akwara1234:
Goodday good guys in the house. I just want to use this forum to share my experience with you. I just ended my 1 year+ relationship because of what am about to tell you. I dnt really know if its true but my friends says that am too soft with ladies. Please guys before you propose to her make sure you at least see her "packages" even if you didn't touch them. But please NOTE: am not encouraging fornication. So relax let me gist u. I met this lady in my friend's weeding. I was his best man and she was the chief bride's maid. After the weeding we exchanged contact and that was how it all started. Long story short we started hanging out and finally we started dating. After some months I asked her to visit my place n she said that she can only do that if I promise not to touch her. At first I was reluctant but I had to agree with her since I don't even have the intention of sleeping with her. The first visit opened the door. She frequents my house at any opportunity. I never complained bc she does the cooking and cleaning. Yet I never touched her all those months. The far I could go was only a kiss. One day a friend told me that she saw my girl in a hotel with a man. I told her its a lie because her phone hasn't rang in my presence before. The next time she visited, I politly asked her but she denied so I told her to give me her phone but she refused. I forcefully collected the phone only to discover that it was locked with a password. She finally unlocked the phone after a dirty slap. Behold what I saw. Countless messages from different men, even her network was switched off which explains why her phone doesn't ring in my house. You guys wount believe things I saw in my woman's phone, a girl I thought was still a virgin, someone am planning to see her parents soon. With that vex I decided that I was going to have my pound of flesh so I asked her for sex which she refused. I forcefully undressed her. JESU!!!! What I saw left me shocked. This girl's boobs and tommy have so sagged that I couldn't even look at them. She started begging me to "come and do" but all I could do at that time was shade tears. I told her that if she will tell me the truth about her past I wll forgive her. I slumped when she told me that she has two kid who are with her mum in the village. She has been calling me since then but its over.

akwara1234:

Please guys before you propose to her make sure you at least see her "packages" even if you didn't touch them

IamLEGEND1:
the only message I got from this rubbish is:

1. You're a rapist

2.you're very insecure

3. you're violent

4. you're an ídiot

Jolllyjoy:
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm



op i thought chief bridesmaid is done by someone who is single,not yet married nor with kids or am i getting it wrong?



For a bride to appoint someone as a chief bridemaid then she must have known her itota..so how come she allowed a mum be her cheif bridemaid


Misspicy gal wen don born dey do cheif bridemaidna question....


So a gurl have been coming to your house,doing the laundry,dishes and the rest yet you dnt knw the way to her mum house abi



issokey,your story isnt too pure

misspicy:

yes it is possible,maybe she and the bride have been long time friends unless the OP is lying sha

Jolllyjoy:
hmmmmmm the last time someone closed to me wedded,she appointed a single lady since her best friend already had a child....



Issorrit.

misspicy:

you know there are different culture shocks right i was suprised when an ibo guy told me that wedding ceremony is done in the guy's church

akwara1234:

Goodday sir. B4 u call me names again let me ask u are u married? If u are, hw many men was she sleeping with when u were dating her? hw many kids does she hv b4 u got married 2 her? Pls be resonable!!!

Jolllyjoy:
huh huh huh huh.

IamLEGEND1:
the only message I got from this rubbish is:

1. You're a rapist

2.you're very insecure

3. you're violent

4. you're an ídiot

IamLEGEND1:
the only message I got from this rubbish is:

1. You're a rapist

2.you're very insecure

3. you're violent

4. you're an ídiot

sapiosexual1:
Moral of the story? That you were almost conned by ur bae isn't a caveat for all intending couples to nak themselves before marriage. It just goes to show the depth of your rapport with her. You dated her for a year, she visits everytime yet you don't know indepth about her, excuse me, do to you converse with ur bae? Soul searching conversation skills is severely lacking in many young folks perhaps cos they are sex /money hungry as the case may be.
Not once, not twice have I detected inconsistencies in the make belief lives of my past gfs (from conversations) which prompted them to open up. Maybe it's cos of my profession,that's why I have such skill, maybe.
Another redflag sign to know she has stuffs to hide is she would tell you that ur too inquisitive and you talltoo much whenever you try to have an in depth conversation. She would simply be uncomfortable, esp if she knows ur a smart kid

akwara1234:




Goodday sir. B4 u call me names again let me ask u are u married? If u are, hw many men was she sleeping with when u were dating her? hw many kids does she hv b4 u got married 2 her? Pls be resonable!!!

IamLEGEND1:
the only message I got from this rubbish is:

1. You're a rapist

2.you're very insecure

3. you're violent

4. you're an ídiot

Jolllyjoy:
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm



op i thought chief bridesmaid is done by someone who is single,not yet married nor with kids or am i getting it wrong?



For a bride to appoint someone as a chief bridemaid then she must have known her itota..so how come she allowed a mum be her cheif bridemaid


Misspicy gal wen don born dey do cheif bridemaidna question....


So a gurl have been coming to your house,doing the laundry,dishes and the rest yet you dnt knw the way to her mum house abi



issokey,your story isnt too pure

jrerico1:
dump