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Help My Gf Hardly Calls Me by 190: 10:53pm On Apr 27, 2009
well this topic is as bold as the subject
my Gf who happens 2 be in her finals @ a reputable
school somewhere in Nigeria hardly calls me,
she hardly even flashes, most tymes i send her airtyme and
she exhaust it on ONLY GOD KNOWS WHAT angry angry
I have talked,complained,beaten, done everytin but yet
no results,i recently met her family and things are kinda goin smoothly
although i cant fully say she's cheatin on me cos our relationship
is kinda a long distant one, we have been goin out 4 up 2 yrs now
and i dont fully trust her but yet still loves her like when i met her rite from day 1
pls 2 cut the long story short, i want 2 know why is it that she hardly calls me
she's not that busy 2 even flash or send a short i miss u message, is it that all these airtime
i send her,she uses it in calling other guys, im confused


ermac a close pal of 190
Re: Help My Gf Hardly Calls Me by 190: 10:54pm On Apr 27, 2009
@post
ermac why u go dey use my username take post now
u wan put me 4 wahala angry angry wink
Re: Help My Gf Hardly Calls Me by Czarskit(m): 11:04pm On Apr 27, 2009
~ Mumu ~
Re: Help My Gf Hardly Calls Me by 190: 11:17pm On Apr 27, 2009
@Czarskit
In-mate! tongue
Re: Help My Gf Hardly Calls Me by Honeyboy09(m): 11:37pm On Apr 27, 2009
@ Poster , Bro i feel your pain and you need to wake from your slumber , believe me bro she is cheating on you and also playing a Mind game with you , You are d man so stop acting like a baby , if you are intending to marry that kinda girl den ur making d worst mistake of your Life .

About d Credit she uses it 2call other guys because women are like that they dont appreciate what a guy does for them , You are been too nice and women don't miss Nice guys neither do they call nice guys , it's obvious she does not love you or Miss you i guess she only agreed to date you in the first place because of your Money , So bro wake up b4 it's too Late .Peace out
Re: Help My Gf Hardly Calls Me by Igwe9(m): 7:40am On Apr 28, 2009
190:

@post
ermac why u go dey use my username take post now
u wan put me 4 wahala angry angry wink

Being the first person to reply, why didn't you delete or advice him to repost with his own user name.
Re: Help My Gf Hardly Calls Me by 190: 8:01am On Apr 28, 2009
@Honeyboy09

Thanks 4 ur +ve reply
I have long tot abt this lik wot u even said
she has made a big sacrifice 4 me b4 in her life
and i tot 4 her 2 do smtin like dat wud make her
@lest change bt its still kinda d same,190 here
hates the girl wit a passion bt all the same,i love her wit
my life--i dnt even knw if its the long distance btween us
thats makin her act this way, i wud be relocation sometime soon
2b closer 2 her, i went 2 see her a couple of weeks bak and after seein her
tins were normal 4 sins den, bt i knw wit tym she wud change again,funny enuf
her family members complain she dont even call dem as well, so im even more confused
abt wot kinda girl this is


ermac
Re: Help My Gf Hardly Calls Me by hixxx1(m): 9:24am On Apr 28, 2009
Poster; Please dump her. Find another girl who will spend her money to call you. Dey plenty. Try nairalist.
Re: Help My Gf Hardly Calls Me by romsky: 9:32am On Apr 28, 2009
190 y not deal with ur multiple personality issue first
Re: Help My Gf Hardly Calls Me by pinkylady1(f): 9:49am On Apr 28, 2009
ehay sorry oh, but the fact remains dat if she reciprocate ur love

she gat to call u as much as u call her except she doesn't love

and so the best is just to move on, u'll always find some1 dat loves

u for who u are.

gud luck
Re: Help My Gf Hardly Calls Me by essentialB(f): 10:11am On Apr 28, 2009
190:

@post
ermac why u go dey use my username take post now
u wan put me 4 wahala angry angry wink


Poster,

You want to start another drama again. Your last movie is yet to be released into the market. Please we are not ready for another yet.
Re: Help My Gf Hardly Calls Me by ladybam(f): 10:17am On Apr 28, 2009
@ poster

i dont even no if there is really an ermac. so i comment my reserve lipsrsealed
Re: Help My Gf Hardly Calls Me by 49cents(m): 10:19am On Apr 28, 2009
to be frank sth ie really wrong cos love outta be a 2 way thing.
Re: Help My Gf Hardly Calls Me by ladybam(f): 10:23am On Apr 28, 2009
49cents:

to be frank sth ie really wrong cos love outta be a 2 way thing.

for one, he mentioned that he even beats the lady. angry .
Re: Help My Gf Hardly Calls Me by JJYOU: 10:31am On Apr 28, 2009
190:

well this topic is as bold as the subject
my Gf who happens 2 be in her finals @ a reputable
school somewhere in Nigeria hardly calls me,
she hardly even flashes, most tymes i send her airtyme and
she exhaust it on ONLY GOD KNOWS WHAT angry angry
I have talked,complained,[size=24pt]beaten[/size], done everytin but yet
no results,i recently met her family and things are kinda goin smoothly
although i cant fully say she's cheatin on me cos our relationship
is kinda a long distant one, we have been goin out 4 up 2 yrs now
and i dont fully trust her but yet still loves her like when i met her rite from day 1
pls 2 cut the long story short, i want 2 know why is it that she hardly calls me
she's not that busy 2 even flash or send a short i miss u message, is it that all these airtime
i send her,she uses it in calling other guys, im confused


ermac a close pal of 190
how many others do you beat? do they all call you?
Re: Help My Gf Hardly Calls Me by 49cents(m): 10:34am On Apr 28, 2009
lady bam:

for one, he mentioned that he even beats the lady. angry .

