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I Need Advice Don't Abuse Just Advice Me As Ur Brother by obisime(m): 11:10am On Aug 20, 2015
I left my girl friend early this year,when I caught her with one of her friend in her place fighting because of a guy's.That time thing is difficult for me when she demanded money from me for her school and for her anti burial that she leave with,but I try looking for where to borrow but I did not see,I gave her d one that I have than.After I caught her,i ws very angry & upset,I refuse to call her,she called and said she no more intreated in d relationship again. I leave her because she the one that suppose to apologize to me.last month she came to my house ,& she ask of my new girl friend, I told her I don't have any one,she said she want to tell me some thing,but she will say it on phone,I called her she did not say it.This my girl's this year will make us eight years, in relationship the same month I lost my daddy,I have not sleep with her or kiss her even when she seduce me, God bear me witness if lie.she called me & she said she need help from me ,and she want to come back indirect way.please just give me advice,am just confuse and I don't want to take a rough step,but I still love her
Re: I Need Advice Don't Abuse Just Advice Me As Ur Brother by SUGARBEE(f): 11:10am On Aug 20, 2015
if what you say is true about not sleeping with her then I hail you..

She's gone round the world experimenting different screwdrivers but it seems she's tired of that life and wants to settle down.. Give her one more chance if you really love her. ..

Cc lalasticlala, ishilove
Re: I Need Advice Don't Abuse Just Advice Me As Ur Brother by amadice(m): 11:11am On Aug 20, 2015
if I were in Ur shoes..
I won't take her back ever again..she does not deserve Ur love..she is a materialistic girl..she will definitely cheat on you if she notice Ur down again..forget her...
.
.A LADY WHO DOES NOT TAKE YOU FOR WHO YOU HER DOES NOT DESERVE YOUR LOVE HOOHAA..

. füçk love

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Re: I Need Advice Don't Abuse Just Advice Me As Ur Brother by Nobody: 11:12am On Aug 20, 2015
WOW...HOW CAN I READ THIS AND NOT INSULT YOU? HOW??

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Re: I Need Advice Don't Abuse Just Advice Me As Ur Brother by majamajic(m): 11:13am On Aug 20, 2015
sad
u can help her, she is your sister afterall undecided

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Re: I Need Advice Don't Abuse Just Advice Me As Ur Brother by SUGARBEE(f): 11:14am On Aug 20, 2015
DDeliverer:
WOW...HOW CAN I READ THIS AND NOT INSULT YOU? HOW??

Why would you insult him?

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Re: I Need Advice Don't Abuse Just Advice Me As Ur Brother by donholy28(m): 11:14am On Aug 20, 2015
DDeliverer:
WOW...HOW CAN I READ THIS AND NOT INSULT YOU? HOW??
am trying hard not to
Re: I Need Advice Don't Abuse Just Advice Me As Ur Brother by misspicy(f): 11:16am On Aug 20, 2015
Man up n drive her away,she just want to milk u
Re: I Need Advice Don't Abuse Just Advice Me As Ur Brother by donholy28(m): 11:16am On Aug 20, 2015
SUGARBEE:
if what you say is true about not sleeping with her then I hail you..

She's gone round the world experimenting different screwdrivers but it seems she's tired of that life and wants to settle down.. Give her one more chance if you really love her. ..
so inotherwords u mean that he should take back a public material
Re: I Need Advice Don't Abuse Just Advice Me As Ur Brother by donholy28(m): 11:17am On Aug 20, 2015
misspicy:
Man up n drive her away,she just want to milk u
ur head dey there...unlike SUGARBEE
Re: I Need Advice Don't Abuse Just Advice Me As Ur Brother by SUGARBEE(f): 11:17am On Aug 20, 2015
See this Op.. You modified the topic to something completely different Changing the storyline
Re: I Need Advice Don't Abuse Just Advice Me As Ur Brother by Nobody: 11:18am On Aug 20, 2015
WHY IS MY MIND TELLING ME SUGARBEE IS THE GIRL MR OP IS TALKING ABOUT
Re: I Need Advice Don't Abuse Just Advice Me As Ur Brother by Cutehector(m): 11:18am On Aug 20, 2015
SUGARBEE:
if what you say is true about not sleeping with her then I hail you..

