Sincere4u:
I do rather have my partner with me at all times. Not a fan of long distance relationships but if that is what it'll take in dating MissGdope, then I really don't mind. Just bring it on.

MissGdope:
I personally feel like its good as long as you can trust the person and you know that they are who they claim to be. There also has to be assurance that you'll meet that person one day.
What do you guys think? Could you ever get in a long distance relationship? And if you have, share your experiences

prettymina:
I've bin in a long distance rltshp for 2years first it was working out good cus I was in school duo he promised to come bk this year for our intro but till now thngs has really changed am tru frm sch now my parents are expecting to bring a man but my story is now different don't even knw what to do...It is not working again

Realone92:



I don't wanna generalize , from my research I got to realize girls can really wait regardless of our long its gonna take ...we men tend to bend sometimes cos we need u around at the Moment , to bad u ain't there " temptation my set in as a result of considering another option . Then he stop calling ,he stop texting "
Then he start looking for excuses to breakup ...he can only regret his actions if the current girl his dating is not better off "

Call him , ask him question , if its gonna take everyday pls do , no time to wait for a man that's Gonna marry another girl later on leaving u stranded

HateU2:
I have been there twice, it did not work

Mademoiselle24:
Majorly depends on the people involved.....

missKiffy:
It's not easy tho, it has it ups and down

sauceTDA:
. It never works

akinsal:
Hmmmmmmm... My People. Let us not decieve ourselves Long distance relationship isnt it @ all...........................

It depends on the kind of person u are in with if its a student den u stand d risk having terrible experiences.
It demands the commitment of two persons who are genuinely in love with each other.

I think i practised something like that i started my first relationship with a LDR that lasted close to a Yr and mayb because it was my first nd serious one and i but in my best to make it work despite d fact that i knew ladies dis dayz cant b trusted. I NEVER double dated for once just becos i felt ''Kamar'' exist. It started well sort off but @ a point it seemed d other party started showing some funny attitudes and behaviour. However i tried to using calls as a means to ensure i feel the gap afterall i wernt even the one who went on a distance away from her however it seemed i was a torn in the neck. I even went up to the extent of sending recharge cards so as to let her also do the calling but it didnt work out. And when i ask she will say no credit but @ a point i used a friend number to flash her line and i was amazed she cald back to know who was calling. dat alone made me go into shock for dayz. But i dont have a problem with someone who tells me they dont have call credit cos if the person really worth it i will willingly send the card as many times as possible.

I also tried to spice it up by introducing questions during our chat but to the other person it was like an interogative relationship coupled with d fact that she easily picks offences and would really appreciate i dont call. Attimes she will b online but will not decide to say even a "Hello" @ a point i decided not to chat her nor call for about 5 days and dis lady didnt borther asking by the time i came back and i complained i was amazed she told me she never noticed i wasnt online.

Each time she was around she wouldnt even give any time for us to see and discuss certain issues face to face. she either give excuses of sickness and all what not.


I do tell her this LDR demands steady communication from both parties all the time but she neva bulged.


@ d end when i started complaining so she will know my likes and dislikes and d next thing she said was i abuse her emotionally.

It was then i started analysing my life that if i decide to endure dis what if in future it starts all over or even worst than this? ppl will tell me shey u see am b4 u buy market. bsides i wont like to b with a secretive person cos such person is capable of poisoning someone altho im also an introvert but i can b comfortable being an extrovert when within my comfort zone.

Thank God it was a "No Sex not even a perk or kiss" relationship


In all i may not know her side of the story. neither do i blame her for it cos she may have her own side of the story but i av learnt so many lessons from it.

I still strongly believe there is something she is hidding from me she doesnt want me to know. perharps dats d reason for her actions.


So my Ppl im not discouraging anyone who wants to practise it cos what doesnt work for someone may actually work for other persons
..
My story is a lot like urs

MissGdope:
I personally feel like its good as long as you can trust the person and you know that they are who they claim to be. There also has to be assurance that you'll meet that person one day.
What do you guys think? Could you ever get in a long distance relationship? And if you have, share your experiences

Asable:
I tried that shit didn't end well. D most important thing is communication and it has to be from both sides when left to one party it's frustrating, girls love words and when we don't hear it........

timwudz:
asable try it with me. I assure you, it will end in marriage

Elzends: