My Husband wants me to be a Full House Wife after coming out with a First Class in Accounting.
Advise me on what to do please? We are young couples, we got married 3 months ago,
my Husband and I graduated last year from University of Lagos, he studied Business Education
and he came out with 2.2(second class lower) and I currently earn more money than him.

He said he will break our marriage if I refuse to be a Full House Wife, What do you advise please?
I don’t want my efforts in school to be wasted and I also don’t want to lose my marriage, What Can I Do?

Guys, kindly drop your comments below as this will go a long way to help….Thanks

http://www.onlineleaks247.com/index.php/2015/11/27/my-husband-wants-me-to-be-a-full-house-wife-after-graduating-with-a-first-class/

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lalasticlala kindly push this out there as this person needs serious councel. Thanks

That should av been discussed before the marriage took place....


I can't imagine myself nt working with my hard earned certificate....so my parents wouldn't reap of wat they sowed?? He must be joking.

He his just. Insecure

End time husband... Be wise !

you cant have your cake and eat it too... you either accept this mans demand or you keep working and let your household become a battleground. these are the issues that should have been discussed WELL before accepting to marry him.

How true is this story/

flexxyworld:
He his just. Insecure

You just hit the nail on the head my dear, nothing but insecurity is killing the man

He's not serious. Even the Bible said u r suppose to b a helpmate and not a liability. What if he's works crumbles den u wake up every morning to lick each odas eyes and go back to sleep. Nonsense!

I beg u woman in the name of God, if you don't want to suffer in life & regret this, don't ever think of leaving ur job because of one stupid husband. He will frustrate you & u will hate ur life. You will be amazed @how fast he will change & his ego grow geometrically. God saved my sister she didnt drop her job when d husband suggested such, she would have committed suicide cos d guy refuse to give my sister a kobo ever, not even money to take care of d baby they had together. He just became a monster over night. The most foolish thing a woman can do in life is to leave the job cos the husband suggested she should. Don't ever try it pls. Majority of men out there are demonic & u will suffer.

In this life

First class pple cant think well i must say. Just pack to V.island and make ur money like Linda ikeji.

Babe this story vex me no be small oo, wat the Bleep is dat guy saying sef?? Wit ur first class degree?? Abeg abeg abeg oooo, me no wan hear say them shoot gun, mama run oo..... Don't u ever accept such crap from dat guy oo "naaauunnsence"

A

end time love

In d first place y did u guys rysh into d marriage having not understood ursefs.

Legal advice, quit d marriage now or better still talk To him cos if he doesn't accept its going to lead u into a bigger marriage mess
N I think he's jealous n an insecure feeling n inferiority complex
One thing u should no is DAT as a working lady u stand out but being a housewife will totally make u useless
Hope u won't regret ur decision
If u need a better legal advice call me 08130762596

charlito94:
In d first place y did u guys rysh into d marriage having not understood ursefs.

Legal advice, quit d marriage now or better still talk To him cos if he doesn't accept its going to lead u into a bigger marriage mess
N I think he's jealous n an insecure feeling n inferiority complex
One thing u should no is DAT as a working lady u stand out but being a housewife will totally make u useless
Hope u won't regret ur decision
If u need a better legal advice call me 08130762596

I concur

U would have discuss this before marriage. Ur hubby is just insecure just try and talk sense to him

No problem, she can be a half house wife while a house help teach her the deeds

Babe abeg, No vex 4 dis matter

udmydearest:
Babe this story vex me no be small oo, wat the Bleep is dat guy saying sef?? Wit ur first class degree?? Abeg abeg abeg oooo, me no wan hear say them shoot gun, mama run oo..... Don't u ever accept such crap from dat guy oo "naaauunnsence"

you dey call that enemy of progress husband? tomorrow you go enter church dey combine holy ghost fire and thunder ontop your enemy while you live with the devil himself. Divorce sharp sharp and develop yourself. Dora, Ngozi, Alakija no be women like you?

Actually I blame u alittle. U guys were supposed to have discussed dis way b4 marriage





On a good day I'll advice u to oblige buh naaaaah this case is strong. You are jus 3 months into the marriage and dis is coming up already? WTF! Are u even done with your honey moon yet?






Please don't quit your job, its obviously pride. Communication should be the only option. Buh remember to beg him and take it calmly and don't approach him as if its by force. Am sure he just want to be sure u'll be submissive or somtin.

Dear sister of mine, know beyond any reasonable doubt in your mind that you will eventually leave that marriage. The only difference is if you leave now that there are no children, you ll bounce back easier but if you leave in the future, you will be badly battered physically and emotionally with 1 or 2 children tying u down to the marriage and leaving you stuck.
This request is the first move of an abuser, ask any abused woman. They render you dependent and useless with no koBo to ur name, they get u pregnant so you ll find it difficult to leave, they isolate you from your family and friends......and then they give you the VIP dog treatment that u may never recover from ie if you are still alive.

Believe it that this request alone has shown that you ve married a mistake and if u don't give in, he is going to make your life a living hell. Don't listen to any church preaching ooo....na you and you alone go suffer. Discharge yourself now while there is still time. You are not d first and u won't be d last to marry in error. Just please don't let your parent's suffering on you be in vain because of a fellow human being like you that calls himself a husband.

Abeg which kin husband be dis? Instead of him to be proud of his woman, but wait fes you guys shud have discussed dis before marriage.

jokes...........let's take it that the husband is just joking.

Lalasticlala can u help put this out there

Insecurity at its peak. May God help him change his mind. That's why you should pray and never rush into marriage, humans are filled with surprises.

Jolllyjoy:
In this life

you never see anything ....did u see this thread?
https://www.nairaland.com/2771995/hello-guys-dont-marry-career

Even if your husband is financially buoyant, it is not reason enough to stop you from working. Working is not just about making money but also about socializing and keeping busy and besides a first class is too good to be kept in a shelf.

lilien001:
Even if your husband is financially buoyant, it is not reason enough to stop you from working. Working is not just about making money but also about socializing and keeping busy and besides a first class is too good to be kept in a shelf.

Gbam