NAIRALAND people

please help me, i ve been having this problem if bed wetting during my OND DAYS

but thru frequent prayer i got passed it, i had a boyfriend then and i bedwet at his place, it was so embrassing and he left me, now am and 29 year old and i have a fiance who really love me and we will be tying the knot IN SEPTEMBER THIS YEAR

i travelled to see him THREE weeks ago, i slept over at his place and when it was mid night i notice that i was feeling cold, to my suprise i bed wet again , i had to tell him that he should on our generator cos i was feeling so HOT, when he went out i quickly turn the bed upside down and change the bed sheet to avoid the embarassment

please nairaland i dont know what to do about this

i need help

find out from the medical personnels or whatever if there can be any medical manipulations to control or stop it. I think you better open up to your fiancee cos it will be worse if he discovers it himself. maybe you can have your own personal bed as a last resort.

eina:

find out from the medical personnels or whatever if there can be any medical manipulations to control or stop it. I think you better open up to your fiancee cos it will be worse if he discovers it himself. maybe you can have your own personal bed as a last resort.

i concur,
@poster: pray ceaselessly

please nairaland ladies and men

i need a serious advice on this issue

i pray that non of you would be in my situation

Amen

OP,

Thats a serious thing o. You do need to seek a very qualified doctor in that area, they might be able to prescribe you something to stop it or help you along the way

On the other hand, if you re a christian, keep praying. God is an amazing God. With faith, He heals all.

lastly, you should be honest with someone you want to get married to, no matter what. put yourself in his shoes, if he bed wets and you found out after your wedding, how would you feel? you'd feel bad that he's been keeping secrets from you, and worst of all, bed wetting secret. He may seriously consider leaving you, to be honest

be honest with him, if he loves you enough, both of you can work through it. Goodluck

Please see a doctor. And try getting into a routine of not drinking too much before bedtime.

I understand ur ordeal my dear, just tell ' THE ALMIGHTY GOD' He alone has the answer to that, okay? e go better.

Set d alarm of your clock to wake u up every 2 hours to empty your bowel and pray to God.

lolly-d:

please nairaland ladies and men

i need a serious advice on this issue

i pray that non of you would be in my situation

Amen

sorry try deliverance and avoild drinking water in the evenings. someone told she dreams always being in a toilet when she bed wets and suddenly awake to see herself in bed. that definately was demonic.

check how it happens and go for couselling and pls try avoid late night water

must you ask every question on NL?

i say talk to your bf about the issue so he is aware and you dont have to feel under pressure when around him, cos i bet that doesn't help too.

1. - see a doctor - find our if there are any medical explanations
2. - pray about it
3. - be proactive and do not drink water,tea, alcohol or anything with direlective atleast 3hrs before bedtime
4. - wake up regularly about eveyr 2-3hrs to empty your bladder.

If your bf really loves you he will help you through this and you should start trying to tell when your bladder is full

My Sister , the suituation is not good at all but there is nothing impossible with GOD , If you are a christain, go and confide with your pastor , let both of you pray about it . I strongly believe it will stop if you have intoto faith in GOD.

please go for delivarance, it is not a normal or physical thing you have no power of yourown to control it because it is a spirit and you must chase it out b4 it ruins your life

my sister i really feel ur pain

I'll suggest u move closer to God for he is the only one can help you out of this situation,

and please try and tell your boy friend about it for his action will show if he trully loves you or not

Try not to take too much liquids at nite and make sure you visit the loo before going to bed.
Also, see a doctor and pray very hard.

I won't advice you just go straight and tell your bf. If you both attend the same church, talk to the pastor and let him talk to your bf. Your pastor should be able to approach the issue better.

Don't worry, it'l trun out well!

That is not spirit,neither is it demonic my very dear friends.I have some questions for the poster (1) were u sexually harassed in ur tender age? (2) did u start havin s€x in a tender age? Because i've got a guy whose gf bedwets,and when he found out,he just cut off d relationship at once.The girl said she started havin s€x at d age of 8,imagine. If your answers to the two questions above is NO,then go and see a good doctor,u need to be examined carefully and thoroughly too.Dont worry ok,e go better.

I think i've heard about this condition - it has to do with a weak bladder or something. . . But, kai! why did u have to wait until this long before seeking medical attention

As a guy, it will be difficult to stick with u oh, especially when he has to think of how this can be passed on to his kids by heredity!!! Abeg go and see a doctor oh!

