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Re: She Says I Invade Her Privacy by bluespice(f): 4:51am On Mar 30, 2009
ethanol ur such an almost-good story writer
Re: She Says I Invade Her Privacy by C2H5OH(f): 4:52am On Mar 30, 2009
She had to apologize because she hurt me.

I know exactly why I looked at her diary.  This girl lies about a range of different things.   I won't leave her because she lies.  that is called quitting.  I will continue to work on our relationship because I love her and i want her to change.

when this mess is over we can both be happy, TOGETHER.
Re: She Says I Invade Her Privacy by Nobody: 4:57am On Mar 30, 2009
C2H5OH:

Ebony, do you agree with me? Life without love has no meaning. Love is thicker than diary. If you cannot share your innermost secret with your one and only, something is wrong. I even read that sometimes she likes to fantasize about PORNOOOOO. I was so mad. We didn't talk for two weeks after that. Keeping diary sounds like it would be fun, but don't write something that will piss off your man. If it's something you want to keep secret forever, hold it in your heart and take it to the grave.
Do you believe what you just wrote?

Acid, are you okay? Lately, you've been acting somehow somehow
Re: She Says I Invade Her Privacy by SeanT21(f): 5:04am On Mar 30, 2009
U are wrong for reading her diary.END OF STORY!! If she can not tell you the truth to your face then U guys should not be in a relationship.You should stop living in denial because its definitely not love.
Re: She Says I Invade Her Privacy by C2H5OH(f): 5:07am On Mar 30, 2009
SeanT21:

U are wrong for reading her diary.END OF STORY!! If she can not tell you the truth to your face then U guys should not be in a relationship.You should stop living in denial because its definitely not love.


sorry.
Re: She Says I Invade Her Privacy by SeanT21(f): 5:09am On Mar 30, 2009
Go and apologize to your gal not me!!
Re: She Says I Invade Her Privacy by C2H5OH(f): 5:17am On Mar 30, 2009
Wetin, na fight

I cannot. I have my pride & ego to protect.
Re: She Says I Invade Her Privacy by SeanT21(f): 5:31am On Mar 30, 2009
hmm,PRIDE**The beginning of all problems**

“It is better to lose your pride with someone you love rather than to lose that someone you love with your useless pride.”

"In general, pride is at the bottom of all great mistakes.”
Re: She Says I Invade Her Privacy by topup: 5:35am On Mar 30, 2009
This is very ironic.

Well, you must be invading her privacy if you read her diary. I could have told you that. But, do you feel like you are? Why are you reading her diary again (though I have to admit, that stuff is ALWAYS juicy!!)
Re: She Says I Invade Her Privacy by C2H5OH(f): 5:37am On Mar 30, 2009
topup
You are such a darl. I knew you would understand.
Re: She Says I Invade Her Privacy by Nobody: 5:39am On Mar 30, 2009
Acid,
Give it up.

You're making this ridiculous threads to get topup's attention.
There's an easier way, you know.

Just stop making this crazy threads. It's driving me nuts!!
Re: She Says I Invade Her Privacy by C2H5OH(f): 5:43am On Mar 30, 2009
LOL @ Ebony - am I hurting your feelings?


SeanT, one funny quote deserves another.

“Show class, have pride, and display character. If you do, winning takes care of itself."

“The truly proud man knows neither superiors nor inferiors. The first he does not admit of; the last he does not concern himself about.”
Re: She Says I Invade Her Privacy by Nobody: 5:44am On Mar 30, 2009
Why should my feelings be hurt?
Re: She Says I Invade Her Privacy by C2H5OH(f): 5:48am On Mar 30, 2009
you are jealous. topup could take that the wrong way you know.
Re: She Says I Invade Her Privacy by Nobody: 5:51am On Mar 30, 2009
LOL, aren't you full of yourself.

Hissssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss
Re: She Says I Invade Her Privacy by topup: 5:56am On Mar 30, 2009
Ebony-Silk:

LOL, aren't you full of yourself.

Hissssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss


Hahahaha!!
Is this story a phoney!?!?!?!! angry
Re: She Says I Invade Her Privacy by Nobody: 5:59am On Mar 30, 2009
Very phony.

Dude is trying to get your attention.
Re: She Says I Invade Her Privacy by C2H5OH(f): 6:02am On Mar 30, 2009
Stop crying Ebony. That story did not have a damn thing to do with topup. You are just bitter for no reason.
Re: She Says I Invade Her Privacy by Nobody: 6:02am On Mar 30, 2009
How am I being bitter?

I'm trying to help you out.

Ok, why are all your threads about break up this and that?

