Adanna28:


For once you and I agree on something Lol Thank you for the compliment, I appreciate it

dukeolumde:




Ok cool. Adi mu nma. Ema nna ibu Alobam...
Ahuru ngi anya..

Adanna28:


Ahuru ngi anya nkem beautiful soul you are. xo

anumide:


honey, hate is such a strong word.
BTW, if you will tell the break up story, do it correctly. you were too broke to buy airtime.

oluamid:


"Too broke to buy airtime". Haha, Classic!

Funny cos you don't even know who I was referencing.

anumide:


baby as long as it is you, airtime was the issue. how was your day?

oluamid:

Don't be so sure.
My day has been a bit hectic. Yours?

anumide:

relaxing. had friends over.

anumide:

wrong!
they should both learn to deal with it, hurt, heal and become whole again on their own before dragging someone else into their lives. if not, he will end up making making the new girl miserable. I once dated someone whose story was just like op's. mehn, it was the worst ten months of my life and the biggest mistake I have ever made. (and I have made a lot of them).

yanabasee:


Is comprehension an issue?

OP stated categorically that he and the girl had sat over it and yet it doesn't work out... They're not hurt... They've had different views about things and so..it doesn't just work out for them...

Look... He didn't say he wants to handle the situation! You don't actually know what he's passing through, why advice him to deal with the hurt? Do you know if the girl in question is an ardent slut or some promiscuous free giver...and the dude can't withstand it...?

You shld read and digest what u read properly! I gave that advise becoz I didn't see anywhere he stated tht he wants to reunite... He begged for advise on how he'd breakup with her and I stated my view and you gather some fake balls to say it's wrong! do u smoke weed?

And sorry if you got entangled with a mental deranged dude...that's nanaf my effing beeniz! Capisce?

oluamid:


I sure hope you haven't been listening to Adele. Yeye woman that lady.

anumide:

there's one yanabasee above, he needs help. please assist him.

Mindfulness:



You can go back there.

dovetark:
We've dated officially for over 3 years, I have to admit she's a nice girl when her heart is in it, but certain events have occurred which has left a once blissful relationship sour. Prior to the series of events that have brought us to this point, I used to feel like a superhuman with her in my life (for real I could do anything I set my mind to do and succeed), but all that has changed... Life happened!!! We've both been hit by series of events that have adjusted our perspective on how we view life which has undoubtedly affected us. Since the beginning of this year, we've been on a free fall with our emotions. We've not had intense quarrels neither have we had intense passion being together of late (I admit, they both spice up a relationship) and we have grossly neglected each others feelings. We both played our roles in getting to where we are now, I feel the door closing in fast on us and I can't stand this flip-flop of emotions involved.

We've tried taking a break and that didn't work, I have suggested severally that we just remain friends and end the relationship but I really don't know why she doesn't agree to that. We can't just stand each others bullshit anymore but still a part of us wants it to go back to how it used to be I guess that's the reason we've been hanging on.

I am not here to cry over spilled milk, rather, I am here to seek advice on how I would successful end this relationship without it having profound effects on my psychology and emotions while maintaining optimum productivity as an individual. Please your comments are needed and appreciated. Thank you Nairaland.

Please don't just read, I need your suggestions.

anumide:


Wetin you dey talk? see as you're jamming everything together. sleep biko,you need rest. Pele o.
BTW, he is not mentally deranged. judging from your write up, he should be your psychiatrist sef

anumide:

there's one yanabasee above, he needs help. please assist him.

oluamid:


Sorry, I don't get into muddy fights. Fight your own wars .

oluamid:


Sorry, I don't get into muddy fights. Fight your own wars .

yanabasee:


You don't sound intelligent...

I'll excuse your ignorance!

Smh for lagoz girls... Always stupiid...

yanabasee:


You don't have to mention me when chattin with your boyfriends... I'm not in your league of nitwits...

anumide:

stop taking out your frustration on me, ode oshi.
BTW blockhead, I am not a Lagos girl, and it is all of your female relations that are stupiid.

yanabasee:


You're not just stupiid... You're sentimentally stupiid and local.... I should have known!

anumide:

classless, useless, senseless, shameless, witless pig. it took you 12 hours to look up the meaning of sentimentally?
what a pity.

yanabasee:


You're so ugly... Damn!

You poverty stricken bastard....I don't rush to reply ugly dark-skinny things like you!...

You look like your local masquerade... Why wouldn't guys swerve after meeting with a thing like you!

I'd let you rant ur sorrow out! Miss ugly!

And pigs are better off some ugly humans like you!

anumide:

Hahahahaha. lolzzzzz.
your brain ran out of ideas. so you had to analyze my picture to gather points. mumu.
this dark-skinny girl that looks like her local masquerade doesn't have self esteem/body-image issues.
find something else to say lowlife

yanabasee:


"Body-image issues" ... This is so becoz u're fvcking ugly that u can't even admire ur own self...

You're a Dirty gurL... Go take ur bath... You stink!

anumide:

chai!
the mumu can't even read properly. oma se o. person wey dey do you don die.

yanabasee:


This has always been your class of stupiidity!

I posted a comment making bold of a line and laying emphasis on it... And you inturn could not decipher my post...

Same way you originally misunderstood what the OP posted... You don't read and digest what you've read... You're too local and stupiid...


Stop quoting me... I've gained nothing bantering words with a local masquerade...

Ugly bastard, don't quote me again!...

anumide:

oya die. the local masquerade giving you nightmare has quoted you again. drink poison.
radarada.

yanabasee:


Indeed, you've been giving me nightmares.... I've been chased ample times by a local masquerade... STOP CHASING AFTER ME, I don't like you and I'm not single... Go away you devil...

anumide:
who needs your ugly ass to be single? shior. fix your life first, before you start feeling wanted.