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Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 11:24am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Odunharry: . |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 11:25am On Dec 17, 2015 |
YourMain:lol at you have enough experience to last you.. In the datin/marriage game and what have you, nobody is an encyclopedia. |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 11:27am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Timbuktou:very true sir.. people lie n pretend alot on here. I don't take what they say too serious.. |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 11:27am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Odunharry: Well if experience is the best teacher. Then I'm fine. |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 11:29am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by repogirl(f): 11:33am On Dec 17, 2015 |
YourMain:Trust is earned and not written on the fore head. How can I know what to communicate about if on the outside the guy seems to be a saint? You don live in his head/ heart to know what he really is about? I am married. In the beginning and of our courtship, I used to snoop through his phones, just to get an idea of who he was. I had no reason not to trust him. Even after he travelled out of the country for almost two years, I knew who he was, so I was very secure. Now, a few years into marriage, I was snooping one day and came across a Skype chat with some corper girl in his office which I believed was inappropriate and I told him about it. He laughed it off that it was nothing and was just joking with the girl but I told him it wasn't right and such jokes were not funny. Another time he was joking with some colleagues where they were discussing some inappropriate stuff and I let him know that I wasn't comfy with such jokes. Since then I haven't seen any inappropriate chats to any female or with any of his colleagues. I still go through his devices once a while as I have his password and vise versa, he knows I snoop, I dont hide it. He has never given me a reason not to trust him but even then, I will still check, if only to help maintain him. |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by repogirl(f): 11:34am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Odunharry:exactly. |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 11:39am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Odunharry:i dont see anything wrong in it. Im currently in a serious relationship with my babe so occasionaly, i check her fone . Im planning to marry her , i need to know the kind of person im dealing with. She also checks my phone. When i first did it, i found som stuffs, i confronted her, she was dating another guy,collecting money frm him bt they never met. She was furious and suprised that i could check her fone, but i dragged the matter with her and she started begging and crying, we settled it. Since then, she also check ma fone. Not a big deal #check and balance. |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 11:44am On Dec 17, 2015 |
repogirl: Well I'm not one to decide how your marriage should and shouldn't work. But for me. That's just not something I would do. I'm not married but my mum lived away from my dad for 13 years. My mum wouldn't see my dad for years at a time. And she had 100% faith in him. I think that represents love a lot more than having to spy. My father is not the type of man to ever cheat or flirt but that's not written on his forehead. She knew the kind of man he was. She never had to check his phone or ask for Facebook passwords and whatnot. And my parents have the best communication I've ever seen in a couple. When situations arise my parents will always talk about it, they can always put eachother feelings into consideration. Not plotting. I personally just think that's a waaaaay better way to learn to trust a person. I'd rather come in with an open mind. My past relationships have taught me a lot. Messages can be deleted. You can be snooping daily and he can still be cheating on you. I just with my feelings. And if I don't like the way I feel and I tell him and nothing changes then I leave. It's a win win situation for me too. 2 Likes |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 11:47am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Odunharry: I've been in a relationship with a liar a theif a fraudster and a woman beater. I still wouldn't ever snoop on anyone I claimed to love today. |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 11:48am On Dec 17, 2015 |
YourMain:lol .. experience is not the only teacher |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 11:48am On Dec 17, 2015 |
double post |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 11:58am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Odunharry: Well. If you say so. |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by McTobe(m): 12:18pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
misspicy:I have been spying on u since 1900 and it gladdens my heart |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by McTobe(m): 12:25pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
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Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by bobituss: 12:27pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
except she wants to play game with my phone, why would she go through my phone to check my messages? even though I don't have anything to hide, to me, it is sheer expression of distrust 1 Like |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by judette(f): 12:27pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
MzPecs: me too 1 Like |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by missyadorable(f): 12:34pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
NewSheriff: Our openness to each other isn't with our phones...If I check his phone,i must "see something"...and since I can't check his phone,he must not touch mine |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by missyadorable(f): 12:36pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
misspicy: Yes! Stop feeling good about being main chic when you are not married! Men are very funny and good actors! The so called side chic may end up being the wife while madam main chic gets dumped! |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 12:41pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
Odunharry: Lol. Please, don't. Nairalanders are the holiest of humans... until another scandal pops up |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by misspicy(f): 12:41pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
McTobe:$5000 per mention end time weight loss check |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by misspicy(f): 12:43pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
McTobe: now am scared for my life, am I safe? |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by CoCoLav(f): 2:11pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
tolutweety: Yes...and you broke my heart! You were having an affair with Nkechi! Still unbelievable. |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by ajademola2000(m): 3:03pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
Oliviaarims: Your opinion ain't bad, by the way.. you look beautiful and your face looks familiar |
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Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by tolutweety(m): 3:41pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
CoCoLav: wha....at !!! Don't tell me you believed all the stuff you saw on my fone. Person no fit just play with another lady again.. Gimme chance make i gum your broken heart together again na. |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by gcof(m): 4:04pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
AfroKnight:hahahahaa its not about the messages she get , its about her reply to those messages |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 4:13pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
nkemdi89: The fact that he marries you does not mean he can't divorce you. What am saying is, u being girlfriend sound unofficial to you, and u want that paper/document saying you are married. This is not like olden days, if you guys get married and he is tired of you, he can still divorce you/ or cheat on you. So you want to do it right the first time, no rushing. Keep your options opened, just shows that you would marry anybody that gives you a ring. You shouldn't dwell too deep in the fantasy of marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 4:27pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
cheerycoco: Have a conversation with him, tell him how you feel. Tell him he shouldn't use Vault or any lock apps, to hide his messages. Ask him if he is cheating? If he doesn't do any of this things, or he has been cheating, then you shouldn't waste your time in the relationship. Just move on, it will be hard, but its for the better. |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by tervishi(m): 4:34pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
If I find anything suspicious, I will also start acting and keeping suspicious stuff, also making sure she sees them. |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by nkemdi89(f): 5:18pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
ikp4succes:You don't understand my point, going through someone's phone is criminal, there should be some boundaries when one is in a relationship. What if he uses the details he gets from my phone against me? Am not a Disney Princess that sees relationship as all and all, it's contractual and if any of the party can't keep to the terms and conditions, it's pertinent for dissolution to take place in the relationship. |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by shalom4eva(m): 5:29pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
Yea i acept its nt gud 2snoop xpecialy in a relationship dts open, bt nt when there is a CHANGE IN CHARACTER,true smetyms we may hv flirt comunications (calls,txts,chats) wth smeone who is nt our lover nd we maynot mean 2hv anything 2do wth such person, bt do u knw dat temptation cmes 2a man who mkes himself a target 4it? if u continue flirtin dt guy/gal nd say its jst 2wyl away tym,there is no tym u wont fall 2temptation. so my advice alway tel anybody nd everybody how u nd ur partner luv each oda, hv his/her pic on ur fone nd dnt try 2hide his/her identity frm anybody. there is nothing dt makes a wooer loose interest in u than dis,trust me it realy wrks. if u do dis to each oda then u hv a trust worthy relationship. most guy wooers wil persist sha, bt if u truely luv ur guy kip mentionin how luvin he is, dt wooer go stil tire nd leave u alone. |
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