handie:
Op, I hope u ain't talking about my bae. If she's fair and in Unizik with all these other descriptions you've given, then she's my bae and you had better leave her. Did she tell u my dad is a colonel and I know where he keeps his service pistol? Well, if you ain't in Unizik, I'll advice u to try and do weeweechu with her.... That's ur only ticket outta this friendzone u find yourself.... If she's in Unizik, u better steer clear

What's weeweechu?

AfroKnight:
Give her space. Ignore her and get close to other girls. If she complains, tell her that she can only have you around if she agrees to be your girlfriend. Don't be there for her anymore. Make sure she needs you. Meet other interesting girls. That way you won't be dependent on her even if she finally says yes to you.

That's what I plan on doing, I have so many gals that like me, I plan on dating another gal and completely shutting her out. This same gal can't do without talking to me for a week, she wld definitely send me a msg , "that i should well-done, that I didn't greet her since bla bla"

Girls are just confused souls, I will be happy with another babe than her.

anelta:
Maybe she sees u as a brother or maybe she really likes u buh scared to be in a relationship wif u cos of sex...yea it's possible
Just ask her wat she thinks about u

I don't care if she friend zone me or not, what I don't understand is, if she has friendzoned me, why is she acting that way towards me, as if she has some other intentions for me.

Can u be acting that way to a guy you friend zoned?

the girl simply needs a school bodyguard to scare people of such your intention away..

friend zone all the way

FrankDude:


What's weeweechu?

You don't know weeweechu? Abeg who'll help explain d meaning of weeweechu to this gentleman?

sseunth:
well, it has been working well for me......a guy can't Bleep a girl alone....u share with em guys mst especially if it is in schl.....

So u are telling me that girls in Ur school use to open their legs for u after u have advised them and solved their relationship? Dude u expect me to believe that?

OP.
Let me explain whats happening here with the aid of illustrations

handie:
You don't know weeweechu? Abeg who'll help explain d meaning of weeweechu to this gentleman?

So u expect everyone to know every slang?

What's deedoski? U shld know what it means na.

FrankDude:


So u expect everyone to know every slang?

What's deedoski? U shld know what it means na.

weeweechu means when that long thing between ur legs stand at attention, goes into that hole between her legs. That's weeweechu

[quote author=FrankDude post=37502373] not noticing? What's going on?
You've been friendzoned but she wants benefits without commitment

FrankDude:
There is this girl (20 years old) in my university, we are in the same department, the girl is very analytical and a Catholic , she is pretty too and has class. She is also intelligent. I never knew she had a boyfriend in another university, whom she hasn't seen for a long time(long distance relationship). I didnt bo her to ask her whether she has a boyfriend because its not in my nature to do that, I just go for any girl that interest me. So I started showing this girl interest, although I didn't make it obvious because I wasn't sure how she feels for me, it was later that she told me she can't date me because she doesn't feel the same way for me, and that she has a long distance boyfriend. So anyway, we agreed to be just friends, after so many thoughts and fighting on my own side. But I still get jealous when I see her playing with another guy, anyway it seems I have overcome that jealousy.

What I don't understand is why does this girl like hanging out with me almost all the time?
She sometimes calls me at evening time to see her, she takes me around school(on feet) to romantic places, telling me how she sees couples making out etc. Always walking with me after class, although she has told me she doesnt have friends like that, anywhere you see me you are likely to see her. She is conservative, doesnt hug, maybe because of her big boobs i dont know. Although I have told her never to discuss about her relationship problems with me in this friendship because I hate the feeling of being friendzoned. So she has never done that. I noticed this girl does almost anything I ask her to do, and she always try not to get on my bad side. If I tell her that she is doing something I dont like, she stops doing it and would never do it again, almost like I have her remote control with me. The only thing she avoids is getting romantic with me, she avoids talking romance or anything that could bring up "love" emotions between us. I was shocked the day she asked me about my past relationships, who broke up with who? Have I had sex before? Etc.
She told me later that she has broken up with her bf and she might not want to move on, that she wasn't happy about it , broken up for the past three weeks before I
Finally decided to chip in "going beyond friendship" in my conversation with her. She said "don't let's do that"
I asked her why , she said we had discussed about it before and concluded. I told her people change and shit happens, and she told me she knows, that she still maintain her stance.

