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Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by gloshennel: 1:43pm On Oct 29, 2015

GUY YU NO SUPPOSE GO MEET ANOTHER LADY!!! AND I KNOW YU MIGHT BE THINKING DAT UR WIFE IS POSSESSED BUT YU WUD BE SO WRONG...
TALK TO YUR FIANCEE MAN!!!

Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by 1trillionlikes: 1:43pm On Oct 29, 2015

shay101:
Hi everyone,

This is my predicament, have been dating this lady for almost two years now and anytime we want to have sex I usually don't have an erection. This is unlike me because usually I am very active when it comes to sex. Even when I watch a simple music videos I feel an erection in me. But anytime am about to make love to my fiancee, even if I had an erection it just goes down. Sometimes even when I succeed in having an erection it dies in the middle of the sex. We have never had a complete round of sex before. I thought something was wrong with me so I tried having sex with another lady and this didn't happen.

Please people I'm here because I need your help on what to do because am about to start marriage plans, but I don't want a marriage I will not enjoy or where I will be cheating outside. Please help me everyone including pastors in the house.

Thanks

try it with another girl, if the story is the same.......

sorry....

if not, the girl might have some unfamiliar spirit....

Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by flyingdutchman(m): 1:49pm On Oct 29, 2015

Durentt:
Dont get married now.
And stop includin pastors in every cause of sexuality. Jeez, dis nigerians nawaooo

You have a long-way to go in discovering ur true sexuality. Maybe Gay or transgender. Who knows.

***with full five fingers*** Waka!!!

Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by Chukky86: 1:52pm On Oct 29, 2015

You said you get arose when doing it other ladies just to save face. Op never talk true. You should stop watching blue film and stop wanking your john Thomas. Until then nothing.

Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by NemzySeries(m): 1:53pm On Oct 29, 2015

her pv55y has bin passworded by sum1 else

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Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by biz2get(m): 1:55pm On Oct 29, 2015

call her Attention and talk to her.... C'mon Which Kind Nonsense s this .... look Mr OP Yuu better deal with it better you marry that lady ,, she fit dey collect control for outside you wont even know it ....

Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by elobyobi: 1:55pm On Oct 29, 2015

This World is a cruel place, and not being able to have sex with the one u love makes it more unbearable. But should that make u love them any less?
It's not a rhetorical question o. It's confusing as hell sometimes, even though it's as simple as two options: stay or leave.
God help us.

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Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by elobyobi: 1:56pm On Oct 29, 2015

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Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by skywalker495(m): 2:00pm On Oct 29, 2015

ME: this is a fvcking case TRANSLATOR: Ife a b'ikpe ananana

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Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by tforever(m): 2:07pm On Oct 29, 2015

shay101:
Hi everyone,

This is my predicament, have been dating this lady for almost two years now and anytime we want to have sex I usually don't have an erection. This is unlike me because usually I am very active when it comes to sex. Even when I watch a simple music videos I feel an erection in me. But anytime am about to make love to my fiancee, even if I had an erection it just goes down. Sometimes even when I succeed in having an erection it dies in the middle of the sex. We have never had a complete round of sex before. I thought something was wrong with me so I tried having sex with another lady and this didn't happen.

Please people I'm here because I need your help on what to do because am about to start marriage plans, but I don't want a marriage I will not enjoy or where I will be cheating outside. Please help me everyone including pastors in the house.

Thanks

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Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by prophetfire: 2:07pm On Oct 29, 2015

I will advise U 2 halt that marriage plan and the two of U shud head 2 Mountain of fire deliverance ground to sort urselves out spiritualy.It may be spirit spouse issue afflicting one of you or anti-marriage curse or covenant upon one of you. I am not here to joke my brother.I hav see mysterious issues like this that science cant explain.

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Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by Johnsown1(m): 2:10pm On Oct 29, 2015

shay101:
Hi everyone,

This is my predicament, have been dating this lady for almost two years now and anytime we want to have sex I usually don't have an erection. This is unlike me because usually I am very active when it comes to sex. Even when I watch a simple music videos I feel an erection in me. But anytime am about to make love to my fiancee, even if I had an erection it just goes down. Sometimes even when I succeed in having an erection it dies in the middle of the sex. We have never had a complete round of sex before. I thought something was wrong with me so I tried having sex with another lady and this didn't happen.

