@ op life is more of personal decisions and principle because thatz what will take u far.so my advice is that u keep it just like one of the guys said here u own man wil surely come but pls u dnt hav to xplain y u are a virgin or financially independent xcept a to maybe sumone u want to settle down with.and again change the class of guys u hang arnd cos is inferiority complex that is majorly their problem. nne jisie ike odiro easy.

PunkyVeer:
I couldn't read past "popular moniker". Popular to whom? I guess even if you used your usual moniker, you'll still be another member on this site. Popular my azz.

U dey vex oo....

Mean niggress!!!!!!

gamaliel121:


U dey vex oo....

Mean niggress!!!!!!

Dumb nigga. How's that for mean?

missdrake:
first am an old member of NL but i just created this moniker to ask a question, infact am among d popular females in this section but i no fit use my popular moniker to ask this cos a lot of pple wunt believe me but what am gonna ask or say is just the truth.so my question is why do guys not believe me when i say that am a virgin.they will be like with all this things wey u carry ,but d sincere thing is that am a virgin not the olosho type of virgin ooo but a real one.for the fact that i make up, i dress smartly, i keep friends too and the jovial type makes pple thinks that i can't be a virgin.again am d type of girl that work hard to get her money thus independent always makes my r/ship void of trust.infact my last r/ship which was wtout sex packed up cos of this independence issue.my boyfrnd thinks that since i dnt ask him for money is likely am getting enuf money from another guy no matter hw i tried explaining it fell on deaf ears.i guess he just wantd sex and didn't know how to tell me that plainly so i had to move on. me being a virgin stems frm a personnal decision cos no matter how u want to prove it virginity i mean real one is a shining armour .cos all my life i normally get a rare type of God's favour even among my peers even while in school.apart frm being a personal decision i am very emotional thus if i have sex with a guy and he leaves me is gonna be terrible for me cos i can't just get healed easily cos i will feel dat i lost everything. apart frm d two guys i ve dated no oda person knws that am a virgin not even my female frnds cos they wil die of shock cos i ans their questions about sex and r/ship as if am a pro,cos though dey flirt most of them dnt even know anything about how d female body works.anyway i think i know much cos by his grace i read much.but stil what confuses me is y guys dnt believe a young lady can be a virgin or too independent.

note: am not a feminist but someone who believes in no sex no long throat for a boyfriend's money rather u work hard to make urs.
thanks

Delectablegyal??

I believe you, cuz u remind me of someone. I understand what you going through, u just have to keep to your own convictions no matter what going on around you. when u get hurt only you will feel the pain, you surely meet that rit guy

Op,
No matter what people say, don't ever give up now, you have come to far fromewhere you started from.

My guess is that u r in your 20's, in a matter of time your God-given husband will locate n you will enjoy the over hyped*** forever.
It's a matter of time. Don' t be discouraged about the fact that everyone is against your decision.

Like you rightly said, God's grace and favour will always has always been with, this is because your body is still holy which is his dwelling place. {I can very well testify to this also.}

However, don't rely on being a virgin alone, build yourself up for to- be-hubby- be courteous, have a good character, improve on your cooking skills and be prayerful above all endeavor to live a holy life all through and your marriage will be a great one n a reference to younger ones.

Lastly, don't always tell people about ur the status of your virginity, so you won't be misled. *Guess what, many girls here wished they were still one n guys also wished their babes were still a virgin. Hence, the reason for the insults..*

Note:
Pple should learn not to criticize, for the fact that you have not heard of it doesn't mean its not real. Haba! There are over 6 billion people on earth. Information is power.

Guys believe so because of their Corrupt Mind. (Their Negatively programmed Mindset)

Wetin dis one teach us now? If pple don't believe you just open the thing for them so they can confirm. Mtcheeeewww. Either u ar or not virgin dat shd be ur headache not for anyone but if u want them to believe you just ask them to try and insert it so they can confirm. Abeg story for the godss o. Abeg mature guy for frd in Abuja add me on 56991228

nutty16:
Wetin dis one teach us now? If pple don't believe you just open the thing for them so they can confirm. Mtcheeeewww. Either u ar or not virgin dat shd be ur headache not for anyone but if u want them to believe you just ask them to try and insert it so they can confirm. Abeg story for the godss o. Abeg mature guy for frd in Abuja add me on 56991228

Chisos!! I want to confirm
08056991228 bah? Is alright

PunkyVeer:
I couldn't read past "popular moniker". Popular to whom? I guess even if you used your usual moniker, you'll still be another member on this site. Popular my azz.

Jealouzzz folks envy!

iLUMeN8:

Jealouzzz folks envy!

Really? Oke doke

PunkyVeer:


Really? Oke doke

You sounded like you were bitter

iLUMeN8:

You sounded like you were bitter

Ok

.

PunkyVeer:


Ok

Your calm and almost mature response is surreal. I was kinda expecting an attack.

iLUMeN8:

Your calm and almost mature response is surreal. I was kinda expecting an attack.

Really? Well, sorry for the disappointment.

PunkyVeer:


Really? Well, sorry for the disappointment.

Apology accepted!