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Please I Need Your Advice ,am So Confused. by Nkasiobi87(f): 3:22pm On Dec 04, 2015
I married a man of God and God bless us with 5boys.we were living happily and the church was growing in congregation. we live in the church premises with the workers and they do offer help both in my home and at church. one day a member brought her younger sister to come and live in the church. I welcomed her we started living together and she was enrol into school from junior secondary till she finishes Senior secondary. I never suspect her and my husband untill one day, my husband said that he want to make her pastor of the church.we all agree and she was ordained. after that she started belittling me.she started challenging me any time I said something in the church that she is now in the position to say any thing concerning the church. I complained to my husband he did not do anything nor say anything to her.I use to be with my hubby in his quarters cos we live differently though in the same compound. one early morning I came out to do my daily chores as a wife to my husband cooking and other house chores I was surprise to see the girl there washing my husband cloth I can't tell if she pass the night there but it sure look like I did not talk her rather I confined to my husband and he said that from that day that she will be taking care of his food and laundry and other things. he said that I should focus on my kids and my self. he gave me the most painful embarrasesment of my life by pushing me out of his room in the girl presence because I insisted on otherwise. from that day till date she is taking care of my husband.my husband still sees to our needs and still be with me when ever I call her to come to my quarter. she pest on my husband that he find it hard to ask her to give him space. she does many things to get me jealous but I do as if I don't care but inside me am burning. please I really need a good advice please.

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice ,am So Confused. by Nobody: 3:26pm On Dec 04, 2015
May God help you with a solution
Re: Please I Need Your Advice ,am So Confused. by Nobody: 3:27pm On Dec 04, 2015
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Re: Please I Need Your Advice ,am So Confused. by Nobody: 3:28pm On Dec 04, 2015
sister, seek the face of God.
Re: Please I Need Your Advice ,am So Confused. by wEsOmE(m): 3:29pm On Dec 04, 2015
Ur husband have eaten d forbidden fruit.. But wait oh how can a man with 5 boys b dat stupid ? . Shaa pray for him.

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice ,am So Confused. by Eddygourdo(m): 3:30pm On Dec 04, 2015
I will say something meaningful after you have re-edited your "my husband" written everywhere to its proper designation "our husband"

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice ,am So Confused. by snakie86: 3:31pm On Dec 04, 2015
Forbidden fruit has been eaten by hubby

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice ,am So Confused. by Pheals(f): 3:41pm On Dec 04, 2015
In the church mission?? This LUBBISH is happen!! Jesus will chase U people out as he did in the temple...U better pack your things before it got worst 5boys is OK.. they have gotten inheritance no matter what ....your husband is not faithful but I won't judge, U may offend him but a man of God don't should not do that

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice ,am So Confused. by doctorEkene: 3:41pm On Dec 04, 2015
Sister your husband has gone

You can meet me and we will plan how to deal with him

Nobody is born without revenge

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice ,am So Confused. by obinnashady(m): 3:43pm On Dec 04, 2015
This story is as fake as they come,believe me,this sh*t was composed by a boko haram
Re: Please I Need Your Advice ,am So Confused. by Nobody: 3:46pm On Dec 04, 2015
This is sad what a tight spot to be in of course you are burning. I just feel mad for you i feel you should abandon all pastor's wife duties let the church know the truth no need to keep this a secret. Since you can't help your husband, your husband can't help himself and the girl now seems in control of your marriage the church might be able to reset his brain.

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice ,am So Confused. by Tallesty1(m): 3:54pm On Dec 04, 2015
This story is about an End Time Man who's also an End Time Pastor and a Minister in an End Time Church......... He ordained A Female pastor who later Became an End Time Pastor and they had End Time Sex in an End Time Quarter and now she's try to snatch the End Time Pastor from his wife who's just a victim of End Time Things.




Message Sent To Jesus.

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice ,am So Confused. by Nobody: 3:56pm On Dec 04, 2015
mtcheeeewwwww........ Maga don pay
Re: Please I Need Your Advice ,am So Confused. by IamLEGEND1: 4:02pm On Dec 04, 2015
aaaahhh this one pass end time Pastor

