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Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 12:15am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Well if he or she is cheating, its beta to know very early, than to go two three years in the relationship and find out they have been cheating.. There is nothing like insecure nonsense.. She can check my phone if she want, and i can check hers.. The earlier u find out the better, am always a fan of; make sure u break up with me, if you want to cheat. Just be matured about it. 1 Like |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 12:16am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Odunharry: Yes.. But there are different ways of handling it. Okay say you do find something. Something completely innocent. That can be explainable. You'd be unable to think straight. You'd think the worst and make rash decisions. Even if you found nothing at all, you'd make the nothing seem like something. Wouldn't you just rather go to your partner and tell them how you feel. 2 Likes |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by naijaboiy: 12:18am On Dec 17, 2015 |
YourMain:As the Op stated,when things are going wrong you begin to suspect. that's when questions will arise. You can't be checking your partner's phone when everything is going fine. You seem to have a penchant for trusting people 100%. 4 Likes |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by BuddhaPalm(m): 12:19am On Dec 17, 2015 |
The past and present are indicators of the future... Naturally, anyone who wants you will put up the front that you're most amenable to. If you are screening for potential long term mates, one of the FASTEST ways to get a good gauge of who they really are is to peruse their private correspondence. Is she fvcking 10 guys? You know where the answer is. Does she rely on gifts from men for a living? You know where the answer likely is... Don't mind anyone who calls you insecure or whatever. Na them get their mouth. 7 Likes |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by naijaboiy: 12:21am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Cutehector:That's my point bro. It's not like one will be asking for his girl's phone any little time. There should be a concrete reason. You may have been suspecting her for months and may have even asked questions outside before you even decide to take your investigations further. That should be like a last resort when you can't really find nothing but she still keeps acting suspicious. 4 Likes |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by nkemdi89(f): 12:23am On Dec 17, 2015 |
AfroKnight:I agree with that toasting aspect, my ex goes through my phone all the time and whenever he sees other toasting me he gets upset, I told him he isn't married to me so my options are opened, that I won't chase other suitors. He said he can't compete. 1 Like |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by naijaboiy: 12:23am On Dec 17, 2015 |
BuddhaPalm:To me that word "insecure" is really misused these days. One is trying to protect him/her self from heart break and other devastating events that may occur and you tag them insecure. In my opinion,it's right to be insecure sometimes. 5 Likes |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Cutehector(m): 12:24am On Dec 17, 2015 |
naijaboiy:true that.. I agree with you. Lol ironically, its even the ladies that are fond of checking guys phones yet they come on social media to play the saint. |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 12:24am On Dec 17, 2015 |
naijaboiy: Yes. I know. And I'm saying talk to your partner. I just find it more effective. If I'm uncomfortable with how I feel with who I'm with. I tell him. If things don't change, I'll leave. What if you find nothing on the phone and you're still suspecting ? You'll hire a PI ? And what if the PI finds nothing ? You'll never ever be truly content. And you'll stay with someone that will leave you paranoid for good. I don't seem like anything. 2 Likes |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 12:26am On Dec 17, 2015 |
naijaboiy:very correct.. many don't want to be labeled " insecure " so they pretend and just trying to leave a life to please people 1 Like |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 12:26am On Dec 17, 2015 |
nkemdi89: bad woman.. babes use this line to get married..becos u not married to me, my options are opened..nonsense. If my babe says that to me, break up instantly. 4 Likes |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by naijaboiy: 12:26am On Dec 17, 2015 |
YourMain:well if you don't feel comfortable with digging deeper to find out the truth then no problem. To each his/her own. 3 Likes |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by peterboro: 12:27am On Dec 17, 2015 |
I don't think there is anything wrong with ur partner going through ur fone if only u truly have just 1 "Single Partner". *~ N.B: the single indicates that u are not dating sumbody wife ooooo. Bt at the other hand it's dangerous cos if u are sum1 dat does steady cash flow business and u do receive alert pls don't give her dat chance cos she will start many things funny..... except she's your legal wife then she has d right knw ur financial stutus!! Bt remember not all those bring make we finish am at ones wife ooooooOOO. That's the little i know... |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 12:28am On Dec 17, 2015 |
naijaboiy: Maybe so. |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 12:29am On Dec 17, 2015 |
BuddhaPalm:very true.. no one wants to end up with time waster, cheat, liar etc.. The question I asked Is will she tell me the man who found out the wife has been lieing and cheating did a wrong thing by going through his wife Facebook post?? The earlier people protect themselves from cheats, liars and who knows 419ners and what Hav you are the better 1 Like |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by naijaboiy: 12:30am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Odunharry:Me I don't care about that word. When I feel a sting..i ask. If the need be,i'll check. If I find nothing I apologize to her and we move on. 1 Like |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by naijaboiy: 12:33am On Dec 17, 2015 |
nkemdi89:How can you say such a thing to your boy friend? I think it's better you stay single till the person who'll marry you comes. Which one is "you are not married to me so my options are opened". Why then are you in a relationship? Mutual sexual benefits? SMH 7 Likes |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 12:33am On Dec 17, 2015 |
