LaurelP:


Hehehe, ideal woman keh...

....oga op, I disagree with no. 2,

Ur stage in life determines ur priority, some of us have seen it all....and now we are too busy running our businesses...I cant have a boo begging m to stay for a weekend wen am supposed to be on a business trip....

Some of us have persistent 'Ex' who cant let go...and still treats you so good...

So i'd rather fly her to any state I go (when I hv time) than waste valuable time trying to please som nu chick...



*Besides shez so hot and good*

chymystique:


Lol. Sincerely, I might be intrigued but truth is you are going to be locked up in my friendzoned esp on social media and you will be more like someone to entertain me when am bored . Am poetic too and you might end up being the one that will fall for my words. BTW, There is more to me falling head over heels with someone than the person being romantically poetic. As for my heart and soul, you gotta find it cause I ve just chest.

quite interesting to me.

LaurelP:
Every guy knows that its not an easy feat to successfully approach and woo a lady. Even the most confident of guys usually need to "gather morale" before doing the needful.

This could stem from the fact that you don't know what the outcome of the action you're about taking might be.

Another reason is the fear of rejection, nobody wants to feel ridiculed or like a looser sort of. We are all created with a sense of self worth and we crave for respect and regard which is normal.

However, society has made it look like a guy who cannot approach a lady is not a "real man". Such a guy is mocked by friends, relatives and even the female folk. As a result of this utter mockery and in order to live up to the expectation of the society, guys come up with some funny excuses to defend themselves and also to remove their mind from trying to approach ladies.

Below are some of the excuses guys give themselves and others for their inability to approach women.


1) Naija girls are gold diggers: I'm sure you've heard or read many guys make such comments. They be like "Naija girls too like money jare, if you no get money forget am!" The truth is that this is not a valid excuse at all. No matter your level of economic power, there is always a woman out there who will accept you the way you are. you don't need to have money to find love anywhere, besides I know some really poor guys dating rich chicks and even eating from them sef. What you need more is self confidence and social skills.


2) I Don't Have Time for Girls Now: I hear this all the time and all I see is a guy who is frustrated about his inability to successfully woo a woman. I mean is there any such thing as a separate time you need to have for a woman? Lolz... Guys please enlighten me on what it means to have time for women. U ask a guy "What of your girlfriend?". He goes like "Which girlfriend, I don't have their time oo". When I hear this I just laugh!

3) Girls are a Distraction: For real? You that has been jobless for 5 years after graduation, how is it a girl's fault? It is you that is a distraction to yourself not girls. How come all these footballers, musicians, entertainers, bankers, doctors, oil guys that I see change chicks like wrapper don't get distracted, na u come dey get distracted. My guy forget excuse and do the needful.

4) Women bring Badluck: Lols... I don't even know what to say about this one. You hear guys say that if you want to make it in life, forget women. Funny thing is, they can't! The more they try, the more they fail. Men and women have been created to 'complete' each other so my guy, unless you're gay.....

5) She's too Pompous/disrespectful: No my guy, you're too timid, that's the truth. You have the right to woo any woman you like, she has the right to agree or disagree. Don't give away your right, exercise it!
Btw, research has shown that ladies who seem too pompous are usually much easier to convince than guys tend to think.

6) I can't Satisfy her Sexually: Most guys won't voice out this excuse at all, only to very close friends if he's the very open type. This however is not a valid excuse. How do you know you can't satisfy her? How do you even know she's after sex? Must you Bleep every girl you date? Enough said jareh...

7) I Prefer Foreign Women to Nigerian: All na wash! So of all the millions of women in Naija, you can't find a suitable one for yourself, na for foreign land you go see am? My guy, your problem no be Naija women, your problem is internal. Search yourself and tell urself the truth!

No Responsible Woman Anymore: If I hear! Maybe you want a Mary magdalene or virgin Mary. Guy, if na responsible woman be your excuse, why not enter Deeper life, Jehova Witness, mountain of Fire and the various mosques and look for them? Why look for responsible women at Allen Junction? Mtcheeew...

9) I Prefer to Roll With my Fellow Guys: You be gay? Yes its good to have a good rapport with fellow guys, to have fun and drink with guys with no chick around once in a while. But my guy don't use it as an excuse, because very soon those your guys will start asking you to go and look for a chick. They will soon start laughing at you bro.

10) Complete it.



LaurelP

you have tried but you just wrote semi shit

Ok Ok

Am new on nairaland, can some1 welcomed me.

Hol on lady, did u read Kim K' 57 laws of Fame, u got dat attention in no time
Congrat!

ladyF:
^^^^^^Hahaha so they really prefer olosho Hian!!!!!