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice ,am So Confused. by gamaliel121(m): 4:02pm On Dec 04, 2015
Nkasiobi87:
I married a man of God and God bless us with 5boys.we were living happily and the church was growing in congregation. we live in the church premises with the workers and they do offer help both in my home and at church. one day a member brought her younger sister to come and live in the church. I welcomed her we started living together and she was enrol into school from junior secondary till she finishes Senior secondary. I never suspect her and my husband untill one day, my husband said that he want to make her pastor of the church.we all agree and she was ordained. after that she started belittling me.she started challenging me any time I said something in the church that she is now in the position to say any thing concerning the church. I complained to my husband he did not do anything nor say anything to her.I use to be with my hubby in his quarters cos we live differently though in the same compound. one early morning I came out to do my daily chores as a wife to my husband cooking and other house chores I was surprise to see the girl there washing my husband cloth I can't tell if she pass the night there but it sure look like I did not talk her rather I confined to my husband and he said that from that day that she will be taking care of his food and laundry and other things. he said that I should focus on my kids and my self. he gave me the most painful embarrasesment of my life by pushing me out of his room in the girl presence because I insisted on otherwise. from that day till date she is taking care of my husband.my husband still sees to our needs and still be with me when ever I call her to come to my quarter. she pest on my husband that he find it hard to ask her to give him space. she does many things to get me jealous but I do as if I don't care but inside me am burning. please I really need a good advice please.



Your husband is not a man of God..

His a demon from hell tempting you..

Flee with your boys..

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice ,am So Confused. by Nobody: 4:20pm On Dec 04, 2015
I am really sorry for this. As the saying goes, You can't know a man very well, they change with conditions and situations.
I am sorry that your are burning but let me ask
Are you also a fulltime house/pastor? If yes, then you have to be a part time to have your sanity. Yes, getting something doing to keep you away from seeing her. Please pay no attention to the girl, she just being childish and don't allow your boys near her.
If there is someone your husband respects in your family or his, this the time to report him. A lot happen in marriages but a lot of youth are quick to jump into it without first understanding the task ahead.
Lastly, fast and pray.

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice ,am So Confused. by obiorathesubtle: 4:27pm On Dec 04, 2015
Eeeya. Pastor's wife, sorry ya. I'm sorry for the loss of your husband.cry people are wicked shaa

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice ,am So Confused. by Nkasiobi87(f): 4:34pm On Dec 04, 2015
obinnashady:
This story is as fake as they come,believe me,this sh*t was composed by a boko haram
obinna is my life story not a fake. is happening to me and is still going on in the church and in my home.

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice ,am So Confused. by Nkasiobi87(f): 4:41pm On Dec 04, 2015
Miadad:
I am really sorry for this. As the saying goes, You can't know a man very well, they change with conditions and situations.
I am sorry that your are burning but let me ask
Are you also a fulltime house/pastor? If yes, then you have to be a part time to have your sanity. Yes, getting something doing to keep you away from seeing her. Please pay no attention to the girl, she just being childish and don't allow your boys near her.
If there is someone your husband respects in your family or his, this the time to report him. A lot happen in marriages but a lot of youth are quick to jump into it without first understanding the task ahead.
Lastly, fast and pray.
. he us an authoritarian man he controls every body in his family.and they don't argue his orders. he don't respect any body's opinion
Re: Please I Need Your Advice ,am So Confused. by Swissheart(f): 4:43pm On Dec 04, 2015
For your husband to have said you should concentrate on your boys leaving his needs to d Pastor Mrs..... It means you haven't been doing it right before. You are a Pastor's wife..... So in all ramifications you should always be at alert. Your husband's customer is mainly the female gender.... You shouldn't just give room for laxity. You sleep in separate apartment, why? He communicates with Spirits over the night? ... Does he know what you carry inside of you as Mummy Church..? ... Do you jack Pastor well in bed? Do you dress smartly, beautifully but decently as a Pastor's wife should do? Do you sit at home all day? And pray only?.............. Madam sit up and occupy your position sharply. Get your pen down and analyze how you have bn handling Paito.

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice ,am So Confused. by Swissheart(f): 4:47pm On Dec 04, 2015
Nkasiobi87:
. he us an authoritarian man he controls every body in his family.and they don't argue his orders. he don't respect any body's opinion
...... Since he is the Lion of the tribe of his family.. You sef take charge!..........Madam are you gainfully employed?

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice ,am So Confused. by hayorzzyzx(m): 4:54pm On Dec 04, 2015
Aren't you a pastor in your church,if that is true then what should a pastor do when passing through crisis Pray

It might not just be physical it may be spiritual,help your husband he needs you now,and your children future is at stake

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice ,am So Confused. by hayorzzyzx(m): 4:59pm On Dec 04, 2015
Swissheart:
For your husband to have said you should concentrate on your boys leaving his needs to d Pastor Mrs..... It means you haven't been doing it right before. You are a Pastor's wife..... So in all ramifications you should always be at alert. Your husband's customer is mainly the female gender.... You shouldn't just give room for laxity. You sleep in separate apartment, why? He communicates with Spirits over the night? ... Does he know what you carry inside of you as Mummy Church..? ... Do you jack Pastor well in bed? Do you dress smartly, beautifully but decently as a Pastor's wife should do? Do you sit at home all day? And pray only?.............. Madam sit up and occupy your position sharply. Get your pen down and analyze how you have bn handling Paito.

