sirugos:
@op I disagree with U. No matter how effective your communication may be with out good in build behaviour/character of the individual especially the females folks. The relationship mush surely crash

Lol.. surely, u are getting him wrong.. He's not saying lack of communication is the only cause..
bad attitude, distrust, lack of communication etc etc are among reasons why relationships break up and he is talking about lack of communication as one of the strongest which to me is very true

I love this 'communicate is the key to any relationship that wants to succeed in any weather' unfortunately, the lady I'm loving now doesn't likes it....

Cutehector:
amen!!!!!! Thank u so much. This made my day.

You used your sixth sense

MissyQueen come learn oooo . Tell me anytin u want no matter ao weird

Since December last yr.

Since December last yr?

jimmy2smut:
I love this 'communicate is the key to any relationship that wants to succeed in any weather' unfortunately, the lady I'm loving now doesn't likes it....

lol.. make her like it.
Be open and you must be understandable too..
Some people only talk when you talk first or get them engage in the conversation

TrumpDonald:
Since December last yr?

lol. u Neva see old thread like that of 3-4 years ago for front page before?

One of the major reasons......the side chicks are better in bed...hehehehehe

I like this

The people who read this sh.it should explain it to me

This is surely the best way to begin another day, great write up @op. I just suffered from that recently and am yet to heal from the heart ache. Some girls would rather tell you 'nothing' when you ask them what they think should be addressed in the relationship whereas they know they aren't cool with some things in the relationship. Its so damn painful when you get sucker punched by someone who claims to love you when you think everything is going on very well because she told you so not knowing she's got grudges inside of her.

Toks2008:
COMMUNICATION IS THE BUILDING BLOCK OF ANY LASTING RELATIONSHIP

Communication is a simple word yet very vital in the lives of every living thing.

A school of taught defined communication as an exchange and flow of information and ideas from one person to another; it involves a sender transmitting an idea, information, or feeling to a receiver.

In maintaining a healthy relationship between a man and a woman, effective communication is very vital.

Many relationships fail today because there is a break down of effective communication. Effective communication occurs only if the receiver understands the exact information or idea that the sender intended to transmit but anything short of this will usuallylead to disaster In the relationship.

Many courtships and marriages have broken down today because each party assumes the other person to be a mind reader or expects the other party to understand issues in a magical manner.

Have you wondered why some divorcées usually use words like "irreconcilable difference". But the truth of the matter is that it was lack of effective communication that led to the break up.

In any serious affair or marriage, two different people must merge to understand each other and this can only be done by having a no holds bar communication with each other on every aspect from the craziest issue to the most important.

Many people tend to condole behavioral patterns they are not happy with and by so doing building up resentment over the years just to explode when the other partner least expects it and by then it may be too late for both parties to repair the damage.

No matter what the case may be, don’t hold back your feelings and learn to communicate with the other party in a very serious manner and not with mediocrity hence you just might be taking for granted.

It may be the way you want to be touched or the way you want your egg fried. It may be just anything that may sound stupid or unimportant but please discuss this and you will be happy at the outcome.

Nothing is too sacred to discuss...

-If you want mouth action from your spouse,discuss it
-If you dont like the way he or she snores,discuss it.
-If you hate his or hygiene,discuss it
-If he or she is too boring in bed,discuss it.
-If you feel you are not getting enough attention please discuss it and don't ever stomach or condole things that gets you mad cos a day will come when it will burst out of you and you tend to overreact so discuss it in a timely,humbly,and romantic manner and be at peace

If we all learn to communicate effectively with our partners , I bet the rate of break ups will be greatly reduced.

Divorce and broken relationship is the greatest delight of the devil because this is the only institution GOD takes so much pride in because he instituted it right from the beginning of the world so Lets learn to communicate any and every issue that bothers us with our partners and you will remain happy and also know where you are heading in your relationship in a timely manner.

Hope this helps.

Tiwa savage must hear this.

Well written.

Thanks. Shared with my bae and friends.
Made this mistake in my previous relationship. I don't want it repeating itself in my current one. We talk everything now and we understand that there's no limit to what we can talk about. I've made her understand that I'm no angel of the Lord therefore I cannot read her mind. Hence, even the most awkward issues shld be communicated.
Thanks again Toks2008

chai
But I no just sabi talk.

Burger01:
Don't mind her. Just be patient with her if you love her enough.

