The word “sexy” in modern-day
society has become synonymous
with the matched drum-beats
and stiletto steps made famous
by Victoria’s Secret
advertisements. While that is
sexy, it is a very “high level”
approach to what the word really
means. Meaning, we see it from
afar, but don’t get into the details
of it.
Many of you may have clicked on
this article expecting to see a list
consisting of amazing legs, a
great smile, chiseled abs, and a
tan… But what society tells you is
sexy on the surface is often a
small piece of the whole puzzle, if
it’s a piece of it at all. The first
thing we need to do is get rid of
this damaging perception that
only women who look like
airbrushed magazine
advertisements are sexy.
There is so much more to it than
that.
So, for those of us who live in the
real world, what makes a woman
sexy?
1. Confidence.
Confidence is key. Being
“perfect” is not. A strong,
purposeful walk, head held high,
eye contact, and a wide,
welcoming smile go a long way.
Confidence breeds more than
just a strong presence or
attraction — it’s the foundation
for a strong life. Success,
whatever that means to you. The
ability to go after what you want,
which is also sexy. In other
words…
2. Ambition.
Ambition gives someone a
purpose, a drive, a direction in
life. Ambition is sexy because it
lets a man who has his own
goals see his mate as a partner, a
teammate, someone he can take
on the world with — and that’s
how a relationship should be.
3. Passion.
Passion for life. Passion for
another person. Passion for an
interest, a hobby, art, music,
anything that drives you. To see a
woman in her element and truly
loving what she is doing is sexy.
4. Kindness.
Kindness toward others is a
disappointingly rare quality in
modern society. Taking a few
moments to go out of your way
to talk to someone, showing
compassion to another member
of the human race, regardless of
who they are or where they’re
from, shows heart, and a level of
depth that could never be made
up for by a beautiful exterior.
5. Honesty.
When a woman is genuinely
herself and doesn’t change for
anyone, it shows many of the
above qualities all together. It
also shows that she has enough
respect for you to be up-front
with you and not hide anything.
How long will you stay in a
committed relationship with a
beautiful or handsome liar? If
you cannot trust your partner or
believe what they say, how can
you construct a solid, lasting
foundation with them? You can’t.
6. Class.
I’ve said it before, and I will say it
again. Class has nothing to do
with the price tag on your outfit.
Class is about the dignity you
carry yourself with and the level
of respect you show to those
around you.
It doesn’t matter what kind of
car someone is driving, what
part of town they live in, or what
brand of clothing they’re
wearing. If they have an ugly
attitude and embarrass others in
public, none of it matters.
7. Intelligence.
There is no denying that
someone’s looks are what
initially draws us to them. It’s
difficult to spot a great
personality from across the
room. Many a fling was built on
physical attraction alone, but
how long can it last?
When conversations lack depth
or intrigue, we often fill our time
with physical activity together,
but it is impossible to build a real
connection or lasting
relationship with someone on
that alone. Being intellectually
challenging and having the ability
to hold real discussions about
meaningful topics will always
trump shallow beauty in the long
run.
There is nothing wrong with
putting value on your
appearance and that of your
partner — we all do it. I know I
do. Physical attraction is the
fundamental starting point of
essentially any relationship. But if
that is the only glue bonding the
two of you together, your
connection will quickly weaken
and break apart. The flame may
burn strongly — but briefly.
You don’t have to win the lottery
in the gene pool to be sexy. We
may not be able to decide the
cards that are dealt to us, but we
can decide how we play our
hand.
Choose wisely.[center]The word “sexy” in modern-day
society has become synonymous
with the matched drum-beats
and stiletto steps made famous
by Victoria’s Secret
advertisements. While that is
sexy, it is a very “high level”
approach to what the word really
means. Meaning, we see it from
afar, but don’t get into the details
of it.
Many of you may have clicked on
this article expecting to see a list
consisting of amazing legs, a
great smile, chiseled abs, and a
tan… But what society tells you is
sexy on the surface is often a
small piece of the whole puzzle, if
it’s a piece of it at all. The first
thing we need to do is get rid of
this damaging perception that
only women who look like
airbrushed magazine
advertisements are sexy.
There is so much more to it than
that.
So, for those of us who live in the
real world, what makes a woman
sexy?
1. Confidence.
Confidence is key. Being
“perfect” is not. A strong,
purposeful walk, head held high,
eye contact, and a wide,
welcoming smile go a long way.
Confidence breeds more than
just a strong presence or
attraction — it’s the foundation
for a strong life. Success,
whatever that means to you. The
ability to go after what you want,
which is also sexy. In other
words…
2. Ambition.
Ambition gives someone a
purpose, a drive, a direction in
life. Ambition is sexy because it
lets a man who has his own
goals see his mate as a partner, a
teammate, someone he can take
on the world with — and that’s
how a relationship should be.
3. Passion.
Passion for life. Passion for
another person. Passion for an
interest, a hobby, art, music,
anything that drives you. To see a
woman in her element and truly
loving what she is doing is sexy.
4. Kindness.
Kindness toward others is a
disappointingly rare quality in
modern society. Taking a few
moments to go out of your way
to talk to someone, showing
compassion to another member
of the human race, regardless of
who they are or where they’re
from, shows heart, and a level of
depth that could never be made
up for by a beautiful exterior.
5. Honesty.
When a woman is genuinely
herself and doesn’t change for
anyone, it shows many of the
above qualities all together. It
also shows that she has enough
respect for you to be up-front
with you and not hide anything.
How long will you stay in a
committed relationship with a
beautiful or handsome liar? If
you cannot trust your partner or
believe what they say, how can
you construct a solid, lasting
foundation with them? You can’t.
6. Class.
I’ve said it before, and I will say it
again. Class has nothing to do
