are still not sure of what they want in a man.

Majority of ladies below 25 don't even have enough experience to go into marriage and will rather want to still play around in the name of dating and if you check most ladies who marry below the age of 25,you wil be surprised to find out that it was a circumstantial decision as a result of unexpected pregnancy or parental pressures to mention a few.

So the question is..what age group should a man consider if he really wants to settle down and the answer is clear,i will advice you go for ladies of 25years and above and the higher the age the better. WHY?

[b]1.Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties are matured in mind because most of them are experienced..

2.Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties are set for true love and never too interested on a man's MONEY.

3. Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties are financially INDEPENDENT.

4. The longevity of a lady's beauty is seen fully in her late 20s and early 30s.

5. Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties have no business with DOUBLE DATING.

6. Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties know how best to CARE for a man. Men will understand what I mean.

7. Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties know what they want in life, unlike d early 20's

8.Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties have a decent DRESS SENSE.

9. Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties are COURAGEOUS.

10. Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties are admirable with heart-melting MANNER which can be a natural virtue or as a result of past experience.[/b]

RHEWBENYT:
life has thought me dat nigerian ladies starts having sense from age 26...!!!!

whobdisguy:
that's cos they've been humbled by time n experience. They are only looking for gullible guys like u to hoodwink. Once u give them d ring, their true colour go appear!

SPG4U:
Well said...but OP...wait I dey cum...no ooo I mean am coming not cum ooo

toshmann:
I want ladies in their mid twenties

The early twenties ladies are difficult to satisfy in bed and so they must have more boyfriends

Mid twenties are manageable
Late twenties and 30s arw getting desperate, i no fit stand their wahala

Idowuogbo:
Lmao! Tosh bobo!