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This Is One Of The Strongest Reasons Why many Relationships fail. by Toks2008(m): 10:41pm On Dec 03, 2015
COMMUNICATION IS THE BUILDING BLOCK OF ANY LASTING RELATIONSHIP

Communication is a simple word yet very vital in the lives of every living thing.

A school of taught defined communication as an exchange and flow of information and ideas from one person to another; it involves a sender transmitting an idea, information, or feeling to a receiver.

In maintaining a healthy relationship between a man and a woman, effective communication is very vital.

Many relationships fail today because there is a break down of effective communication. Effective communication occurs only if the receiver understands the exact information or idea that the sender intended to transmit but anything short of this will usuallylead to disaster In the relationship.

Many courtships and marriages have broken down today because each party assumes the other person to be a mind reader or expects the other party to understand issues in a magical manner.

Have you wondered why some divorcées usually use words like "irreconcilable difference". But the truth of the matter is that it was lack of effective communication that led to the break up.

In any serious affair or marriage, two different people must merge to understand each other and this can only be done by having a no holds bar communication with each other on every aspect from the craziest issue to the most important.

Many people tend to condole behavioral patterns they are not happy with and by so doing building up resentment over the years just to explode when the other partner least expects it and by then it may be too late for both parties to repair the damage.

No matter what the case may be, don’t hold back your feelings and learn to communicate with the other party in a very serious manner and not with mediocrity hence you just might be taking for granted.

It may be the way you want to be touched or the way you want your egg fried. It may be just anything that may sound stupid or unimportant but please discuss this and you will be happy at the outcome.

Nothing is too sacred to discuss...

-If you want mouth action from your spouse,discuss it
-If you dont like the way he or she snores,discuss it.
-If you hate his or hygiene,discuss it
-If he or she is too boring in bed,discuss it.
-If you feel you are not getting enough attention please discuss it and don't ever stomach or condole things that gets you mad cos a day will come when it will burst out of you and you tend to overreact so discuss it in a timely,humbly,and romantic manner and be at peace

If we all learn to communicate effectively with our partners , I bet the rate of break ups will be greatly reduced.

Divorce and broken relationship is the greatest delight of the devil because this is the only institution GOD takes so much pride in because he instituted it right from the beginning of the world so Lets learn to communicate any and every issue that bothers us with our partners and you will remain happy and also know where you are heading in your relationship in a timely manner.

Hope this helps.

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Re: This Is One Of The Strongest Reasons Why many Relationships fail. by Nobody: 10:44pm On Dec 03, 2015
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Re: This Is One Of The Strongest Reasons Why many Relationships fail. by mizquote(f): 10:48pm On Dec 03, 2015
we hear!

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Re: This Is One Of The Strongest Reasons Why many Relationships fail. by Nobody: 10:50pm On Dec 03, 2015
Sure.... Na wetin i dey tell dat one wey she no wan hear.....

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Re: This Is One Of The Strongest Reasons Why many Relationships fail. by Toks2008(m): 10:56pm On Dec 03, 2015
Flashh:
Where's your source?

lol! by now you should know that 99.99% of what i write are from me so im my own source.

Its all about creative writing.

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Re: This Is One Of The Strongest Reasons Why many Relationships fail. by Flashh: 10:59pm On Dec 03, 2015
Where's your source?

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Re: This Is One Of The Strongest Reasons Why many Relationships fail. by Cutehector(m): 11:01pm On Dec 03, 2015
Can two peopel come together if they cant agree? Nooooooh... Case closed

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Re: This Is One Of The Strongest Reasons Why many Relationships fail. by misspicy(f): 7:03pm On Dec 04, 2015
cutehector you need to read this grin

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Re: This Is One Of The Strongest Reasons Why many Relationships fail. by Cutehector(m): 7:07pm On Dec 04, 2015
misspicy:
cutehector you need to read this grin

troublebshooting mood activated cheesy
lol yeah communication is key... Doesnt mean one should be a bug...
Re: This Is One Of The Strongest Reasons Why many Relationships fail. by misspicy(f): 7:13pm On Dec 04, 2015
Cutehector:
lol yeah communication is key... Doesnt mean one should be a bug...
the topic is talking about two adults discussing an issue in a relationship,not a partner dropping gist and no input by the other partner besides bugging cannot be a one sided thing or what do you think cool
Re: This Is One Of The Strongest Reasons Why many Relationships fail. by Cutehector(m): 7:17pm On Dec 04, 2015
misspicy:

the topic is talking about two adults discussing an issue in a relationship,not a partner dropping gist and no input by the other partner besides bugging cannot be a one sided thing or what do you think 9)
sometimes the other partner might be blank... Sometimes the other partner may be tired of chats, sometimes the other partner would prefer physical conversations and togetherness...
Re: This Is One Of The Strongest Reasons Why many Relationships fail. by misspicy(f): 7:25pm On Dec 04, 2015
Cutehector:
sometimes the other partner might be blank... Sometimes the other partner may be tired of chats, sometimes the other partner would prefer physical conversations and togetherness...
oh angry undecided
Re: This Is One Of The Strongest Reasons Why many Relationships fail. by Cutehector(m): 7:29pm On Dec 04, 2015
misspicy:

oh angry undecided
cool..
Re: This Is One Of The Strongest Reasons Why many Relationships fail. by MsBliss(f): 9:33pm On Dec 04, 2015
Nice one.
Re: This Is One Of The Strongest Reasons Why many Relationships fail. by Toks2008(m): 10:08pm On Dec 04, 2015
misspicy:
cutehector you need to read this grin

troubleshooting mood activated cheesy

LOL! trouble maker and its like both of you love picking on each other hilariously lol..nice though...
Re: This Is One Of The Strongest Reasons Why many Relationships fail. by Ladycloud(f): 9:20pm On May 23, 2016
A relationship without communication is like a car without fuel... Very important

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