Re: 10 Excuses Nigerian Guys Use To Justify Their Inability To Approach A Lady by Nobody: 9:20pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
Why do girls always find it hard to tell a guy who tries to woo them that they already have boyfriends and no more?They will rather want to add him to the lists of their numerous boyfriends.They will even give him their phone numbers and still be ignoring his call or whatapp messages in the name of forming hard to get.I wonder if they can do all these forming to guyz like wizkid and Davido. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Excuses Nigerian Guys Use To Justify Their Inability To Approach A Lady by cyprus000: 9:21pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
sonofananimal: I HAVE SWEAR NEVER TO WOO OR EVEN APPROACH ANY NAIJA WOMAN.
SO HELP ME GOD
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Na which day this ur war with naija women go end na! [/size] 1 Like |
Re: 10 Excuses Nigerian Guys Use To Justify Their Inability To Approach A Lady by safarigirl(f): 9:23pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
starlingslimnet: Oh.... maybe it's because you have not meet my type....on our list there is nothing like Friendzoned. You might think you are doing that but in reality you are doing more harm to yourself cos the more you have a chat with us the more you become susceptible.... We can't be Friendzoned because to us we just wanna be nothing more than friend and that is where the confusion sets in. Doubt you will stand a day if you meet my type. what is your type abeg? You be Shakespeare? All these bros wey go come NL dey feel frosh, awon heart-breaker. |
Re: 10 Excuses Nigerian Guys Use To Justify Their Inability To Approach A Lady by Nobody: 9:25pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
If no be konji Wetin concern me and toasting a girl. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Excuses Nigerian Guys Use To Justify Their Inability To Approach A Lady by safarigirl(f): 9:27pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
otunsman: Why do girls always find it hard to tell a guy who tries to woo them that they already have boyfriends and no more?They will rather want to add him to the lists of their numerous boyfriends.They will even give him their phone numbers and still be ignoring his call or whatapp messages in the name of forming hard to get.I wonder if they can do all these forming to guyz like wizkid and Davido. bros, this one na lie. The most commonly told lie by girls when they don't like a dude is the "I'm in a relationship" line, but most guys go dey form James Bond, come ask "Is he afraid of competition?" or "I'm ready to fight for your love"(oho! As per Romeo wey dem be) |
Re: 10 Excuses Nigerian Guys Use To Justify Their Inability To Approach A Lady by Nobody: 9:28pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
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Re: 10 Excuses Nigerian Guys Use To Justify Their Inability To Approach A Lady by Revolva(m): 9:28pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
7) I Prefer Foreign Women to Nigerian: All na wash! So of all the millions of women in Naija, you can't find a suitable one for yourself, na for foreign land you go see am? My guy, your problem no be Naija women, your problem is internal. Search yourself and tell urself the truth! [quote][/quote] Omo I like foreign babe...I beg naija babe's r disasters n unfaithful biased.kind of females...ok @lexingtonsteele damm bro so u r now on nairaland LMFAO d world greatest Bleep star |
Re: 10 Excuses Nigerian Guys Use To Justify Their Inability To Approach A Lady by Raalsalghul: 9:31pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
All these are not excuses, but genuine reasons. |
Re: 10 Excuses Nigerian Guys Use To Justify Their Inability To Approach A Lady by Nobody: 9:31pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
Orikinla: [size=18pt]Leave Nigerian guys alone. Chasing money will guaranty their security and welfare and not chasing Nigerian girls who in most cases are spongers. [/size] DON'T MIND THE OP. OUR WOMEN ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR A SECOND FATHER, AND WE DON'T WANT TO BECOME SECOND FATHER . THAT'S WHY WE DON'T WOO THEM. 3 Likes |
Re: 10 Excuses Nigerian Guys Use To Justify Their Inability To Approach A Lady by Nobody: 9:32pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
safarigirl: what is your type abeg? You be Shakespeare? All these bros wey go come NL dey feel frosh, awon heart-breaker. Well am not a heart breaker cos I ain't break any Ladies' heart I guess they break their own heart.I love to be sincere cos I don't wanna waste people's time cos I know the value of time and as a result I tried to extricate myself which is heartbreaking to them but in good term is best for them cos it saves them time.Whats my type? Well Let's say my type are ones you won't want to say more than "Hi" to on a good day because anything more than "Hi" results in an Heartbreak. |
Re: 10 Excuses Nigerian Guys Use To Justify Their Inability To Approach A Lady by Nobody: 9:33pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
safarigirl: bros, this one na lie. The most commonly told lie by girls when they don't like a dude is the "I'm in a relationship" line, but most guys go dey form James Bond, come ask "Is he afraid of competition?" or "I'm ready to fight for your love"(oho! As per Romeo wey dem be) Once a girl tells me she is taken,I am out. |
Re: 10 Excuses Nigerian Guys Use To Justify Their Inability To Approach A Lady by Nobody: 9:34pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
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Re: 10 Excuses Nigerian Guys Use To Justify Their Inability To Approach A Lady by harry509: 9:34pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
LaurelP: Every guy knows that its not an easy feat to successfully approach and woo a lady. Even the most confident of guys usually need to "gather morale" before doing the needful.