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice ,am So Confused. by Nkasiobi87(f): 5:07pm On Dec 04, 2015
Swissheart:
For your husband to have said you should concentrate on your boys leaving his needs to d Pastor Mrs..... It means you haven't been doing it right before. You are a Pastor's wife..... So in all ramifications you should always be at alert. Your husband's customer is mainly the female gender.... You shouldn't just give room for laxity. You sleep in separate apartment, why? He communicates with Spirits over the night? ... Does he know what you carry inside of you as Mummy Church..? ... Do you jack Pastor well in bed? Do you dress smartly, beautifully but decently as a Pastor's wife should do? Do you sit at home all day? And pray only?.............. Madam sit up and occupy your position sharply. Get your pen down and analyze how you have bn handling Paito.
I have been helping in the church activities, though we sleep in a separate apartment which was as he command ,he said that he need space to enable him pray always but that does not stop me from going to do my daily duties for him. I also do all my best when it cone to bed things Infact that has not been the problem that am a pastor wife does not mean that I don't know what men want in bed. he still rate me 100percent in that.I do my best to always look good because I know am in the centre of congregation eyes...what I don't understand is that upon all this character of his he is still very jealous .any time am talking with a male member he got very angry and ban the member from attending church. yet he find it hard to tell the girl to stop.

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice ,am So Confused. by Nkasiobi87(f): 5:22pm On Dec 04, 2015
Swissheart:
...... Since he is the Lion of the tribe of his family.. You sef take charge!..........Madam are you gainfully employed?
he stoped all the employment I got. because I don't want to disrespect him I resort to working in the church and I start a television program which is also promoting the church and all the books the church can boost of was all written by me. which he sometimes become very jealous of.I believe am doing my best for the church and for the home.

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice ,am So Confused. by Nobody: 5:46pm On Dec 04, 2015
Nkasiobi87:

he stoped all the employment I got. because I don't want to disrespect him I resort to working in the church and I start a television program which is also promoting the church and all the books the church can boost of was all written by me. which he sometimes become very jealous of.I believe am doing my best for the church and for the home.
Now, that Aunty Angela has taken over his attention. Get a job asap

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice ,am So Confused. by abdrazak: 6:01pm On Dec 04, 2015
Eddygourdo:
I will say something meaningful after you have re-edited your "my husband" written everywhere to its proper designation "our husband"
Lolz cheesycheesycheesy
Re: Please I Need Your Advice ,am So Confused. by Eleniyan15: 6:08pm On Dec 04, 2015
Eeeyah

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice ,am So Confused. by Swissheart(f): 6:27pm On Dec 04, 2015
Nkasiobi87:

I have been helping in the church activities, though we sleep in a separate apartment which was as he command ,he said that he need space to enable him pray always but that does not stop me from going to do my daily duties for him. I also do all my best when it cone to bed things Infact that has not been the problem that am a pastor wife does not mean that I don't know what men want in bed. he still rate me 100percent in that.I do my best to always look good because I know am in the centre of congregation eyes...what I don't understand is that upon all this character of his he is still very jealous .any time am talking with a male member he got very angry and ban the member from attending church. yet he find it hard to tell the girl to stop.
toh, he appears like an authoritarian. I believe you know prayer works. Apply it. Humanly speaking I would suggest you stand up right nd stop being timid. Let Pastor discover Mummy Church has changed. No nonsense accommodation or stupid attitude from any She-pastor. Get a job! GET A JOB. Yes a job. Let's try consultation ...... Visit him tonight...... Talk to him... Tell him everything. Let's see. Wish you well.

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice ,am So Confused. by GodMode: 6:31pm On Dec 04, 2015
Swissheart:
toh, he appears like an authoritarian. I believe you know prayer works. Apply it. Humanly speaking I would suggest you stand up right nd stop being timid. Let Pastor discover Mummy Church has changed. No nonsense accommodation or stupid attitude from any She-pastor. Get a job! GET A JOB. Yes a job. Let's try consultation ...... Visit him tonight...... Talk to him... Tell him everything. Let's see. Wish you well.

it seems you were locked up in a room, you've been making lots of comments.

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Re: Please I Need Your Advice ,am So Confused. by firstking01(m): 6:38pm On Dec 04, 2015
D gal give d man cot nno mi.
Re: Please I Need Your Advice ,am So Confused. by obinnashady(m): 7:02pm On Dec 04, 2015
Nkasiobi87:

obinna is my life story not a fake. is happening to me and is still going on in the church and in my home.
if its real,then I'll give u this one advice...fight 4 ur place,fight 4 ur children's place.do not allow the fool reap where she did not sow.be strong and of good courage,fight to the last to secure ur marriage with all that u've got.

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