Toks2008:


Google it.

refiner:

am nt struggling to cage any man......cos I knw my husband will never cheat on me.....

cheers!

Toks2008:


Without sounding persimistic biko dont ever make that naive comment again that your husband can never cheat on you but rather say you hope he does not.

The ealier you start shifting your focus from hinging your marital happiness on the purported fidelity of your hubby the better for you.

There0 is a wide gap between polygamy and philandering and i hope you know this..a man may not sleep around yet take another wife.

inasmuch as polygamy is not forbidden in our culture,no lady should kill herself over a cheating spouse.

As long as he does his duty in the home front and he is not foolish to cheat on you with impunity or have unprotected sex out there,you are good.

This thread only focuses of advicing the malefolks on how to prevent it but it will definitely never erase the fact that many men philander...so start getting ready for any possibility...if you like be too careful to marry an angel,that is no guaranty that he wont change...

Hard facts.

canalily:
..when he does he wil tel you...buh dnt come here to lament or petition for that

tommychow:
Toks2008 that knowledge in your head is too much. You go soon run mad oh! Lol

To an extent women contribute to the act of philandering. It is very common amongst "modern women" to belittle men of minimal experiences with women. You often hear even female Nairalanders say "abeg abeg, I don't want anything to do with inexperienced men". In the eyes of many women nowadays, if you have a record of being with lots of babes you're a "catch". Quite shallow, innit? And the same set of women will cry about the man's infidelity.

refiner:

he won't joor.....enemy of progress...

canalily:
jeeeeeeaalous wife to be

refiner:


hnmmm....cool.I concur wif u on dis....Jst hoping i dnt make a mistake of marryin such a man...cos i know dere must still be a faithful man,although dey might be few....

lilmax:
We nor wan overcome am na

Na by force?

Toks2008:


LOL! Thats why im pouring them out to nairalanders make my brain no become super saturated.

refiner:

canalily:
can we huh?....

Toks2008:


There are more than enough but the twisted confused and complex nature of ladies will always gravitate them towards the bad ones.

Realist2:
What kind of write-up is this ?, you're writing on a subject ' Philandering ' without giving a simple definition of it.

For those who may not know the meaning, Philandering is an act of having sexual relationship with many different women ,( in case of man).

Vikky014:

Toks2008:


Yes o..a lady will see a guy who has the pootential to love and remain faithful to her but you will hear these same ladies say..he is too old,he is not educated,he is too short,his head is too big but it is that guy who has no plan to make them the numero uno in his life that their brain will be saying Yes to...

Confused and complicated is another name for ladies.

Vikky014:
lol...accepted am guilty of almost all May God help us to make the right choice. it is quite difficult for most of us especially when one receives too many attention from the male folks... most times we Ladies find it so difficult to choose...
How i wish God made it possible for us to spend our life with four men atleast in marriage by giving us maximum of 4years i think the World would have been a better place for Ladies. or dont you think so?

Toks2008:


Wait make i take my drink finish whether i go understand wettin you dey yarn

Vikky014:
LOL. wont you like itgetting married to a maximum of 4 hot chics and spend 4 years with one at a time U can decide to remain with the last one till death ...Then Ladies can also practice same. How i wish God made it so

Toks2008:


Marriage is like a black market,no mater how careful you may be in choosing a spouse, there is always a dint of uncertainty waiting to happen and you must be ready to confront it head on. In marriage there is no good or bad choice but what we have is your choice so you just have to choose a spouse and dare the consequence else you will just be wondering and waiting endlessly with fear of making a wrong choice.

Richiy:
Keep busy. Joblessness only increases your chances of philandering.

refiner:
can we wat

canalily:
inbox me lets talk it there, huh

refiner:


I don't knw he to send mail dear

canalily:
its no big deal, jst same as nairaland. Should i tutor u?

refiner:

u can email me....

canalily:
pls gv me ur fcbk name

refiner:

dear I can't put it up here....