Ejadamen:

It has long been agreed that some people marry for the wrong reasons. Whether male or female, one should not marry for beauty, money ,  these things are needed but should not be the foundation on which a marriage is laid. Haba! The girls preaching 'no money no romance' i wish them good luck, they'll eventually find what they are looking for.  Same thing for the men looking for eternally shapely wives.  These people IMO have no business being married. Marriage is much more than that or are the vows just taken for fun?  If a man/woman wants to dump their partner because of a factor that is not permanent, then why did they marry? This is what gives marriage a bad name. 

A woman losing her shape can be encouraged to gym and get back in shape. A man who loses his job will not be jobless forever. Like i said there's more to marriage than all these flimsy factors.

so u are saying there is more to marriage that meets the eye?

na2day?:

so u are saying there is more to marriage that meets the eye?

Of course

na2day?:

so u are saying there is more to marriage that meets the eye? 

Ejadamen:

Of course

just making sure u were talking about transformers not the real marriage 

@ poster, because men get their pleasure from those easy conquests.

na2day?:

just making sure u were talking about transformers not the real marriage

Clown!
"so u are saying there is more to marriage that meets the eye?"
I'm talking about marriage.

Ejadamen:

Clown!
"so u are saying there is more to marriage that meets the eye?"
I'm talking about marriage.

u can't keep changing ur mind dear, this is not an election

na2day?:

u can't keep changing ur mind dear, this is not an election

Changing my mind how? You just like finding someone's mouth. Or is it not the topic we're commenting on again?

Ejadamen:

Changing my mind how? You just like finding someone's mouth. Or is it not the topic we're commenting on again?

me finding ur mouth ke? are u accusing me of trying to kiss u? abeg ooo, i get plenty wives for here, no put me for wahala

na2day?:

me finding ur mouth ke? are u accusing me of trying to kiss u? abeg ooo, i get plenty wives for here, no put me for wahala

Ejadamen:

na 2day?

this issue na serious one oooooooo.

@house,

He: Yes. At last. It was so hard to wait.
She: Do you want me to leave?
He: No! Don't even think about it.
She: Do you love me?
He: Of course! Over and over!
She: Have you ever cheated on me?
He: No! Why are you even asking?
She: Will you kiss me?
He: Every chance I get.
She: Will you hit me?
He: Are you crazy! I'm not that kind of person!
She: Can I trust you?
He: Yes.
She: Darling!
After marriage,
Simply read from bottom to top.

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Ha ha funny

very funny. does that mean if we retrospectfully analyse what happen between many husbands and wives we would discover the opposites?

annyplenty:

very funny. does that mean if we retrospectfully analyse what happen between many husbands and wives we would discover the opposites?

u no knw?na so e dey be my pple

nethacker:

u no knw?na so e dey be my pple

that means you confirm the assertion!!!!!!!!

nethacker:

@house,

He: Yes. At last. It was so hard to wait.
She: Do you want me to leave?
He: No! Don't even think about it.
She: Do you love me?
He: Of course! Over and over!
She: Have you ever cheated on me?
He: No! Why are you even asking?
She: Will you kiss me?
He: Every chance I get.
She: Will you hit me?
He: Are you crazy! I'm not that kind of person!
She: Can I trust you?
He: Yes.
She: Darling!
After marriage,
Simply read from bottom to top.

I tire for the NLs.

thanks all for your responses

The reason why men get bored on their wives after wedding are many but to say few.

1) When a woman lost her beauty when she was a single which attracted her to the man, definitely the man is sure to get bored cos he could not find that particular quality that cling him to the wife. For instance, a girl is sexy, smart, neat, and etc. but because she is now married or given birth to one or two she decieded to live like an old woman, men if at all am a man boring is an understatement. that is why women need to maintain thierselves and always keep thier body kinkin and neat and to act like some old rag.

2) In marketing we have what we called consumer desonaice whereby a buyer or consumer always feel dissatisfy or bored with the stuff he has gotten either feeling too costly, the qualityand other stuffs even if that stuff he bought is 100% ok the feeling always comes that apply to marriage too is just a common feeling but the husband have to accept the good which is wife he has gotten the way it .

3) while some husbands face that because the wife they married cannot satisfy them like the girl they ones hard. that boreness will creep in.

bomakris,

marketing inside marriage

Why should a man get bored soon after their wedding? people should stop playing with their life. Is he not old enough to know what he wants? I think that's gambling with life which is not good.

I think a man needs to settle down know what he wants before going for it as, you can't eat your cake and have it back.

Ellyada:

Why should a man get bored soon after their wedding? people should stop playing with their life. Is he not old enough to know what he wants? I think that's gambling with life which is not good.

I think a man needs to settle down know what he wants before going for it as, you can't eat your cake and have it back.

After the sun comes the rain.
Man's eyes gets wide open after "i do" cos all the lovery lovery is now different

While you guys argue endlessly over a topic that had defied an answer for enternity, you may want to read this:

5 stages of sex

1. Smurf sex: When you first marry you shag till your blue in the face.

2. Kitchen sex: When you've been together only a short while, you'll shag anywhere in the house.

3. Bedroom sex: Sex is routine and you'll only shag in bed on a occasional night.

4. Hallway sex: You pass in the hall and both say "Fu*k you".

5. Courtroom sex: Wife takes you to court and screws you in front of 20 strangers.

gentlegg:

Marriage is not easy at all. It needs a lot of emotional, psychological and spiritual maturity to carry on

Nice input

My people, why is it always about women. when a man does wrong, he gets away with it but if it is the woman, it becomes a www.com stuff why? getting bored is not on the side of men alone, it also happens to the woman but all she does is to find a way of bringing back the sweet thing she fancies in her husband for them to continue but the man goes outside instead!
She is the one expected to keep the marriage why? are they not in it together? if it is not ok for the men, then dont propose to the woman in the first place because no matter your shape, face, staus after marriage, the woman stays but it is not the same with the man. this is not fair ooooo because in heaven, there is no male fire or female fire o, all sinners both male and female will go into the same fire, abi?

Many wives do not know exactly their duties when they come into their husband's house after wedding. Go and learn more by getting your own copy of ''The Power Of Intimacy In Marriage'' from www.infidelitysolution.

Cause they start tieing wrappers all over the house and that can really be annoying. ,

Women tend to take good care of themselves and keep their appearances during the courting stage. As soon as they say the words I DO. They turn to glutton and fatten up like pigs especially African ladies, why don't you think we the men would get bored. Also, after marriage, you then truly get to see the true character you married, some women are great pretenders and are evil to the core.

if the marriage is founded on Christ, it will be refreshing. You will hardly be boring to yourselves.

Only husbands?
I don dey bored tey tey!
After 2 weeks of marriage!
Can't wait for my next husband!
Hallelujah to OPEN MARRIAGES!
Separate bedrooms, separate houses, separate states, separate countries, separate continents AND SEPARATE WORLDS!!!!

Thank you for showing me the way, Dr. Ngozi Okonjo Iweala!!!!

Wetin I wan take ole blockos do after 3 months?
I still love you o! But WOMAN must WACK!

Kanwulia: Only husbands?
I don dey bored tey tey!
After 2 weeks of marriage!
Can't wait for my next husband!
Hallelujah to OPEN MARRIAGES!
Separate bedrooms, separate houses, separate states, separate countries, separate continents AND SEPARATE WORLDS!!!!

Thank you for showing me the way, Dr. Ngozi Okonjo Iweala!!!!

Wetin I wan take ole blockos do after 3 months?
I still love you o! But WOMAN must WACK!

hmmmnn,this wont be a bad idea for me,if i have to get married too