with the price tag on your outfit.
Class is about the dignity you
carry yourself with and the level
of respect you show to those
around you.
It doesn’t matter what kind of
car someone is driving, what
part of town they live in, or what
brand of clothing they’re
wearing. If they have an ugly
attitude and embarrass others in
public, none of it matters.
7. Intelligence.
There is no denying that
someone’s looks are what
initially draws us to them. It’s
difficult to spot a great
personality from across the
room. Many a fling was built on
physical attraction alone, but
how long can it last?
When conversations lack depth
or intrigue, we often fill our time
with physical activity together,
but it is impossible to build a real
connection or lasting
relationship with someone on
that alone. Being intellectually
challenging and having the ability
to hold real discussions about
meaningful topics will always
trump shallow beauty in the long
run.
There is nothing wrong with
putting value on your
appearance and that of your
partner — we all do it. I know I
do. Physical attraction is the
fundamental starting point of
essentially any relationship. But if
that is the only glue bonding the
two of you together, your
connection will quickly weaken
and break apart. The flame may
burn strongly — but briefly.
You don’t have to win the lottery
in the gene pool to be sexy. We
may not be able to decide the
cards that are dealt to us, but we
can decide how we play our
hand.
Choose wisely.[/center]The word “sexy” in modern-day
society has become synonymous
with the matched drum-beats
and stiletto steps made famous
by Victoria’s Secret
advertisements. While that is
sexy, it is a very “high level”
approach to what the word really
means. Meaning, we see it from
afar, but don’t get into the details
of it.
Many of you may have clicked on
this article expecting to see a list
consisting of amazing legs, a
great smile, chiseled abs, and a
tan… But what society tells you is
sexy on the surface is often a
small piece of the whole puzzle, if
it’s a piece of it at all. The first
thing we need to do is get rid of
this damaging perception that
only women who look like
airbrushed magazine
advertisements are sexy.
There is so much more to it than
that.
So, for those of us who live in the
real world, what makes a woman
sexy?
1. Confidence.
Confidence is key. Being
“perfect” is not. A strong,
purposeful walk, head held high,
eye contact, and a wide,
welcoming smile go a long way.
Confidence breeds more than
just a strong presence or
attraction — it’s the foundation
for a strong life. Success,
whatever that means to you. The
ability to go after what you want,
which is also sexy. In other
words…
2. Ambition.
Ambition gives someone a
purpose, a drive, a direction in
life. Ambition is sexy because it
lets a man who has his own
goals see his mate as a partner, a
teammate, someone he can take
on the world with — and that’s
how a relationship should be.
3. Passion.
Passion for life. Passion for
another person. Passion for an
interest, a hobby, art, music,
anything that drives you. To see a
woman in her element and truly
loving what she is doing is sexy.
4. Kindness.
Kindness toward others is a
disappointingly rare quality in
modern society. Taking a few
moments to go out of your way
to talk to someone, showing
compassion to another member
of the human race, regardless of
who they are or where they’re
from, shows heart, and a level of
depth that could never be made
up for by a beautiful exterior.
5. Honesty.
When a woman is genuinely
herself and doesn’t change for
anyone, it shows many of the
above qualities all together. It
also shows that she has enough
respect for you to be up-front
with you and not hide anything.
How long will you stay in a
committed relationship with a
beautiful or handsome liar? If
you cannot trust your partner or
believe what they say, how can
you construct a solid, lasting
foundation with them? You can’t.
6. Class.
I’ve said it before, and I will say it
again. Class has nothing to do
with the price tag on your outfit.
Class is about the dignity you
carry yourself with and the level
of respect you show to those
around you.
It doesn’t matter what kind of
car someone is driving, what
part of town they live in, or what
brand of clothing they’re
wearing. If they have an ugly
attitude and embarrass others in
public, none of it matters.
7. Intelligence.
There is no denying that
someone’s looks are what
initially draws us to them. It’s
difficult to spot a great
personality from across the
room. Many a fling was built on
physical attraction alone, but
how long can it last?
When conversations lack depth
or intrigue, we often fill our time
with physical activity together,
but it is impossible to build a real
connection or lasting
relationship with someone on
that alone. Being intellectually
challenging and having the ability
to hold real discussions about
meaningful topics will always
trump shallow beauty in the long
run.
There is nothing wrong with
putting value on your
appearance and that of your
partner — we all do it. I know I
do. Physical attraction is the
fundamental starting point of
essentially any relationship. But if
that is the only glue bonding the
two of you together, your
connection will quickly weaken
and break apart. The flame may
burn strongly — but briefly.
You don’t have to win the lottery
in the gene pool to be sexy. We
may not be able to decide the
cards that are dealt to us, but we
can decide how we play our
hand.
Choose wisely.

K

You guys should be real. Things like honesty, intelligence, ambition and kindness doesn't make a woman sexy. These things make you admire the woman, in a wanting to get close to her kind of way, or become her friend.

The word "sexy" means to be attractive in a sexual way.

So for me what actually makes a woman sexy, is her face, her body; that is how shapely it is, her boobs; I like them a bit above average, her asss, her smile and her voice.

That's it.

Decker:
You guys should be real. Things like honesty, intelligence, ambition and kindness doesn't make a woman sexy. These things make you admire the woman, in a wanting to get close to her kind of way, or become her friend.

The word "sexy" means to be attractive in a sexual way.

So for me what actually makes a woman sexy, is her face, that's the way she looks facially, her body; that is how shapely it is, her boobs; I like them a bit above average, her asss, her smile and her voice.

That's it.

u're fakin it out Niqga.

Thank God l gat all those so am super sesky. Lolz