PunkyVeer:
Only 8 months & you can't break yourself away from this mess? You got time.

Well, I don't believe that he tried divorcing his wife & was told to let it be for peace's sake. He's lying. He simply wants to have his cake & eat it too. How you can even love someone like this is beyond comprehension.

Let me tell you this, if he did it with you, then he is gonna do it to you. He says he wants to marry you, which will automatically put you in the same position as the 1st wife. When you become the wife, the vacancy of the side chic will be open for the next chic. Men like this hardly ever get satisfied with what they have or he wouldn't have cheated on the woman he married whether it was a forced marriage or not...which I also don't believe. Again, LIES. He's just telling you these wild tales to make you justify his unfaithfulness to his wife. It's not worth it. Put on your sneakers & RUN. Also the fact that he's trying to get you pregnant is a red flag. I bet it's the same old MO he used on his wife. History will repeat itself & this time it will be you.

Did you hear what I said? Yeah, I said run! READY, STEADY....GO

all4naija:

Hahaha... I like you analysis on this issue. Meanwhile, you slept early yesterday. I have the time on my shot when you did.

PunkyVeer:


Lol, but I always go to bed at midnight. How's your day?

all4naija:

You slept between the hour of 10 and 11. I can upload it here for you to see and remove it when you are clear if you want me to. It is good. How are you doing?

PunkyVeer:


Lol, is it? Maybe sleep blinded me that I couldn't even tell time I'm great too. How's the US of A this Wednesday? It's now winter over there, right?

all4naija:

Yes, it is! It's really cold this morning. I wake up very early and brush my teeth. On the image the following:

a) The red represents Nigerian time and you must have slept off by then because it an hour or two difference from the Nigerian time.

b) The green represents when you left the forum to sleep at about 10:49 PM

c) Is the time I checked on my mentions it's 7:56 PM when you must have slept off.

I sleep late and wake early. That is my nature. I wonder how you can go to sleep early.

PunkyVeer:


Lol, you checked all that? Should I be creeped out? Just joking. I was a bit tired though. What time do you usually go to bed? The winter lasts up until January or is it until February?

all4naija:

I did when checking my 'mentions' later in the evening. No, it is not a monitoring thing but a mention time stamp on Nairaland. It is December through February. It is not Winter yet but everywhere is cold.

I will remove the image in 5-minutes time. Okay?

PunkyVeer:


Oh, yeah I can see it & you're right. Oopsie.

Harbosede02:
Oh lord.....punish every lady dah would claim to love my future husband after we get married.

all4naija:

Lol... That's the last post you wrote on Nairaland possibly before falling asleep. I said to myself this lady must be lazy in a funny. Bwahaha... No fighting, hun.

PunkyVeer:


Ha! Lazy is the last thing I am. I have a mild form of ADHD, so I can get very fidgetty & restless. Can't stay down for too long. I got to move! It also disturbs my sleeping. I'm an insomniac. Sleep doesn't come easy at all because I "mind chatter" a lot at bedtime

all4naija:

You possibly think a lot and that is not going to help matter. What are you thinking about, lady? Is insomnia not treatable? Try to see your doctor for help. You can just accept your condition like that without doing something about it.

PunkyVeer:


Lol, what's funny is that I don't think of anything in particular. Just random thoughts. Sometimes I could have a song playing in my mind. Well, not literally playing lol. Just thinking about it I guess is the best way to describe it. Then it becomes this or that, which gives me little time to focus on sleep. It's not too bad though because I'm used to the sleeping patterns. It's normal.

How are your allergies now? Coping?

all4naija:

Oh, I see. Notwithstanding the insomnia needs a doctor help. The allergies are going to stay with me for a long time. With medications I can put them under control.

Have you ever been in love with a married man? Crush, infatuation or sort of.

PunkyVeer:


Hmmm, ok.

Well, I once was in a relationship with someone, turned out he was married. He kept me in the dark all this time until I bumped into an evidence & ended the relationship. They all sing, whistle & tap dance to the same tune of telling you fantastical stories about their marriage to make you stay. All bull of course. Even if it's true, still who cares? I was obviously shattered in the end but I just couldn't be with a liar. Lying pisses me off & kills whatever little affection I may have had. So that was basically it, on to the next one!

. That is interesting.

Igboboy59:

I'm In Love With A Married Man
Dear friends, I'm 25 years old, I met this guy
online via chatting and before i knew, we met
and we fell deeply in love.This guy is irresistible
when we met and i never prayed for something
more, because he was so caring, lovely and
loving, not only that he is so tall and handsome
as i have always prayed for. After a month we
knew each other better and every minute i rang
him up, he later told me and revealed to me
everything about him, because he is not the
flamboyant type of guy, i hardly notice that he is
loaded.
At age 33 he has a lot of properties and work
with a Ministry in Lagos, seconded employment
with one int'l institution, he got me int'l passport
and took me out of Nigeria shore for the first
time in my life.
I am from an average family and I'm not easily
moved with material things, I'm a working class
lady earning moderate salary and living well, i
had a relationship before him but not a stable
one.
He later revealed to me that he has something to
tell me that might tear us apart, i made up my
mind since it would not lead to my death, i bet i
have reached my bus stop, because he is also in
love with me. What a perfect match!.
Until the day he bursted it out that he is married
with kids and he was sweating and breathing so
restlessly, waiting for me to breakup with him, i
reassured him i will still love him at that, he
explained he impregnated the girl and his family
forced him to marry the girl... in short, three
kids, two boys and a girl from the woman,(first
boy and a twins).
I almost fainted, but pretended as if all is well,
at least he still managed to tell me to let me
decide to continue or not.
We both continued and this month make our 8th
month and he is already talking about our
marriage, he tried divorcing the first wife, but get
warned to let her be to make peace reign, i
noticed he loves me so much and also loves his
children too well too.
He is traveling out soon to study for his PH.D.
He wants me to get pregnant for him and do the
needful with my family and declare his intentions
of taking me as his second wife to his first wife
and family...
But at this stage i have doubting mind maybe i'm
ready to go on or not.. I don't feel like ruining
the woman's home, and i don't feel like losing
this my sweet love, he is not forcing me and he
wants me to decide for myself...
Please help me dearies, abuse are allowed at
least maybe it will straighten my brain.. but i
sincerely love him, he promised to settle me
down in another state and assured me that all
will be well.
The issue is i'm so CONFUSED.

all4naija:

You slept between the hour of 10 and 11. I can upload it here for you to see and remove it when you are clear if you want me to. It is good. How are you doing?

SirDorianGray:


#StalkerAlert

all4naija:

That is laughable. I know her better than you do. We have been discussing that way for long. For your information, I am not stalking her because I have a hottie. Jeez! What is wrong with you?