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Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 12:34am On Dec 16, 2015 |
misspicy:lol @ side chic |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 12:40am On Dec 16, 2015 |
AfroKnight:lol.. fight ke? u dey try o. The only time I noticed that didn't even act as if anything happened.. we were sitting together and d messages came in.. It was in her front self I opened it and we read together. She was thinking I will shout or do something crazy but me no get time..We continued our gist. |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by frankay430(m): 12:48am On Dec 16, 2015 |
very wrong |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by AfroKnight: 12:50am On Dec 16, 2015 |
Odunharry: Fight must shele. Why? Because I go ask simple question and she go wan dodge the question. And na that dodging go vex me...small time, quarrel don start. PS: By fight, I no mean physical fight o. Just quarrel. |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 12:51am On Dec 16, 2015 |
frankay430:Good....different opinion though . |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 12:54am On Dec 16, 2015 |
AfroKnight:Lol. .I know. Atimes when people start misbehaving we will know. When they don't pick calls in front of you and even when they do, they reply with one or two words like yes I no, fine etc or switch off their Fone 1 Like |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by AfroKnight: 1:05am On Dec 16, 2015 |
Odunharry: Lol. I just wan clear myself make all these amateur feminists no face me ni. If babe cannot pick call in my presence, I normally keep quiet. I try not to bring it up until I see other corresponding signs. It's too much stress to be investigating a woman. They will always meet more interesting guys who are richer, more fascinating and more handsome. Normal tin. Once the signs are obvious to me, I'll prepare my mind for a break up. 5 Likes |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 1:11am On Dec 16, 2015 |
AfroKnight:true.. me no get time to dey snoop up and down.. at the right time fowl yansh go open jare .. |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by MRBrownJ: 2:22am On Dec 16, 2015 |
Odunharry: you are absolutely right.... its like a virus, and even when the person dont find any signs of foul play, the doubt will be there already and there wont be much to do to erase it from ones mind. what i never understand is the people who go snooping around, find terrible secrets and do absolutely nothing about it. they might as well save themselves the headache, and not bother searching. 1 Like |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 3:31am On Dec 16, 2015 |
I hate that shit. I don't do it. Anybody can check my fone. If we are dating, u are not in prison infact u ar free. The way we chat is just different. |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 5:32am On Dec 16, 2015 |
In my opinion, I'd say that if ur relationship seems perfect enough, then it's better to save urself the trouble of going through his phone... Because there's every likelihood u may see sth that wouldn't go down well with u, even if it's not sth actually bad. It may just be some silly jokes he makes with his female friends, or a particular girl he talks with quite often or usual guys - talk. But when u see stuffs like that, u'd most certainly get irked up and strt nursing unnecessary doubts. So, my dear, unless u suspect foul play, pls don't snoop around. 1 Like |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by miqos02(m): 5:33am On Dec 16, 2015 |
since I have no hidden agenda, she can |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by joseph1832(m): 6:41am On Dec 16, 2015 |
Favolly:And some people still say what you don't know can't hurt you. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Acidosis(m): 8:06am On Dec 16, 2015 |
I don't see any harm in reading through one's chats... You're only trying to know things your partner won't ordinarily tell you. However, I won't recommend this to those whose partners are perpetual flirts. You will always find something devastating (could be sex chat, sharing nu.de, exchanging foul terms, or promising to visit some guys at their homes, etc.). Some people already know their partners can't be trusted, in that case, I won't recommend snooping and exchanging phones. We only pretend to be dating saints and angels. A girl whose boyfriend is always around girls has no business checking his boyfriend's phone. You're only trying to confirm what you already know. A guy whose girlfriend has over 1000 male friends and always acting like "we're just friends, my boyfriend trust me", has no business checking her partner's phone. What you're trying to confirm by checking her phone is already known to you. If the exchange of Smiley (kisses) with every tom dic.k and harry don't upset you, something terrible will. Lastly, relationship problems will end when individuals involved fulfill their roles appropriately. 6 Likes |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 8:54am On Dec 16, 2015 |
Acidosis:Gbam... well said bros |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 8:56am On Dec 16, 2015 |
AfroKnight:That's maturity and high level of self esteem. I like that 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 9:03am On Dec 16, 2015 |
Abbykem:nice it means you are against it |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by MinorityTribe: 11:44pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
I don't care if my partner go through my phone, i have nothing to hide anyway. But i can't be going through my partner phone, it just seems childish. 1 Like |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 11:45pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
people no dey sleep o kudos lalasticlala |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 11:45pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
double post.. |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Slimzybaby(m): 11:46pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
No biggie! Infact my babe do initiate convo with my side chicks sef! Can you imagine? The babe believe me die and i'm not ready to cheat on her. We're just paddies |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by stephenqueen: 11:46pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
MzPecs: |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by DaBullIT(m): 11:46pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
What's she hiding ? i went through ex's phone i almost died dishonest biatch aint loyal But now i know , i protect myself and i avoid her like plague 2 Likes |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 11:47pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
Slimzybaby:lol and dom side chick no know?? |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by suwalee(f): 11:47pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
Odunharry:it's wrong if u respect dem u won't do that communication nd trust is the key to lasting relationship mind u fine he's cheating wat are u gonna do about it ladies steer clear frm their phones to avoid tears nd aches 2 Likes |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Cutehector(m): 11:49pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
Very wrong! |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by naijaboiy: 11:50pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
YourMain:I don't think periodic checks results to insecurity. 3 Likes |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Style007(m): 11:51pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
I laugh at people here shouting "communication is the key". keep shouting it till u see your gf marriage invitation card a day to the wedding or even contact stds Its good to find out things your partner won't tell u ordinarily I don't have problem with my partner checking my phone and I will check hers when I notice fowl play NOTE read at your own risk, because u may see something that will make u... 12 Likes |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 11:51pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
Odunharry:really don't like going through partner's phone as in then but that eedioot take me for granted because of my nature and mumuness for love, but not until I receive the deadliest blow of my life and even went to the extend of tagging me of something through her phone. If you feel that one is cheating on you, fee free to check he/her phone to calm your feelings about the person. But this days WOMEN flex ALOT and them don't even hid it (you will just know ) so there is no even need to check that person's phone. Just cut ties with her. Time is no longer waiting! |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 11:51pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
suwalee:Good.. an opinion noted... anyway,i hardly go thru people's Fone.. brought up the topic to hear from people. |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 11:51pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
naijaboiy: You're right. Insecurity results in periodic checks. 2 Likes |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 11:51pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
Very very very wrong |
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