This could stem from the fact that you don't know what the outcome of the action you're about taking might be.
Another reason is the fear of rejection, nobody wants to feel ridiculed or like a looser sort of. We are all created with a sense of self worth and we crave for respect and regard which is normal.
However, society has made it look like a guy who cannot approach a lady is not a "real man". Such a guy is mocked by friends, relatives and even the female folk. As a result of this utter mockery and in order to live up to the expectation of the society, guys come up with some funny excuses to defend themselves and also to remove their mind from trying to approach ladies.
Below are some of the excuses guys give themselves and others for their inability to approach women.
1) Naija girls are gold diggers: I'm sure you've heard or read many guys make such comments. They be like "Naija girls too like money jare, if you no get money forget am!" The truth is that this is not a valid excuse at all. No matter your level of economic power, there is always a woman out there who will accept you the way you are. you don't need to have money to find love anywhere, besides I know some really poor guys dating rich chicks and even eating from them sef. What you need more is self confidence and social skills.
2) I Don't Have Time for Girls Now: I hear this all the time and all I see is a guy who is frustrated about his inability to successfully woo a woman. I mean is there any such thing as a separate time you need to have for a woman? Lolz... Guys please enlighten me on what it means to have time for women. U ask a guy "What of your girlfriend?". He goes like "Which girlfriend, I don't have their time oo". When I hear this I just laugh!
3) Girls are a Distraction: For real? You that has been jobless for 5 years after graduation, how is it a girl's fault? It is you that is a distraction to yourself not girls. How come all these footballers, musicians, entertainers, bankers, doctors, oil guys that I see change chicks like wrapper don't get distracted, na u come dey get distracted. My guy forget excuse and do the needful.
4) Women bring Badluck: Lols... I don't even know what to say about this one. You hear guys say that if you want to make it in life, forget women. Funny thing is, they can't! The more they try, the more they fail. Men and women have been created to 'complete' each other so my guy, unless you're gay.....
5) She's too Pompous/disrespectful: No my guy, you're too timid, that's the truth. You have the right to woo any woman you like, she has the right to agree or disagree. Don't give away your right, exercise it! Btw, research has shown that ladies who seem too pompous are usually much easier to convince than guys tend to think.
6) I can't Satisfy her Sexually: Most guys won't voice out this excuse at all, only to very close friends if he's the very open type. This however is not a valid excuse. How do you know you can't satisfy her? How do you even know she's after sex? Must you Bleep every girl you date? Enough said jareh...
7) I Prefer Foreign Women to Nigerian: All na wash! So of all the millions of women in Naija, you can't find a suitable one for yourself, na for foreign land you go see am? My guy, your problem no be Naija women, your problem is internal. Search yourself and tell urself the truth!
No Responsible Woman Anymore: If I hear! Maybe you want a Mary magdalene or virgin Mary. Guy, if na responsible woman be your excuse, why not enter Deeper life, Jehova Witness, mountain of Fire and the various mosques and look for them? Why look for responsible women at Allen Junction? Mtcheeew...
9) I Prefer to Roll With my Fellow Guys: You be gay? Yes its good to have a good rapport with fellow guys, to have fun and drink with guys with no chick around once in a while. But my guy don't use it as an excuse, because very soon those your guys will start asking you to go and look for a chick. They will soon start laughing at you bro.
10) Complete it.
LaurelP
most naija babe's Rr gold digger's. |
Re: 10 Excuses Nigerian Guys Use To Justify Their Inability To Approach A Lady by ronald4lif(m): 9:35pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
sonofananimal: I SEE AM NA. HE NO FIT SECURE VISA THAT'S WHY HE DEY TALK LIKE THAT.
