my girlfriend and i have being seeing each other for about 2yrs,last month we decided to try-it was her first time.i love her so so much, and thank God she knows that, but the thing is, we were talking sometime ago and she told me she spoke to her mother about it-you know, loosing her virginity to me.i was shocked&angry(although i didn't show it), now i feel so guity,and i havent bin to her house in a while, the last tie i went i spent 20mins
i feel so paranoid, maybe her mother would confront me, maybe she told her husband, her brothers!, i've being so close to their family, now i feel like i betrayed their trust,
so my question is
1.ladies:when you lost your virginity did u tell your mother?
2.Is it normal for me to feel this way?

THERE IS GREAT HONOUR WHEN THE MARRIAGE BED IS NOT DFILED BEFORE MARRIAGE.


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Rotflmao!!!

If you know what you did was right, you wouldn't have any inhibitions/guilty conscience going to her house. Scaredy cat!!! You had better man up and face the music!!!

2.Is it normal for me to feel this way?

It is very normal to feel this way when you've been caught stealing meat from the cooking pot.

What, I cant, we are not that close.

if she asks, hell yeahhhhhhh i will tell her
walking up to her and telling her, nah cant do that or maybe

ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh lawd i nor fit laugh jesus
dont feel bad, it depends on the relationship she has with her mother, if they are very close that might account for it
her mum could advise her about contraception and stuff
it sounds funny to me and its something i didnt bother to do. there was just no need for it but like i said she must be very very close to her mum
i know of someone who didnt say yes to her present boyfriend untill she discussed it with her mother

Relax but thats more responsibility for you in the eyes of her peeps sha. esp if she is still young sort of

why should i.which mother would like to hear that her daughter who is not yet married is no longer a virgin.some things are better left unsaid.

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me way be guy sef, i don't think i can talk to my mum about my sex life, they must be really close.

me sef na the calabar house girl named Ekaete na im disvirgin me at 17yrs.Omo the babe fine no be small wit her big yansh and yellow pawpaw skin

Ladies:when You Lost Your Virginity Did U Tell Your Mother?

Nope.
Would prefer her to think that I'm still her sweet little girl. 

No matter how close we are I can't tell her,she'll even cry if she knows that I lost it before marriage!so why make her cry?

What a stupid Q to ask, why not ladies, when u get bleeped by ur husband, did u tell u father?

carlosikem:

THERE IS GREAT HONOUR WHEN THE MARRIAGE BED IS NOT DFILED BEFORE MARRIAGE.


ALL FORNICATROS AND ADULTERERS WILL GO TO HELL.

READ your BIBLE

Supporyed by moi
. Moreova here no b America wey be say parents dey even buy condom for der pikin

freecocoa:

No matter how close we are I can't tell her,she'll even cry if she knows that I lost it before marriage!so why make her cry?

My freecocoa is no longer a Virgin,

All u imbecileees talking about hell wud rot in hell. . . .

Poster, keep it cool but if the mumc tackles u, smile n politely leave

its very normal to feeeel that way and yu`ll get over it soon but that dependent on the mum`s reactions to u, but in a any case, try and be yourself.

no be small telling, wen i dd it with my 1st chick, i bin tell my mama oooo

lol

Bros, why fornicate now. Now your mind no dey settle.

carlosikem:
THERE IS GREAT HONOUR WHEN THE MARRIAGE BED IS NOT DFILED BEFORE MARRIAGE.


ALL FORNICATROS AND ADULTERERS WILL GO TO HELL.

READ your BIBLE

Some Christians, in NL and real life, show tendencies of nymphomania. Children are hungry, politicians are stealing, and rapists and murderers are free. A member suffering conundrum asked for genuine advice and you, son of God, are here shouting and condemning him to hell. I'm sure the story turned you on and you're shouting to somehow release the excitement you felt. Na my theory sha. I don't know why else some Christians would keep clicking on the Romance and Sexuality forums to read romance-ridden posts, only to shout at and condemn people who never send them.

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@OP, it's very normal. I've never heard of any girl discussing such with her mum lol. Sounds awkward really. I guess your girlfriend and her mum are very close.