So I made her realise that once I have a gf I won't be spending time with her that much etc. And then she was surprised, saying my gf wld be matured enough to give me space, i told her it doesn't work that way.
It was later later that she asked me what prompted that ? That I must have thought of somethiñg to say it out, that it has been locked up insid. Asking me that have I seen a girl that I like? Why is she asking me that, if she is not interested?


Anyway thAts the major thing, the reason why I did that was to figure out if this girl has any hidden intention with me or something, what do you think?
Is she using me to fill in space of her absent bf?
What is she doing?
What am I not noticing?
What's going on?

I need both male and female advice and interpretation. Thanks a lot

Do a surprising thing for her, If you can buy her attractive gift and after this, let ur face be scarce or pretend you are sick. She will reflect her true feelings. This is not friendzonig, she's really into you. Dnt give up. She's yours but don't rush her...

[quote author=missmary post=37507815][/quote]

U mean she wants just sex and fun from me with no commitment?

[quote author=missmary post=37507815][/quote]

U mean she wants just sex and fun from me with no commitment?

I doubt that, because I have hit her on the ass before and she didn't like it, told me not to do it again.

fajani:
Do a surprising thing for her, If you can buy her attractive gift and after this, let ur face be scarce or pretend you are sick. She will reflect her true feelings. This is not friendzonig, she's really into you. Dnt give up. She's yours but don't rush her...

Can u tell me what u observed that made u say this. This wld be really helpful to me.

she has feelings for you, she's attracted to you and would like to be your girlfriend. but something stronger than her desire is holding her back. could be the recent ex or bf, could be uncertainty, etc etc. I advise you overlook your emotions and FRIEND ZONE her. focus on other girl for relationship and see her as a sister. if she can't open up about why she can't give in to her feelings, we don't have time to waste on her either.

runnazz:
From your write up I think u are a smart guy..just stop pestering her about the relationship stuff and treat her like she is your gf & see how it goes from there. A lot ppl say girls are confused I blv in taking adv of that confusion by confusing her the more and then you will be in control from then on. If it doesn't work find another babe but don't just dump her but be the one to friend zone her then..who knows it might come with some benefits

The only mature and sensible advice.

@op, change from being the hunted to being the hunter. Friendzone her or atleast pretend to do, that way, you will bring out her jealousy which will be rapidly followed by what you want from her whether love or lust.

FrankDude:


Can u tell me what u observed that made u say this. This wld be really helpful to me.

For her to disclose to you that she is no more in a relationship, she's simply expecting you to do something that will put her on the line... Buy her a nice scenting perf. She will really appreciate such thing.. Again she doesn't want you to mention another girl. Do a practical thing one day, fake a lady's call and look at her reaction

mordtonia:
she has feelings for you, she's attracted to you and would like to be your girlfriend. but something stronger than her desire is holding her back. could be the recent ex or bf, could be uncertainty, etc etc. I advise you overlook your emotions and FRIEND ZONE her. focus on other girl for relationship and see her as a sister. if she can't open up about why she can't give in to her feelings, we don't have time to waste on her either.

Hmmmm. Nice one.

FrankDude:


Hmmmm. Nice one.

Is she from unilag

fajani:
For her to disclose to you that she is no more in a relationship, she's simply expecting you to do something that will put her on the line... Buy her a nice scenting perf. She will really appreciate such thing.. Again she doesn't want you to mention another girl. Do a practical thing one day, fake a lady's call and look at her reaction

No she didn't disclose it to me directly, it was a conversation that led to her telling me she broke up. I don't think I wld buy her anything, that wld look desperate.

halfrica:


Is she from unilag

No.

FrankDude:


No.

B lyin telme lemme talk to her

Dnt u kno m d love whisper cupid master love surgeon let me fix ur love nd heart surgically

FrankDude:


No she didn't disclose it to me directly, it was a conversation that led to her telling me she broke up. I don't think I wld buy her anything, that wld look desperate.

that's the mistake many guys do, and that's what makes me ahead of all them... I have a name of a nice scenting perf affordable just 1k, cool river

halfrica:


B lyin telme lemme talk to her

Dnt u kno m d love whisper cupid master love surgeon let me fix ur love nd heart surgically

Pls be serious. What do u have to say to this?

FrankDude:


Pls be serious. What do u have to say to this?