Women! Their wahala too much

so because u love her, u should still stick around nd be disrespected? open communication leads to respect in a relationship

Thanks..well said...that is what I have been telling her but she expect me to be a mind reader and to know what is the issue when she won't tell

Odunharry:

lol.. make her like it.
Be open and you must be understandable too..
Some people only talk when you talk first or get them engage in the conversation

Kai thatz what i hate nd it will look as if u are d talkative. girls initiating conversation is a good sign in a relationship, then when u initiate she will give u few words response or she says i dont know

most girls dont know the difference between closed ended and open ended question.

I like this Article.

JeffreyJamez:
I like this Article.

I do too.

Laveda:


I do too.

JeffreyJamez:

Yeah where you messed up.

Laveda:


Yeah where you messed up.

Did I?

JeffreyJamez:


Did I?

Kinda..
Ermm both ways rather.

Maybe if she knew better.

Laveda:

Kinda..
Ermm both ways rather.

Maybe if she knew better.

lol indeed

Teespice:
at least he did not blame the female gender for lack of communication in relationships.

makes for good read. somebody shout alleluia!!!!

My thoughts exactly,1st toks post he didn't bag the female folk and blame them for all that has gone wrong in the world.

Toks2008:


lol! by now you should know that 99.99% of what i write are from me so im my own source.

Its all about creative writing.

Can you help me compose a letter to President Idi Amin ?

Toks2008:
COMMUNICATION IS THE BUILDING BLOCK OF ANY LASTING RELATIONSHIP

Communication is a simple word yet very vital in the lives of every living thing.

A school of taught defined communication as an exchange and flow of information and ideas from one person to another; it involves a sender transmitting an idea, information, or feeling to a receiver.

In maintaining a healthy relationship between a man and a woman, effective communication is very vital.

Many relationships fail today because there is a break down of effective communication. Effective communication occurs only if the receiver understands the exact information or idea that the sender intended to transmit but anything short of this will usuallylead to disaster In the relationship.

Many courtships and marriages have broken down today because each party assumes the other person to be a mind reader or expects the other party to understand issues in a magical manner.

Have you wondered why some divorcées usually use words like "irreconcilable difference". But the truth of the matter is that it was lack of effective communication that led to the break up.

In any serious affair or marriage, two different people must merge to understand each other and this can only be done by having a no holds bar communication with each other on every aspect from the craziest issue to the most important.

Many people tend to condole behavioral patterns they are not happy with and by so doing building up resentment over the years just to explode when the other partner least expects it and by then it may be too late for both parties to repair the damage.

No matter what the case may be, don’t hold back your feelings and learn to communicate with the other party in a very serious manner and not with mediocrity hence you just might be taking for granted.

It may be the way you want to be touched or the way you want your egg fried. It may be just anything that may sound stupid or unimportant but please discuss this and you will be happy at the outcome.

Nothing is too sacred to discuss...

-If you want mouth action from your spouse,discuss it
-If you dont like the way he or she snores,discuss it.
-If you hate his or hygiene,discuss it
-If he or she is too boring in bed,discuss it.
-If you feel you are not getting enough attention please discuss it and don't ever stomach or condole things that gets you mad cos a day will come when it will burst out of you and you tend to overreact so discuss it in a timely,humbly,and romantic manner and be at peace

If we all learn to communicate effectively with our partners , I bet the rate of break ups will be greatly reduced.

Divorce and broken relationship is the greatest delight of the devil because this is the only institution GOD takes so much pride in because he instituted it right from the beginning of the world so Lets learn to communicate any and every issue that bothers us with our partners and you will remain happy and also know where you are heading in your relationship in a timely manner.

Hope this helps.

Hmmnnnn
I complained of nt gettin enof attention frm my gf nd d best she cld do was call it quit. I love her though. I knw m way ryt nd m still beggin fr being ryt (isn't that crazy?) bt all my pleads fell on deaf hears...
Pls, advice me!

henryblaze25:


Kai thatz what i hate nd it will look as if u are d talkative. girls initiating conversation is a good sign in a relationship, then when u initiate she will give u few words response or she says i dont know

most girls dont know the difference between closed ended and open ended question.

True at the last sentence but Wat you gotta do about it??

even to listen na job. He tells me i talk too much :-

nopretense:

Hmmnnnn
I complained of nt gettin enof attention frm my gf nd d best she cld do was call it quit. I love her though. I knw m way ryt nd m still beggin fr being ryt (isn't that crazy?) bt all my pleads fell on deaf hears...
Pls, advice me!

She was never into you...let go and move on.