that kinda confuses the issue.whatever the case the girl does not LOVE him. he MUST move on, no matter how hard it may seem, in love too, when one door closes another opens. Love MUST be at two-way to last a lifetime.
Re: Help My Gf Hardly Calls Me by Secretz(f): 11:25am On Apr 28, 2009
ermac, are you 190's other personality? tongue
Re: Help My Gf Hardly Calls Me by IFELEKE(m): 3:50pm On Apr 28, 2009
This is another one from the stables of 190. . .
Re: Help My Gf Hardly Calls Me by 190: 11:21pm On Apr 28, 2009
@IFELEKE
I cant believe u wud say that of me!
wic one be stable of 190
i don turn nland movie director grin grin
i wud deal wit u later tongue

@Secretz
well ermac is not 190,he only used my login to leave his
plight,he follows nland bt do not reply cos he aint gat tyme
he aint here now if not he wud have replied ya post

@JJYOU
does it concern u if he beats her
all guys beat their gf
even ur bf beat u recently
no let me expose u ooh grin grin
Re: Help My Gf Hardly Calls Me by evergreen6: 11:25pm On Apr 28, 2009
lady bam:

@ poster

i dont even no if there is really an ermac. so i comment my reserve lipsrsealed


I wonder myself because they type excatly in same format undecided
Re: Help My Gf Hardly Calls Me by Nobody: 11:27pm On Apr 28, 2009
190:


@JJYOU
does it concern u if he beats her
all guys beat their gf

Re: Help My Gf Hardly Calls Me by sosisi(f): 11:31pm On Apr 28, 2009
well this topic is as bold as the subject
my Gf who happens 2 be in her finals @ a reputable
school somewhere in Nigeria hardly calls me,
she hardly even flashes, most tymes i send her airtyme and
she exhaust it on ONLY GOD KNOWS WHAT
I have talked,complained,beaten, done everytin but yet
no results,i recently met her family and things are kinda goin smoothly
although i cant fully say she's cheatin on me cos our relationship
is kinda a long distant one, we have been goin out 4 up 2 yrs now
and i dont fully trust her but yet still loves her like when i met her rite from day 1
pls 2 cut the long story short, i want 2 know why is it that she hardly calls me
she's not that busy 2 even flash or send a short i miss u message, is it that all these airtime
i send her,she uses it in calling other guys, im confused


ermac a close pal of 190



You better go and check yaself into psychia
Idiot!
Re: Help My Gf Hardly Calls Me by 190: 11:38pm On Apr 28, 2009
@$osisi
loook
at this moderate house hill goat
what gave u such foolish rite 2 bounce
in2 my thread and leave such comment here
are u sure u are ok,
i seriously doubt if u are
anyway im not gonna let u spoil my frnds thread
so pls beta go look 4 somewher else 2 put ur red neck in2
nonsense!

@post
anyway i have adviced him of a great possibility of this babe
cheatin on him,he loves her 2 much 2 leave her, so d saga continues! wink
Re: Help My Gf Hardly Calls Me by Nobody: 11:43pm On Apr 28, 2009
The audacity to say beaten on a public forum, it must be very natural where you come from. *Thread's definitely not worth my salt*.
Re: Help My Gf Hardly Calls Me by 190: 11:56pm On Apr 28, 2009
@stillwater
as if u can cook before that ure mentionin salt tongue

anyway how are u!
longestym my friend!

190yaris!
Re: Help My Gf Hardly Calls Me by Nobody: 12:24am On Apr 29, 2009
When was I ever your friend? undecided
Re: Help My Gf Hardly Calls Me by 190: 12:31am On Apr 29, 2009
@stillwater
we were friends since the tyme of the dino
see ur legs sef
Re: Help My Gf Hardly Calls Me by 190: 12:42am On Apr 29, 2009
@St☆rStruck
death bak @ ya
are we quarellin
plss, wink
Re: Help My Gf Hardly Calls Me by topup: 3:29am On Apr 29, 2009
The girlfriend is showing signs that she's losing interest in the relationship, if you're the one to notice that the relationship isn't getting as much attention as it used to then you need to know that you're the only probably putting in the work needed to sustain the relationship.

Seems to me that the girlfriend's taken a back seat, she probably doesn't really care where the relationship is going or whether it's being nurtured or not.

All you can do is to talk to her about this, because being humans we all have reasons (excuses at times) as to why we behave the way we do. Ask he what's her reason for not calling and neglecting the relationship and listen carefully to her response, if she becomes overly defensive then maybe shes not being genuine, if she becomes worried by it, it probably means the distraction wasn't intentional.

I can't really advice you more on it, because how you take the relationship depends on what response you gain from her.

However, if you get NO response, then I think she's already removed the relationship from her priorities, you might as well be going out with a recharge card - eating machine.

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