I DEY SURE HE DEY AMONG THOSE DEPORTEE WERE DEM BRING COME NIGERIA Lol! Maybe e follow for those wey dem deport from Cameroon o. Abeg teach him the difference between team foreign girls and Naija babes. |
Re: 10 Excuses Nigerian Guys Use To Justify Their Inability To Approach A Lady by Piuscrown: 9:35pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
M responsible 4 dem, lately i tried denying myself of those proofs only to make myself look like a fool, i guess am just being dumb toward ladies 1 Like |
Re: 10 Excuses Nigerian Guys Use To Justify Their Inability To Approach A Lady by nwadiuko1(m): 9:40pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
otunsman: Why do girls always find it hard to tell a guy who tries to woo them that they already have boyfriends and no more?They will rather want to add him to the lists of their numerous boyfriends.They will even give him their phone numbers and still be ignoring his call or whatapp messages in the name of forming hard to get.I wonder if they can do all these forming to guyz like wizkid and Davido. there are girls who don't trip for the likes of davido or wizkid Infact I knw of one 1 Like |
Re: 10 Excuses Nigerian Guys Use To Justify Their Inability To Approach A Lady by fhranchez(m): 9:41pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
LaurelP: Every guy knows that its not an easy feat to successfully approach and woo a lady. Even the most confident of guys usually need to "gather morale" before doing the needful.
This could stem from the fact that you don't know what the outcome of the action you're about taking might be.
Another reason is the fear of rejection, nobody wants to feel ridiculed or like a looser sort of. We are all created with a sense of self worth and we crave for respect and regard which is normal.
However, society has made it look like a guy who cannot approach a lady is not a "real man". Such a guy is mocked by friends, relatives and even the female folk. As a result of this utter mockery and in order to live up to the expectation of the society, guys come up with some funny excuses to defend themselves and also to remove their mind from trying to approach ladies.
Below are some of the excuses guys give themselves and others for their inability to approach women.
1) Naija girls are gold diggers: I'm sure you've heard or read many guys make such comments. They be like "Naija girls too like money jare, if you no get money forget am!" The truth is that this is not a valid excuse at all. No matter your level of economic power, there is always a woman out there who will accept you the way you are. you don't need to have money to find love anywhere, besides I know some really poor guys dating rich chicks and even eating from them sef. What you need more is self confidence and social skills.
2) I Don't Have Time for Girls Now: I hear this all the time and all I see is a guy who is frustrated about his inability to successfully woo a woman. I mean is there any such thing as a separate time you need to have for a woman? Lolz... Guys please enlighten me on what it means to have time for women. U ask a guy "What of your girlfriend?". He goes like "Which girlfriend, I don't have their time oo". When I hear this I just laugh!
3) Girls are a Distraction: For real? You that has been jobless for 5 years after graduation, how is it a girl's fault? It is you that is a distraction to yourself not girls. How come all these footballers, musicians, entertainers, bankers, doctors, oil guys that I see change chicks like wrapper don't get distracted, na u come dey get distracted. My guy forget excuse and do the needful.
4) Women bring Badluck: Lols... I don't even know what to say about this one. You hear guys say that if you want to make it in life, forget women. Funny thing is, they can't! The more they try, the more they fail. Men and women have been created to 'complete' each other so my guy, unless you're gay.....
5) She's too Pompous/disrespectful: No my guy, you're too timid, that's the truth. You have the right to woo any woman you like, she has the right to agree or disagree. Don't give away your right, exercise it! Btw, research has shown that ladies who seem too pompous are usually much easier to convince than guys tend to think.
6) I can't Satisfy her Sexually: Most guys won't voice out this excuse at all, only to very close friends if he's the very open type. This however is not a valid excuse. How do you know you can't satisfy her? How do you even know she's after sex? Must you Bleep every girl you date? Enough said jareh...
7) I Prefer Foreign Women to Nigerian: All na wash! So of all the millions of women in Naija, you can't find a suitable one for yourself, na for foreign land you go see am? My guy, your problem no be Naija women, your problem is internal. Search yourself and tell urself the truth!
No Responsible Woman Anymore: If I hear! Maybe you want a Mary magdalene or virgin Mary. Guy, if na responsible woman be your excuse, why not enter Deeper life, Jehova Witness, mountain of Fire and the various mosques and look for them? Why look for responsible women at Allen Junction? Mtcheeew...
9) I Prefer to Roll With my Fellow Guys: You be gay? Yes its good to have a good rapport with fellow guys, to have fun and drink with guys with no chick around once in a while. But my guy don't use it as an excuse, because very soon those your guys will start asking you to go and look for a chick. They will soon start laughing at you bro.
10) Complete it.