She's gone round the world experimenting different screwdrivers but it seems she's tired of that life and wants to settle down.. Give her one more chance if you really love her. ..
is it d same advice u would gv to ur blood brother if he was in d same shoes as the op? Cmon sugar, its obvious the girlfrnd has a wicked heart.. Here is an op who is strugglin to make earns meet and all she does is to ask him for money.. D op shouldn't even be in a rship for nw in d first place. He needs to be focused andhustle to stand on his feet
Re: I Need Advice Don't Abuse Just Advice Me As Ur Brother by monimekaz(m): 11:19am On Aug 20, 2015
first of all.,did u finish secondary school education? if yes ......I refuse to comment .men! see English
Re: I Need Advice Don't Abuse Just Advice Me As Ur Brother by SUGARBEE(f): 11:19am On Aug 20, 2015
donholy28:
ur head dey there...unlike SUGARBEE

If she's sorry for everything then why won't he take her back.. Stop acting like Mr perfect
Re: I Need Advice Don't Abuse Just Advice Me As Ur Brother by rawpadgin(m): 11:20am On Aug 20, 2015
My friend, na only dog dey go back go eat wetin he don vomit
Re: I Need Advice Don't Abuse Just Advice Me As Ur Brother by SUGARBEE(f): 11:20am On Aug 20, 2015
Cutehector:
is it d same advice u would gv to ur blood brother if he was in d same shoes as the op? Cmon sugar, its obvious the girlfrnd has a wicked heart.. Here is an op who is strugglin to make earns meet and all she does is to ask him for money.. D op shouldn't even be in a rship for nw in d first place. He needs to be focused andhustle to stand on his feet

Please o.. The Op completely changed everything he wrote at first... Not my fault.. What is up there is different from first.. He never said anything of Her sucking him dry
Re: I Need Advice Don't Abuse Just Advice Me As Ur Brother by SUGARBEE(f): 11:23am On Aug 20, 2015
donholy28:
so inotherwords u mean that he should take back a public material

She only did that obviously because she was in a tight end
Re: I Need Advice Don't Abuse Just Advice Me As Ur Brother by donholy28(m): 11:24am On Aug 20, 2015
SUGARBEE:


If she's sorry for everything then why won't he take her back.. Stop acting like Mr perfect
I am not perfect...that i agree but I hate betrayal... if he has sense he will reject her and move on...chances are that she will betray him again...she just wants to keep her meal ticket
Re: I Need Advice Don't Abuse Just Advice Me As Ur Brother by donholy28(m): 11:24am On Aug 20, 2015
SUGARBEE:


She only did that obviously because she was in a tight end
now which tight end is that?
Re: I Need Advice Don't Abuse Just Advice Me As Ur Brother by Cutehector(m): 11:25am On Aug 20, 2015
SUGARBEE:


Please o.. The Op completely changed everything he wrote at first... Not my fault.. What is up there is different from first.. He never said anything of Her sucking him dry
lol alright. So what was it u read befor?
Re: I Need Advice Don't Abuse Just Advice Me As Ur Brother by SUGARBEE(f): 11:25am On Aug 20, 2015
DDeliverer:
WHY IS MY MIND TELLING ME SUGARBEE IS THE GIRL MR OP IS TALKING ABOUT

Lol first of all am no gold digger, in fact I support my man to the extent of we sharing the bill equally so what are you talking about wink
Re: I Need Advice Don't Abuse Just Advice Me As Ur Brother by SUGARBEE(f): 11:28am On Aug 20, 2015
donholy28:
I am not perfect...that i agree but I hate betrayal... if he has sense he will reject her and move on...chances are that she will betray him again...she just wants to keep her meal ticket

Is that only what you guys care about? you all say we girls are gold diggers, this and that but you didn't say anything when you where digging and drilling our oil wells abi?
Re: I Need Advice Don't Abuse Just Advice Me As Ur Brother by SUGARBEE(f): 11:28am On Aug 20, 2015
donholy28:
now which tight end is that?