YourMain:people handle issues differently.. Going to partner, what will it change?You think cheats aren't good at there game? Read a story on Nairaland how a man caught his cheating wife when he checked her Facebook acct and discovered the wife was not only a cheat but has bn lieing and deceiving him . on this thread, about two or three people shared their experience. I have heard and seen lots of similar stories too Do you think the man/ this people made the wrong move?? |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by nidera(f): 12:34am On Dec 17, 2015 |
I once had a guy bt cus am staying with my jealous brothers,i never had much time to spend with him bt initially he was cool with that bt all of a sudden he changed totally,,,,he never cared for me financially not for once and I never complained. I used to see a girl around him bt he claimed he never touched the girl that she is a virgin that he doesn't want to break her heart,I kept quiet.on one fateful day,I came visiting, this same girl was the person that opened the door for me and told me that he went out to get something that I should make myself comfortable,I was like wow! I still kept quiet bt left, not feeling happy.then after, he reassured me that he is not interested in the girl,,OK as usual...I visited another beautiful day and stayed a bit long then I said let me clean up his house but there in d wore drop I saw ladies wear,u can imagine what he said to me:that it was a friend who was stranded that he helped, forgot her clothing's both undies,,,I accepted,playing the fool for peace to reign,,,this my guy never allows me touches his phone bt one day he left his phone to go and shower so I quickly grabbed it and lo and behold, he sponsored the said virgin girl's WASSCE and he financed the burial cloth of this same virgin girl's mom burial amounting to =N=100,000,at this point I gave up everything without looking back and he never came bck, not until 2-3yrs later he started calling and begging that I should come back that he is really sorry...bt I got to know through my cousin that the said virgin girl was no more loyal that she has gone wild,,,hmmmmmm I forgave him bt no second Chance in for him cus I know I tried bearing all his lies |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 12:36am On Dec 17, 2015 |
naijaboiy:lol. she just gave us another reason why it's good to check once a while . only if the guy knows he's wasting his time |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 12:37am On Dec 17, 2015 |
BuddhaPalm: You'll be judging that person on their past and you're meant to be their future... #youonlyfindwhatyou'relookingfor Look for the good in people and you'll find it abundantly so be careful what you search for. |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by naijaboiy: 12:40am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Odunharry:Big time wasting! Because madam has already made it clear that he's not the only one by keeping her options open. 2 Likes |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 12:40am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Read a story on Nairaland how a man caught his cheating wife when he checked her Facebook acct and discovered the wife was not only a cheat but has bn lieing and deceiving him . on this thread, about two or three people shared their experience. I have heard and seen lots of similar stories too Do you think the man/ this people made the wrong move?? To me nothing wrong in their actions considering the circumstance that led to it and my opinion is check if you want to check but don't turn it into an habit |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 12:41am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Odunharry: Yaaaaaas! Maybe it's just me. I could never do that to someone I claim to love and care about. I'd feel so dirty afterwards. From all my relationship experiences in life. I've always talked to my partner when I wasn't okay with my gut feeling. And if they Weren't able to change that id just go. Maybe it's just a personal thing. I'm already crazy as it is and I don't need to be spying on people. If I don't feel okay and he can't fix it. I'd go. |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 12:41am On Dec 17, 2015 |
naijaboiy:I blame the guy for still hanging around except they are into FWB |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by naijaboiy: 12:42am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Nubian113:At crossed words. It's not possible to find what's not there. If i'm looking for compromising messages and she is clean then there is no way i'll find it. If I find what i'm looking for then it simply means she's guilty of what i'm suspecting. 6 Likes |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by AJaylee(m): 12:43am On Dec 17, 2015 |
I can't say if it's wrong or ryt cos I've been doing dat nd I've been seeing stuff dat kills me internally but wen I take it up to her, she wil start cryin, saying it's nt wat I think, but she still flirt secretly wit guys nd weneva I go tru her phone I'll still see something new which she can't explain, so I wanted to stop bt I can't stop. I feel my relationship is nt secure, she loves me bt she still wants to be free to d world, nd no no no,i won't like dat. So I keep checking nd weneva I'm fed up, I'll just adieu baby. 1 Like |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by naijaboiy: 12:44am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Odunharry:Yea except that. But he may be hoping on marrying her some day,who knows? |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 12:44am On Dec 17, 2015 |
YourMain:Good... If you discover tomorrow your all loving bf / husband who treats you like Queen nd doesn't show any trace of cheating or deception, has about 2 or 3 gals he is seeing?? |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 12:46am On Dec 17, 2015 |
naijaboiy: But if you won't looking you wouldn't have found it (good or bad) Like attracts like. It's a simple theory that states "you create your own reality" I look for the best in my lover and that's what I find. |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 12:46am On Dec 17, 2015 |
naijaboiy:true that.. if she is not ready to be faithful mk she chill one side.. If na olosho things she want do make she enta street and no decieve the poor guy. Sadly, many people leave that kind of life today |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 12:47am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Odunharry: Then of course I'd leave him. And also if my husband or bf felt he needed to check my phone and he did. And he found nothing. And he comes to me and say oh sorry babe I checked your phone cause I was suspecting things. I'd leave him too. |
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