It's [size=20pt]LadyF[/size] again

There is a time for evrything.. Don't follow others cuz they all are doing it... Just take ur time, everything will surely fall into place. Girls, money, fame, respect, success etc..

chymystique:



Traits of a guy easily friendzoned

Badt girl

I must see the shape and size of her 'kini' before we enteq any proper relationship.
Nowadays, i hate to be friendzoned. If i can't have seeeeexx with you on the second outing, then may the relationship rest in peace. No time to waste time abeg.

chymystique:


I know the game and am very good @ it.... well mayb even if I meet your type, it will be a 0-0 situation ie none of our hearts yielded

You de yarn like this bcoz u never reach 32 and turn desperado

FINgames:
pllease are u a normal human being? if so y do u think u have special powers over ladies.?

I don't think, I do.Normal being? Yea, I am.

ExtraUniqueGuy:
if the motive behind that topic/post is right and not just for popularity on NL, well done. now lemme read it all and then sleep

Just spreading the Truth

It all happening to me. I need ya help NL!

starlingslimnet:
Cos I know who I am and how far my words can go to affect Ladies' heart. I know the kind of spirit I am and what I can do to Ladies' heart.May sound eccentric but you will never understand until I do it to you. Can't hurt Ladies again have done more harm already.

When I say I don't have time for Ladies it's not that I am scared or afraid to woo Ladies in fact I don't have to woo a Lady to win her rather it's because I care more about them than they do.

So OP don't take "I don't have time for Ladies" as an excuse or a stable of cowardness.

With this epistle, someone would think your a55 was brad pitt.....just boasting and spitting all over.....With the dead raccoon on top of your head....Negro sit yo a55 down!!!!

Ok.A guy says he doesn't have time for women is now seen as an inability to approach a girl.
You forget there are priorities for everybody.One guy prioritizes women doesn't mean the other guy will prioritize women.
Should every guy be approaching ladies just for approaching sake even if he has no need for it instead of doing other things that are more important to him?

ayoolanr:


With this epistle, someone would think your a55 was brad pitt.....just boasting and spitting all over.....With the dead raccoon on top of your head....Negro sit yo a55 down!!!!

action speak louder than voice

I prefer to be alone most of the time. That doesn't mean I have an inability towards approaching ladies, its just who I am

Revolva:

7) I Prefer Foreign Women to Nigerian: All na wash! So of all the millions of women in Naija, you can't find a suitable one for yourself, na for foreign land you go see am? My guy, your problem no be Naija women, your problem is internal. Search yourself and tell urself the truth!

Omo I like foreign babe...I beg naija babe's r disasters n unfaithful biased.kind of females...ok

@lexingtonsteele damm bro so u r now on nairaland LMFAO d world greatest Bleep star

Bro, I've been around for a while though not as Steele. Cheers!

Kkjam:
Am new on nairaland, can some1 welcomed me.

Useless boys.......If to say you be girl, a multitude of jobless mofos would have been on your neck trying to earn your attention. How people trip over a girl they have not seen is a mystery that even Robert Langdon cannot solve.


Anyways, Welcome on board.

most guys are guilty of no 2&3..... but i think naiaja babes no dey try for us guys

JimiCoker:
My brother will you die if you don't chase anything in skirt for one week?? Haba, some guys act like they'll have a nervous breakdown if they don't get pu'ssy for 5 minutes. If you see a girl you like, draw close to her, find out what she likes, make her laugh. Which one is all this gibberish about you must pursue women by fire by force
Its dudes like you that make girls think we're all sex starved lechers

Don't mind the baga.

I must advice the person who posted this to go get a job!!! Only a jobless person will have the time to post this nonsense! My advice for you is that you should devote your time in making money,better your life and every other thing will fall into place

Piuscrown:


But not always proud of it just lately i got this reply frm a lady i put all my effort 2 hve "you almost had me but u fumbled so bad 4 u how can u call urself a uni guy when u cant even approach a lady u jst gat to work on urself"

i always got pissed off when they play their hard 2 get kind of game i wish they stop that. at least if i dont want u i won't come 2 u na why den playing hard on me 2 knw if i wnt u

my brother we must get married one day so leave laurellp and with his womanizing skills,there is no gain in it,and as for d ladies forming hard to get I just don't have their tym yet

SHO RO NIYEN

I AM AFRAID SHE WILL EMBARRASS ME

LexingtonSteele:
Bro, I've been around for a while though not as Steele. Cheers!

oga e b like say u be die hard fan of lex d impaler..ooo men dat man is a legend in p////y

Op na by force to approach a woman


Some guys just have to many priorities in life and women are just not among the top 5.

And what will you say about guyslike me that are approached by women?

[/b]The beautiful ones are not yet born

I disagree with that no 2 @op

Toks2008:


Me im too picky and hardly find my choice and most times when i see my choice there is usually a slang. Me i don tire o

eeyah soon dear

I strongly disagree with number 2. every reasonable guy who plans a lote will always have a period in his life where he channels ALL his energy to achieving something not because he is scared of wooing a lady but because it takes time and energy to keep the lady... I can woo a lady if I want to but not when I have a truck load of important things to do...,its not just rational

ladyF:

eeyah soon dear

lol

Ladies usually think its only them that face the difficulty in getting a partner but it will surprise them that guys also feel the heat expecially responsible guys who are looking for a commited affair and not sex partners.