LaurelP
but guy ehn.......u too lyk woman (echoes 2x) we single guys always have peace of mind and don't do crazy things in d name of love |
Re: 10 Excuses Nigerian Guys Use To Justify Their Inability To Approach A Lady by Nobody: 9:49pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
ronald4lif:
Lol! Maybe e follow for those wey dem deport from Cameroon o. Abeg teach him the difference between team foreign girls and Naija babes. LOLZ. IF I START TO EDUCATE AM, I NO DEY SURE WEATHER HE BRAIN GO FIT CARRY AM. MAKE I JUST LEAVE AM LIKE THAT. WITH TIME HIM GO UNDERSTAND |
Re: 10 Excuses Nigerian Guys Use To Justify Their Inability To Approach A Lady by safarigirl(f): 9:52pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
starlingslimnet: Well am not a heart breaker cos I ain't break any Ladies' heart I guess they break their own heart.I love to be sincere cos I don't wanna waste people's time cos I know the value of time and as a result I tried to extricate myself which is heartbreaking to them but in good term is best for them cos it saves them time.Whats my type? Well Let's say my type are ones you won't want to say more than "Hi" to on a good day because anything more than "Hi" results in an Heartbreak. lol. Such delusions of grandeur, the Orijin never comot from your system. G'night bro |
Re: 10 Excuses Nigerian Guys Use To Justify Their Inability To Approach A Lady by safarigirl(f): 9:53pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
otunsman: Once a girl tells me she is taken,I am out. that's you. You're one in 27-33%, the rest.... |
Re: 10 Excuses Nigerian Guys Use To Justify Their Inability To Approach A Lady by Nobody: 9:54pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
safarigirl: lol. Such delusions of grandeur, the Orijin never comot from your system. G'night bro sweet dreams.... Bidding goodnight so early |
Re: 10 Excuses Nigerian Guys Use To Justify Their Inability To Approach A Lady by Kolinzzz7787(m): 9:55pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
Op! U v done well!!! jst dat evri one hv his own decision 2 make, it all boils dwn 2 self-discipline! |
Re: 10 Excuses Nigerian Guys Use To Justify Their Inability To Approach A Lady by Toks2008(m): 9:56pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
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Re: 10 Excuses Nigerian Guys Use To Justify Their Inability To Approach A Lady by Limerick: 9:57pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
ABIOLAXYZ: I dey feel like Obama lmao...gerrara here |
Re: 10 Excuses Nigerian Guys Use To Justify Their Inability To Approach A Lady by Piuscrown: 9:57pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
fhranchez: but guy ehn.......u too lyk woman (echoes 2x) we single guys always have peace of mind and don't do crazy things in d name of love But not always proud of it just lately i got this reply frm a lady i put all my effort 2 hve "you almost had me but u fumbled so bad 4 u how can u call urself a uni guy when u cant even approach a lady u jst gat to work on urself" i always got pissed off when they play their hard 2 get kind of game i wish they stop that. at least if i dont want u i won't come 2 u na why den playing hard on me 2 knw if i wnt u |
Re: 10 Excuses Nigerian Guys Use To Justify Their Inability To Approach A Lady by Piuscrown: 9:58pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
fhranchez: but guy ehn.......u too lyk woman (echoes 2x) we single guys always have peace of mind and don't do crazy things in d name of love |
Re: 10 Excuses Nigerian Guys Use To Justify Their Inability To Approach A Lady by safarigirl(f): 9:59pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
starlingslimnet: sweet dreams.... Bidding goodnight so early dude, it's past 10 and I have an exam by 8am. Already sacrificed sleeping time |
Re: 10 Excuses Nigerian Guys Use To Justify Their Inability To Approach A Lady by Piuscrown: 10:02pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
Toks2008:
Me im too picky and hardly find my choice and most times when i see my choice there is usually a slang. Me i don tire o You read my mind |
Re: 10 Excuses Nigerian Guys Use To Justify Their Inability To Approach A Lady by safarigirl(f): 10:03pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
Toks2008:
Me im too picky and hardly find my choice and most times when i see my choice there is usually a slang. Me i don tire o slang? Do you mean 'snag' like a defect? No one is 100% bro, if you find an 80, you can always tweak her a little to an 85 or 90, but you'll never get a 100. When you realise that, you'll find someone |
Re: 10 Excuses Nigerian Guys Use To Justify Their Inability To Approach A Lady by Nobody: 10:03pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
safarigirl: dude, it's past 10 and I have an exam by 8am. Already sacrificed sleeping time Alright ooo go and sleep dear.....ooo.....did I just called you "dear" well maybe you might be one then...I do enjoy our short chatting tonight.... looking forward to meeting you someday on another thread. Good night and sweet dream |
Re: 10 Excuses Nigerian Guys Use To Justify Their Inability To Approach A Lady by ExtraUniqueGuy(m): 10:04pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
starlingslimnet: Oh.... maybe it's because you have not meet my type....on our list there is nothing like Friendzoned. You might think you are doing that but in reality you are doing more harm to yourself cos the more you have a chat with us the more you become susceptible.... We can't be Friendzoned because to us we just wanna be nothing more than friend and that is where the confusion sets in. Doubt you will stand a day if you meet my type. don't mind her... let her meet with us extraUnique people... she'll know |