I know it will be hard for u to tell your fiance for fear of loosin him,but u have to so that u both can see d doctor together ok,u can consult an older person u trust he'd listen to,or a pastor ok. Him been by your side might even speed up ur healin,who knows? Pray too.na God get power o,if he could heal the woman with THE ISSUE OF BLOOD, then who are u not to be healed

tiniyata:

That is not spirit,neither is it demonic my very dear friends.I have some questions for the poster (1) were u sexually harassed in ur tender age? (2) did u start havin s€x in a tender age? Because i've got a guy whose gf bedwets,and when he found out,he just cut off d relationship at once.The girl said she started havin s€x at d age of 8,imagine. If your answers to the two questions above is NO,then go and see a good doctor,u need to be examined carefully and thoroughly too.Dont worry ok,e go better.

And how do these issues result in bedwetting?Is there a scientific proof,this is seriously misleading.Not that having sex at an early age is ok but please it does not result in bedwetting unless u hav som scientific backing.A weak bladder is the most likely cause of this condition and can be controlled if one cuts water intake at certain times.

GIRL dat is bad but there is notin God cannot do, just call God with all ur hrt. i'm a living testimony. but my was not bedwetin, It was afflition and was urinating every second but wen i can the master(GOD)

spikedcylinder:

Nawa o. You are getting married to someone and you don't have the guts to tell him about your prevailing medical conditions.

Wonder if he has a few skeletons in his cupboard too.

I buy ur tot
@poster, Telling him makes sense than hiding it cos if he finds out he might leave u but if u tell him he can still decide 2 marry u and look for a solution to ur problem.

@op

dis is not a medical problem @all, @29, do u fink its ordinary?
better u be a prayer warrior, and dnt try hide it from ur fiance, if he loves u for real, he'll help u find a solution

@Post

1- Talk to your bf about it. . . He'd prolly laff his ass off @ first, but on seeing how serious you are. . he'd sit up n listen
2- its possible your kidneys cannot hold enough fluid so @ regular intervals, u find urself "obeying nature's call". . Like the other post said "Set an alarm that wakes you up @ least two/three hours everytime @ night"
3- Go see a specialist in urinary stuffs to get yourself checked
4- Pray to God it DOESN'T happen in public. . .

Just my thoughts

Just wondering if this is true in the first place

if it is, i suggest 'LABE ORUN'. but plead with baba segun adisa not to show ur face.his email add is majiyagbe4sure@yahoo.com

if it isnt, babe u are a clown coz u got me laffing

am hoping its not true though

@ poster,

This is a sorry situation. My candid advice is that u confide in your pastor ( if you are a xtian) and go for deliverance. Nothing is too big for God to do.

Do that now, tomorrow may be too late. I pray God will see you thru.

fizzybaba:

Just wondering if this is true in the first place

if it is, i suggest 'LABE ORUN'. but plead with baba segun adisa not to show ur face.his email add is majiyagbe4sure@yahoo.com

if it isnt, babe u are a clown coz u got me laffing

am hoping its not true though

U don't think it's true because it's not possible or, u've neva heard of such a condition, or u just signed up to exhibit ur ignorance or mock the poster?U definitely cldn't be using both spheres of ur brain wen u made that post.

cold:

U don't think it's true because it's not possible or, u've neva heard of such a condition, or u just signed up to exhibit ur ignorance or mock the poster?

*U definitely cldn't be using both spheres of ur brain wen u made that post.*

rotf. . . LMAO seriously

@cold,u're so very bad

All this talk about pastors and deliverance. Do you think her problem is spiritual? See a psychologist or go see dem yemkem, okooloyun and co

I feel your pain, the candid truth is that your case is not medical, but spiritual. I am not a kind of person that spiritualised every issue, but this I know. The fact that it happens at some crucial time confirmed it to be spiritual.  I was once in your shoe, and I know people who were once in your shoe (married) but God delivered them, Going to doctors will be a waste of time, they will ask you to go for series of test which might not help, your best bet is to  pray to God and settle this case on your knees.  Pray until something happens (when u see a sign of victory) because dont take a risk of waiting till when the situation will reoccurr again. It may be hereditary, God will still stop it.  I john 5:4. Discuss with your finance if you have an understanding one, It's well. Remeber only God can solve your issue, I will also pray along.