naijaboiy:

I don't think periodic checks results to insecurity.

Odunharry:

lol and dom side chick no know??

YourMain:

You're right.
Insecurity results in periodic checks.

Odunharry:

Good.. an opinion noted...
anyway,i hardly go thru people's Fone.. brought up the topic to hear from people.

Odunharry:

And what breeds insecurity ma'am?? wanna learn

suwalee:
I can't try it so many peeps told me to but it just not my style I don't even touch my sis fones too I hate to invade ppls privacy

YourMain:


Lol you don't trust them. But what will checking their phone solve ?

misspicy:
Right! in short very Right especially if you don't trust your partner

Odunharry:

lol. na

You keep getting me wrong...like I said, I'm not the typ that snoop and so much give people their respect Nd privacy.

YourMain:


You're right.

Insecurity results in periodic checks.

Odunharry:
Do you think going through your partner's phone once a while is right and can you allow your partner go through yours??

As for me , use to hate the habit though I don't have problem with anyone going through my phone until I discovered something years back..

My opinion is simple, Check if you want to check especially if you feeling suspicious or you getting less affection and time from ur partner.

Only people who have something to hide will not allow you check and I don't see what's there to hide form my partner except I have an ulterior motive

why I think it's right if you want to is simple..
It can save from cheating partner, deceitful relationship, heartbreak, disease, forced pregnancy etc etc

CAVEAT Be prepared and be strong to take or face anything you see..

naijaboiy:

Neither.

outstandingsyll:
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Odunharry:

good one... I I only touch with permission aside that, I'm out..

Dont pick people's call or read messages too

YourMain:


Yes. But you're making yourself that person. And there's honestly no need.

Odunharry:

gbam....e be Lik u really read and understand the post itself..
one can't just wake up and start checking...something leads to something..


For some it's a lesson and learnt and they will forever be happy they do while for some reason it's a no go area

Odunharry:

na... I'm very neutral though.
Wanted to hear opinion

Slimzybaby:
.

Dem no know oo ... Sometimes if e reach the one wey she no understand again, she go ask me wetin she go reply am. Life has been fun ever since i started dating that girl over a year ago.

naijaboiy:

i'm not bothered about what I will find out. I feel i'm strong enough to handle whatever it is.

It will save me the stress of wasting my time. Once I notice something off I always ask and I also tell my girl to do same.

That's how we always roll. It's not insecurity to me.

YourMain:


Oh. So why would one be making periodic checks so ?

YourMain:


I just think there's no room for insecurity in a relationship. If you don't feel secure in your relationship then why are you in it.

naijaboiy:

When there is a need to.

There can never be a relationship or marriage where everything goes smoothly. At a point this trust issue comes up.

It may be subtle,it may be pronounced. It depends on the partners.

Suspecting something wrong and still keeping quiet simply because you don't want to sound insecure and discover the worst is self deceit to me.

Odunharry:

lol.. you sef dey vex o.
Why you dey cut show na.. And d gal mk sense for ur life o

Cutehector:
hence the need for confrontation instead of things like snooping.

misspicy:

okay bro

i pirru him too

illustration 101 :
so I have a bf,he locks his phone and doesn't care about my phone too,in short he doesn't touch it,I later discovered I was the side chick......
I would have saved myself the relationship stress if I had snooped earlier

naijaboiy:

Depends on what you see as confrontation.

You can confront and yet the truth wouldn't come out.

What will you do in that case?

naijaboiy:

When there is a need to.

There can never be a relationship or marriage where everything goes smoothly. At a point this trust issue comes up.

It may be subtle,it may be pronounced. It depends on the partners.

Suspecting something wrong and still keeping quiet simply because you don't want to sound insecure and discover the worst is self deceit to me.

Odunharry:

agree with this... it saves one from alot lies approximately deception is Std who knows etc