This ‘letter’ has two purposes: To Warn and to Advice.
The Warning Part
A friend once told me of how a guy was pestering her life with all manner of suggestive texts and suspicious gestures, trying to FORCE her into an unscrupulous relationship.
I was pissed because my dear was being threatened and more pissed because he was ignorantly stubborn hoping he could date someone like my friend- who’s got morals.
Some guys of today, go around with the malicious mindset that the size of their manhood can substitute the size of their “mindhood”. Simply put: Don’t build your life around No girl- It’s not worth it. Build around a worthy goal and all these other things shall be added unto you It’s plain illiteracy to go after a girl that way!
The ADVICE Part
This is like the body of this thread; REASONS YOU SHOULD NEVER FORCE YOURSELF ON ANY GIRL, in view of a relationship.
Quickly, let’s see a few:
1. All ladies are the same
I’m not on the contrary… You see, it beats my imagination how guys move from one girl to another, does she have a different ‘privy part’ from the other girl? Because, that’s the major reasons guys cheat. Don’t FORCE yourself on any girl because there is so much more than meets the eye, so carefully take note of the nuances and unspoken words, body movements and gestures. Break Up is an unnecessary evil.
2. We are told to Approach and not to Encroach
In my little time around ladies, whether friends or crushes; I’ve discovered that you could actually be encroaching thinking you are approaching. Before getting too involved, be sure it’s not in vain. “Years Of Friendzoning Makes A Guy Look Like He’s Been Duped”
Approach her if you like her. When you discover her heart is elsewhere, dump her.
3. Girls Need Guys More Than Guys Need Them
Am I quoting Scriptures here? Before someone calls me a chauvinist, the Bible spoke about, in the ET, it will be seven ladies to just one guy. Take it or leave it, girls wish they could ask guys out . For many reasons; Protection, Financial assistance, Warmth, Leadership, Companionship etc. Guys, don’t FORCE yourself on any lady, whosoever please.
4. It Sends The Wrong Signal
Trying to get her to like you in a short period of time sends the opposite message. Good intention, yea, but it sends a “Desperate Call” to her. Not FORCING yourself on any accords you some form of honour and avoid insults too.
5. The “You Forced Me Into This Relationship” Speech May Surface.
If you didn’t understand the rest points, at least grasp this point, don’t FORCE a girl into your life and family. If you FORCE her to come, you’ll do same to get her to stay. Fine or Average-looking, they’re the same; same sexual parts! In fact, let her make the choice of choosing you without any coercion from anyone.
Forcing a girl into a relationship with you is plain stupidity. Who says you can approach?
You can but don’t use the law of Force saying, “If I don’t have you, I’ll die”— Lielie, is your name Laila?
To me, state your aim for getting close to her, watch her reaction for days. React based on those figures.....

nice one

U CORRECT, but so guys can frustrate girls life ehnnn
you guys should grow up plssssss

Thumps up op.

Hmmm... Was guilty

You cant force a girl to fall in love with you.....
but you can improve the odds...

PinkBarbie:
Thumps up op.

It's Thumbs up

Darven:


It's Thumbs up

And he started digging into my posts. Lmao!

PinkBarbie:
And he started digging into my posts. Lmao!

Come on, I wasn't digging. Actually, I was amazed at what an incredible grammarian you were and I decided to read your comments and kind of gain a thing or two from your outstanding and intimidating wealth of eloquence. But I was disappointed to see that you were just a mere, imperfect, average mortal, capable of making mistakes. Mistakes you accuse others of making.

People who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones.

Darven:


It's Thumbs up

I just went through your posts. Amazingly, virtually all your comments are laced with heavy grammatical errors. Should I pay you in your own coin? Talking about first impression.

Darven:


Come on, I wasn't digging. Actually, I was amazed at what an incredible grammarian you were and I decided to read your comments and kind of gain a thing or two from your outstanding and intimidating wealth of eloquence. But I was disappointed to see that you were just a mere, imperfect, average mortal, capable of making mistakes. Mistakes you accuse others of making.

People who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones.

I wish you preached this to yourself before arriving at your "first impression" on that guy.

PinkBarbie:
I wish you preached this to yourself before arriving at your "first impression" on that guy.

Did I announce myself as a professional? When you proclaim to everyone that you are a professional in a certain field, you indirectly set certain standards for yourself.

Darven:


Did I announce myself as a professional? When you proclaim to everyone that you are a professional in a certain field, you indirectly set certain standards for yourself.

Okay sir.

some niggas aint ready to respect theirself lmao,can't wait to start seeing more comments and quotes.

PinkBarbie:
Okay sir.

Please, have you forgotten what you said about pointing out my other "numerous" flaws? Please knock yourself out.
You know we all learn everyday.