Please people I'm here because I need your help on what to do because am about to start marriage plans, but I don't want a marriage I will not enjoy or where I will be cheating outside. Please help me everyone including pastors in the house.

Thanks

may be u too are ntt sexually compatible or maybe u love someone else instead of her.
It is either u guys meet a specialist or doctor
or u be chewing bitter kola when having sex with her.

Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by muchluv(m): 2:25pm On Oct 29, 2015

@op this is just sexual compatibility.... believe me. I have experienced this same thing. I took drugs, concoctions, psyched up myself etc cos I believed the girl was perfect. In fact everything was perfect except this issue. We had to end it and now we are happier where each of us are.

My advice. End it before its too late because u both would cheat and eventually break the marriage. But if u insist on being together, Try visit a shrink. That's was the option I never tried cos I was a stud with other chics.

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Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by 2tek: 2:29pm On Oct 29, 2015

Durentt:
Dont get married now.
And stop includin pastors in every cause of sexuality. Jeez, dis nigerians nawaooo

You have a long-way to go in discovering ur true sexuality. Maybe Gay or transgender. Who knows.

Read well. He had sex with another lady as stated by him. From ur contributions so far, I can deduce u are a homo and also on a mission to get converts. U are obsessed WT gay ND lesbians stuff from ur contributions on other threads. Ur life, ur choice.

Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by Goodegg: 2:33pm On Oct 29, 2015

shay101:
Hi everyone,

This is my predicament, have been dating this lady for almost two years now and anytime we want to have sex I usually don't have an erection. This is unlike me because usually I am very active when it comes to sex. Even when I watch a simple music videos I feel an erection in me. But anytime am about to make love to my fiancee, even if I had an erection it just goes down. Sometimes even when I succeed in having an erection it dies in the middle of the sex. We have never had a complete round of sex before. I thought something was wrong with me so I tried having sex with another lady and this didn't happen.

Please people I'm here because I need your help on what to do because am about to start marriage plans, but I don't want a marriage I will not enjoy or where I will be cheating outside. Please help me everyone including pastors in the house.

Thanks

My question is, did you trully love her? what was the reason you want to marry her! cause if you love her and found her attractive you cant be saying this!

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Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by teamobanabo(m): 2:34pm On Oct 29, 2015

PunkyVeer:
Never mind everything else, I still can't get over the image of you getting an erection from watching a music video. LMFAO. So when the rest of us are mindlessly watching & not paying much attention, you on the other hand are getting freaky with it. Go on with your bad self.

u eehhh

just dey observe u i 4D

Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by meshi1990(m): 2:42pm On Oct 29, 2015

PunkyVeer:
Never mind everything else, I still can't get over the image of you getting an erection from watching a music video. LMFAO. So when the rest of us are mindlessly watching & not paying much attention, you on the other hand are getting freaky with it. Go on with your bad self.

una bad mouth too much

Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by 123papas(m): 2:46pm On Oct 29, 2015

this is spiritual. you guyz are related

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Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by IGBOPRINCE: 2:51pm On Oct 29, 2015

shay101:
Hi everyone,

This is my predicament, have been dating this lady for almost two years now and anytime we want to have sex I usually don't have an erection. This is unlike me because usually I am very active when it comes to sex. Even when I watch a simple music videos I feel an erection in me. But anytime am about to make love to my fiancee, even if I had an erection it just goes down. Sometimes even when I succeed in having an erection it dies in the middle of the sex. We have never had a complete round of sex before. I thought something was wrong with me so I tried having sex with another lady and this didn't happen.

Please people I'm here because I need your help on what to do because am about to start marriage plans, but I don't want a marriage I will not enjoy or where I will be cheating outside. Please help me everyone including pastors in the house.