And what girl?
Re: She Says I Invade Her Privacy by topup: 6:04am On Mar 30, 2009
But honestly, what is the story about anyway? You understand why girl X feels like you are invading her privacy right??

If she was snooping through your phone, what would your response be?
Re: She Says I Invade Her Privacy by Moonstone(f): 6:08am On Mar 30, 2009
LMAO! How exactly do you invade her privacy? I think you should give her more space.
You're suffocating her too much by being in her face unnecessarily.

Instead of being upset, you need to back up cos it's not everything you should question and it's not everything you need to know.
Re: She Says I Invade Her Privacy by C2H5OH(f): 6:10am On Mar 30, 2009
topup, I would think she suspected me of hiding something and tried to find out about it. maybe she felt i would lie about it if she asked me directly.
Re: She Says I Invade Her Privacy by C2H5OH(f): 6:11am On Mar 30, 2009
moonshine, na wa o. this your own analysis get angle. how was I all up in our face? we had a heartfelt conversation about the inappropriate thoughts in her diary, and she apologized.

we both agreed that supreme honesty is the best way!
Re: She Says I Invade Her Privacy by Nobody: 6:14am On Mar 30, 2009
"She" apologized, so why are you still upset?
Re: She Says I Invade Her Privacy by C2H5OH(f): 6:15am On Mar 30, 2009
don't be silly it's a damn joke

get it . . .
Re: She Says I Invade Her Privacy by Moonstone(f): 6:17am On Mar 30, 2009
C2H5OH:

moonshine, na wa o.  this your own analysis get angle.  how was I all up in our face?   we had a heartfelt conversation about the inappropriate thoughts in her diary, and she apologized.

we both agreed that supreme honesty is the best way!
Are you all married? I feel there are certain boundaries. Her diary are her thoughts and are meant to be private. What were you doing there? Was that not invasion of her privacy? If I want my bf to know anything, I will tell him. Why should he be snooping around? What is it that he is looking for? Where is the trust?

She apologized that you were snooping? Ahhhhhhhhhhhh! It is now I know you're dating a quiet girl. Pele o! Always what you wanted. . . we are happy for you.
Re: She Says I Invade Her Privacy by Nobody: 6:19am On Mar 30, 2009
@Moonstone
For the 1st and last time, he is not dating.

There is no girl
Re: She Says I Invade Her Privacy by C2H5OH(f): 6:24am On Mar 30, 2009
Nice analysis.  Being in a relationship is no reason to lose your individual space.  


I am all for snooping.  Some people have found out that their husbands had second lives, by snooping.  Suspicious behavior gave it away.  You could never be too sure until you actually have proof.  Even if it hurts.
Re: She Says I Invade Her Privacy by topup: 6:27am On Mar 30, 2009
Doesn't snooping indicate lack of trust though??

Or are you doing the typical 'I'm just trying to cover my back, in case all this is too good to be true.' Which still goes with the fact that you don't believe you can ask her and she'll answer honestly, or you think she may be hiding some certain secrets. Whoever this 'SHE' is.
Re: She Says I Invade Her Privacy by Moonstone(f): 6:34am On Mar 30, 2009
C2H5OH:

Nice analysis.  Being in a relationship is no reason to lose your individual space.  

I am all for snooping.  Some people have found out that their husbands had second lives, by snooping.  Suspicious behavior gave it away.  You could never be too sure until you actually have proof.  Even if it hurts.
You are all for snooping? There should be trust, snooping can destroy relationships because your partner will know there is no trust there. What then? Suspicious behavior is a reason to snoop, I agree. . . especially after probing and getting no answers.
But to snoop just because of insecurity is not a legit reason.
Re: She Says I Invade Her Privacy by C2H5OH(f): 6:36am On Mar 30, 2009
Snooping indicates a lot of things.

There are many different explanations as to why people cheat.  Take this one for example
You just got out of a 4 year relationship that ended pretty badly with the guy cheating on you.   You later realize that this person dropped hints along the way that you should have picked up.  In this relationship, you want to avoid the same thing happening to you so you pick on every little detail that goes on.  If this new guy you are with starts acting in a way you find suspect, your curiosity heightens and you kinda sorta want to make sure everything is fine.  Instead of asking him, you are afraid he might lie to you like your ex did so you go behind his back to find the truth yourself.
LOL


If someone gives you a reason to feel suspicious, you are not imagining it.  
I would encourage you to follow your gut instinct.  It's usually accurate.
Re: She Says I Invade Her Privacy by C2H5OH(f): 6:38am On Mar 30, 2009
Trust? Someone is gullible.

Snooping can destroy relationships, and snooping can save you from a world of trouble. Depends on how you look at it. Glass is half full or half empty. Feel me?

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