M tryin to ease d tension off u

To me she likes u too nt necessarily as mch as u do
Bt she feels wen u date she myt nt av dat frnd again bt bf av u tot of why shd had u as a frnd while still datin she needs a bf nd a good male frnd sum ladies are like dat tho only if u can prove to her u can be her frnd nd her bf u kno she wud av had past experiences wiv guys too

Now dat she aint sayin anytin try ur luck nd talk to her never say never we all sing it bt never act it ok
Dnt buy her anytin for now u only goin to entice her i dnt tink u want ur heart broken talk to her as an adult treat her ryt bt no gift if she says no den move on wiv life nd stil make her ur frnd


Most bf always forget to be frnds wiv their gfs

Dats why most ladies datin stil av male frnds ok dats in my own opinion o never forcin u to bliv ok

She doesnt want to date hmmmm she is sayin it cos she doesnt just want to loose her frnd dat she is free nd comfortable wit

welcome to the friendzone op...never u escort a gal everywhere she goes,u be proffessional escort? abi u b hilux?

halfrica:


M tryin to ease d tension off u

To me she likes u too nt necessarily as mch as u do
Bt she feels wen u date she myt nt av dat frnd again bt bf av u tot of why shd had u as a frnd while still datin she needs a bf nd a good male frnd sum ladies are like dat tho only if u can prove to her u can be her frnd nd her bf u kno she wud av had past experiences wiv guys too

Now dat she aint sayin anytin try ur luck nd talk to her never say never we all sing it bt never act it ok
Dnt buy her anytin for now u only goin to entice her i dnt tink u want ur heart broken talk to her as an adult treat her ryt bt no gift if she says no den move on wiv life nd stil make her ur frnd


Most bf always forget to be frnds wiv their gfs

Dats why most ladies datin stil av male frnds ok dats in my own opinion o never forcin u to bliv ok

She doesnt want to date hmmmm she is sayin it cos she doesnt just want to loose her frnd dat she is free nd comfortable wit

Woman

fajani:
Woman

Man!

halfrica:


M tryin to ease d tension off u

To me she likes u too nt necessarily as mch as u do
Bt she feels wen u date she myt nt av dat frnd again bt bf av u tot of why shd had u as a frnd while still datin she needs a bf nd a good male frnd sum ladies are like dat tho only if u can prove to her u can be her frnd nd her bf u kno she wud av had past experiences wiv guys too

Now dat she aint sayin anytin try ur luck nd talk to her never say never we all sing it bt never act it ok
Dnt buy her anytin for now u only goin to entice her i dnt tink u want ur heart broken talk to her as an adult treat her ryt bt no gift if she says no den move on wiv life nd stil make her ur frnd


Most bf always forget to be frnds wiv their gfs

Dats why most ladies datin stil av male frnds ok dats in my own opinion o never forcin u to bliv ok

She doesnt want to date hmmmm she is sayin it cos she doesnt just want to loose her frnd dat she is free nd comfortable wit

presenting a gift is diff from giving her money.. Don't you like it if ur admirer buy you a gift....

fajani:
presenting a gift is diff from giving her money.. Don't you like it if ur admirer buy you a gift....

No its a signal dat m interested or m easily carried away by things

halfrica:


M tryin to ease d tension off u

To me she likes u too nt necessarily as mch as u do
Bt she feels wen u date she myt nt av dat frnd again bt bf av u tot of why shd had u as a frnd while still datin she needs a bf nd a good male frnd sum ladies are like dat tho only if u can prove to her u can be her frnd nd her bf u kno she wud av had past experiences wiv guys too

Now dat she aint sayin anytin try ur luck nd talk to her never say never we all sing it bt never act it ok
Dnt buy her anytin for now u only goin to entice her i dnt tink u want ur heart broken talk to her as an adult treat her ryt bt no gift if she says no den move on wiv life nd stil make her ur frnd


Most bf always forget to be frnds wiv their gfs

Dats why most ladies datin stil av male frnds ok dats in my own opinion o never forcin u to bliv ok

Ok, so she just wants a male friend, that she can hang out with during the evening, talking about how couples get romantic at gardens,move everywhere with the guy, make everyone think they are dating, does everything the guy asks her to do except romantic stuffs and be friends ever after. that makes sense uhn?

benkings:
welcome to the friendzone op...never u escort a gal everywhere she goes,u be proffessional escort? abi u b hilux?

Ode, go bàck to primary school to learn English comprehension.