Thanks

nothing is wrong with you emotionally,physically,medically and spiritually.
But something is wrong with you psychologically. My friend, kill that fear and anxiety in you.
Your problems is just anxiety and fears. Depend how you relates with her.
Next time, smooch her, go hungry with her, fantasize about her, tell her to put on small skirt or anything that will turn you on.
Go inside her while your mind is off to another world, come back and release inside her when you know you re upto 30mins.
Make her say something like words/ screaming whenever you re riding her like a horse.
Chai, am off to politics section . No time for love. cheesy

Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by playtheblues(f): 3:04pm On Oct 29, 2015

arabianights:

I really hope he takes you advise seriously.that marriage is going no where if he marries her

sex is even more important in marriage than food but some folks don't know till they are already in.

Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by YabaLeftist: 3:11pm On Oct 29, 2015

PunkyVeer:
Never mind everything else, I still can't get over the image of you getting an erection from watching a music video. LMFAO. So when the rest of us are mindlessly watching & not paying much attention, you on the other hand are getting freaky with it. Go on with your bad self.

You're a girl, you won't understand.

Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by vislabraye(m): 3:11pm On Oct 29, 2015

shay101:
Hi everyone,

This is my predicament, have been dating this lady for almost two years now and anytime we want to have sex I usually don't have an erection. This is unlike me because usually I am very active when it comes to sex. Even when I watch a simple music videos I feel an erection in me. But anytime am about to make love to my fiancee, even if I had an erection it just goes down. Sometimes even when I succeed in having an erection it dies in the middle of the sex. We have never had a complete round of sex before. I thought something was wrong with me so I tried having sex with another lady and this didn't happen.

Please people I'm here because I need your help on what to do because am about to start marriage plans, but I don't want a marriage I will not enjoy or where I will be cheating outside. Please help me everyone including pastors in the house.

Thanks

This is funny

I've never heard anything like this before. May be you need to see a professional about it.
But On the lighter note, ask someone you know to screw her to see if he will get and erecction. grin

Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by brownsug(f): 3:31pm On Oct 29, 2015

Anoda way to say,I don use am tire! Who attention don help

Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by Baddestmudafuka: 3:39pm On Oct 29, 2015

shay101:
Hi everyone,

This is my predicament, have been dating this lady for almost two years now and anytime we want to have sex I usually don't have an erection. This is unlike me because usually I am very active when it comes to sex. Even when I watch a simple music videos I feel an erection in me. But anytime am about to make love to my fiancee, even if I had an erection it just goes down. Sometimes even when I succeed in having an erection it dies in the middle of the sex. We have never had a complete round of sex before. I thought something was wrong with me so I tried having sex with another lady and this didn't happen.

Please people I'm here because I need your help on what to do because am about to start marriage plans, but I don't want a marriage I will not enjoy or where I will be cheating outside. Please help me everyone including pastors in the house.

Thanks

Oga ur d!ck no gri stand cuz dah girl is a fu©k!ng ugly muthafuck€r. Use black nylon cover her extra wowo face and fuk her till she fine angry

Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by hardychris(m): 3:42pm On Oct 29, 2015

Maybe she's your biological sister, please ask your parents if they ever played an away match.

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Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by hardychris(m): 3:43pm On Oct 29, 2015

vislabraye:

This is funny I've never heard anything like this before. May be you need to see a professional about it.
But On the lighter note, ask someone you know to screw her to see if he will get and erecction. .

abi? Hahahaa grin

Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by omoharry(f): 3:52pm On Oct 29, 2015

colp2015:
Premarital sex is a sin; it exposes humans to diseases and untimely death.

Na so Anty Caro do...kept her virginity till 38 years and courted this guy without sex for three years; only to discover that the man is impotent after marriage..she was silent about it for 7 more years.before blowing his cover to their pastor. Now she is depress and now talks to her self while walking on the street. So I believe in testing, even if we do not get down but the man must be able to have an erection somehow.

Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by babeface3: 3:54pm On Oct 29, 2015

YOU are not alone, you get what I mean? some people are already married and they are into this shit. It is simply, anxiety. This might have been fuelled by the personality of your fiancee. The truth is that there is always a down time for every man in se.xu.al relationship. During one of your downtimes, you got so embarrassed because of the way she reacted, it was not obvious but you felt it in your subconscious mind. That was when anxiety crept in. You started being eager to impress her and it got to a full blown anxiety leading to temporal impotence or coitus interuptus. Remedy: The first step is to let her know what is happening to you and then ask for her efforts, or call it help if you like. She just has to calm down and turn you on. Note this, dont rush in. Have the pre-intimacy for a while and then go in gently. Tell her you will get over it with time and if she understands, she would receive it with smiles if you fail and then keep turning you on. Dont stop after the first success, try to make it more frequent this time and get more intimate. She is the only one that can reassure your subconscious mind which sexuality is suffering inferiority complex. If she is not cooperating, there herbal based drugs that can put you back, then you can gradually withdraw from it whithout her knowing your remedy. You could also take her on a long night out. Both of you should get drunk and display "your stupidity" while making love. This reassures your subconscous mind. Note: S.exis "animal like". It is born out of a primitive instinct in man. The efforts to "cosmetise" it creating a disequilibrium in the desire by both partners has caused all such problems. You want to come in and she tells you she wants to shower "in the heat of passion" or starts teaching you what to do because "you are local". She douches and uses all sort of soaps and chemicals to wash the place forgeting that there is a scent that nature put there to stimulate and arouse men. These are some of the causes of the psychological problems. So, take the few advise above

shay101:
Hi everyone,

This is my predicament, have been dating this lady for almost two years now and anytime we want to have sex I usually don't have an erection. This is unlike me because usually I am very active when it comes to sex. Even when I watch a simple music videos I feel an erection in me. But anytime am about to make love to my fiancee, even if I had an erection it just goes down. Sometimes even when I succeed in having an erection it dies in the middle of the sex. We have never had a complete round of sex before. I thought something was wrong with me so I tried having sex with another lady and this didn't happen.

Please people I'm here because I need your help on what to do because am about to start marriage plans, but I don't want a marriage I will not enjoy or where I will be cheating outside. Please help me everyone including pastors in the house.

Thanks

Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by ab1x: 4:01pm On Oct 29, 2015

@shay101: Please ask the lady very well, she knows the wazzup. She is probably putting on a ring on one of her toes or fingers. I know what am saying

Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by Ray360: 4:10pm On Oct 29, 2015

400billionman:

Mr Psychologist.

There is a guy who lasts one hour and above when having sex with ladies but lasts only 4 to 5 minutes with one particular girl.

Inspite of the fact that they do have spontaneous sex with pre-intimacy, after like 10 tries, he cannot still last more than 5 minutes on her. Why ?

bro, First of all, let me quash this slew notion that might have burgeoned in you. I am not a sex expert or a psychologist, I am just a lateral thinker. Now to your question, It's still within the compass of my earlier questions. psychological problems in love-making ranges from lack of attraction, past traumatic experiences, anxiety ... anxiety is one of the core causes of sexual underperformance! Also, probably the guy is more attracted to ladies who he considers more mature and probably experienced than just a girl. It can't be a medical problem since he doesn't underperform when he does it with ladies

Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by Inoknowbook: 4:22pm On Oct 29, 2015

shay101:
how can this problem be solved? Because we are getting close to getting married.

Hey, I don't comment on Nairaland any longer because of insults from kids, but I have to comment just once more for your sake. I think and I believe that there's something spiritually wrong with your fiancee. She may have "spiritual husband, " if actually there's anything like that. I'll suggest u taking her to a strong man of God for deliverance. U may wish not to go ahead with the marriage until she's completely delivered, as doing so might entangle you into a bondage. If u really love her and want to marry her, get her delivered first from whatever spirit that is holding her. Trust me, I know what I'm commenting on.

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Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by MistadeRegal(m): 4:34pm On Oct 29, 2015

Take this kind of cross to the prophet in Area. He should have the kind of pako that suits the kind of demon that's troubling you.

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