"Her school and aunt's burial "
Re: I Need Advice Don't Abuse Just Advice Me As Ur Brother by donholy28(m): 11:30am On Aug 20, 2015
SUGARBEE:


Is that only what you guys care about? you all say we girls are gold diggers, this and that but you didn't say anything when you where digging and drilling our oil wells abi?
we can spend on a girl and think nothing of it...but this same girl u spend ur last card on,fighting with another girl because of another guy...betrayal
Re: I Need Advice Don't Abuse Just Advice Me As Ur Brother by Nobody: 11:32am On Aug 20, 2015
SUGARBEE:


She only did that obviously because she was in a tight end

So i will catch my babe fighting over another guy, even after i always borrow money to give her...She insults and humiliates me....with no remorse whatsoever....and had the guts to breakup with me!

what did i gain from her after almost a decade of our relationship? NOTHING. Not even a harmless kiss.

and now after gallivanting around town with different RICH guys.....she's back!

ofcourse, because in her mind she can do anything and always come back.....and i can always come here and cry
obisime
Re: I Need Advice Don't Abuse Just Advice Me As Ur Brother by donholy28(m): 11:32am On Aug 20, 2015
SUGARBEE:


"Her school and aunt's burial "
so her school and aunts burial na why she go collect money from guy..instead of fighting over d guy...she go dey fight on top another guy head...maybe if she gets injured she will still come back to him to collect money for treatment... BITCCH!!!
Re: I Need Advice Don't Abuse Just Advice Me As Ur Brother by SUGARBEE(f): 11:34am On Aug 20, 2015
donholy28:
we can spend on a girl and think nothing of it...but this same girl u spend ur last card on,fighting with another girl because of another guy...betrayal

So? Did he catch her red-handed in bed with another guy? She was fighting maybe even for food for the poor guy and here you people are saying another thing wink
Re: I Need Advice Don't Abuse Just Advice Me As Ur Brother by SUGARBEE(f): 11:37am On Aug 20, 2015
DDeliverer:


So i will catch my babe fighting over another guy, even after i always borrow money to give her...She insults and humiliates me....with no remorse whatsoever....and had the guts to breakup with me!

what did i gain from her after almost a decade of our relationship? NOTHING. Not even a harmless kiss.

and now after gallivanting around town with different RICH guys.....she's back!

ofcourse, because in her mind she can do anything and always come back.....and i can always come here and cry
obisime

You guys have forgotten what the main bone of contention is here.. The Op really loves her so we should advice him in that direction...

Op don't mind all of them here jare. .. Accept her back into your life, who knows she might be your better half
Re: I Need Advice Don't Abuse Just Advice Me As Ur Brother by donholy28(m): 11:37am On Aug 20, 2015
SUGARBEE:


So? Did he catch her red-handed in bed with another guy? She was fighting maybe even for food for the poor guy and here you people are saying another thing wink
look at yourself trying to justify her actions...instead of her to explain and apologize, she coldheartedly broke up with him...meaning she deemed him worthless and not worthy of keeping
Re: I Need Advice Don't Abuse Just Advice Me As Ur Brother by SUGARBEE(f): 11:39am On Aug 20, 2015
donholy28:
so her school and aunts burial na why she go collect money from guy..instead of fighting over d guy...she go dey fight on top another guy head...maybe if she gets injured she will still come back to him to collect money for treatment... BITCCH!!!

Close room pervert! Close room pervert!
Lol

If you're in his shoes and she comes back to you saying she's sorry and deep within you, you still love her won't you accept her back?
Re: I Need Advice Don't Abuse Just Advice Me As Ur Brother by SUGARBEE(f): 11:41am On Aug 20, 2015
donholy28:
look at yourself trying to justify her actions...instead of her to explain and apologize, she coldheartedly broke up with him...meaning she deemed him worthless and not worthy of keeping

Yea yeah Perfect man.. Relationships are things of ups and downs.. the main fact that she's back asking for forgiveness cancels all other past sins

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