I feel its not good. Most ladies do it and they feel it's normal and most guys allow it. Or what do you think?

So its better to have sex and go home.
reminds me of the story of a prostitute that said she had Aids but just a little bit

Living with someone helps you get to know eachother much better, you'll see all the small things that a couple of hours/day spent together won't show, and it'll reaveal the real you, He will see your face when u wake up, without makeup or fancy clothes, you will see him helping you out with daily chores, you'll have guests, share so many things together, start building up your own universe, therefore you'll get a glimpse of what marriage means and you'll know if you are ready for this and if the other person is the right one.

you mere remain silent,whatever you say or do will be used against you in the court of law.

sleep ova. . yeah
live wit him . . NO!

See you in my hotel tonight girl,i got room keys(cassidy) checking out six in the morning

It has become a norm yet its bad

iice:

sleep ova, yeah, live wit him, yeah

twinny word o jare! _{after all this thing is called loff}

what about sleeping over in your girlfriend's place?

sure, it's the same thing

It is not the same thing! Women are supposed to move to/stay with men and not the other way round. It is a little demeaning for a man to go fu**ing around in his girl's place. Not a taboo though

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* Is it wrong for a couple to live together before marriage?
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Please view this topic from two angles. If u dont believe in God and you're okay about going to hell or u care less, it's fun 'camping' a girl overnight. If you're the type that so loves sex and the girl too is a nymphomaniac like 50 cent said, then u could be looking at at least three rounds before morning. I've been there but this is the flip of things,

If you're the type that knows God and revere Him with all your heart, then you'll wait for the right time. This is where I am. Some are in between , in name of experimenting then just dont be caught those diseases are real dont say i didnt warn u.shit happens.condoms bursts, sometimes while in the midst of the euphoria, it slips away.leaving u wondering if u ever wore it in the first place only to find it under ur mattress some days after, wanna know more about how to seduce a girl over to ur place overnight? mail me,

This one na correct topic. Its okay for the guys, but for the girls its very very dangerous. the guy could just turn out to be something else. so girls be carefull. if you would go i will advice you to go with a cutlass in your bag. hehe hehe hehe

mamaput:

So its better to have sex and go home.
reminds me of the story of a prostitute that said she had Aids but just a little bit

yes i can and i have becos i am independent( dont do it if you live at home with parents)
Live with him? no

Spend the night/weekend at your boyfriend's place- why not?
live together- not too sure about that.

There's something I still don't understand about some people who condemn this. Living together with a significant other doesn't necessarily mean that the both of you are sleeping with each other. I mean, it's actually very possible to abstain from sexual intercourse before marriage. Why exactly is it a bad thing to cohabit with someone of the opposite sex?

:D4 God sake we all know wats ryt and let try and implement it. [color=#990000][/color]

Here's a similar topic
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-2538.0.html

I feel its ok atleast it would give you guys an INTRO of what it would be like when you are finally married.Its what we all do nowadays.There is a school here in Nigeria that students live like couples.Moreover,it depends on what perspective you look at it from.Religiousl its wrong but Civilization makes it right.

had a boyfriend that i used to spend the night with or maybe weekends but we never lived together. The relationship lasted 4 years, my longest so far.

then i had another boyfriend i started of spending the night with then finally moved in with. The relationship lasted 6 months, my shortest.

I think u should leave moving in for marriage. so that you wont take out all the thrill and surprises of marriage. I mean its bad enuf ur not going to be a virgin on ur wedding nite. if uv already being living together, after marriage its like, "ok, what else is new"? but if u move in after marriage the excitement will be there that its so cool i live here now and i actually dont have to go home .

Some guys like the idea of a live in lover cos they now have a cook, cleaner and can have all the sex they want whenever they want it.

Other guys dont like the idea because they have girls for everyday of the week, so moving in will cramp their style.

i just feel you should leave some surprises for marriage. But on the other hand living together shows you if ur'e both compatible. Hey it took me about three months living with my EX to know i cant stand his gutts. So it moight actually be good.

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I mean, it's actually very possible to abstain from sexual intercourse before marriage. Why exactly is it a bad thing to cohabit with someone of the opposite sex?

But it's also very little probable that this would happen. Let's be honest!

White nkem, you dont need to live in a boyfriends house in order to know him well, but could be ok if the guy has propose.

I don't think it is wrong for a guy/girl to sleep at another's house.This is a new generation.Contact me on my E-mail address "charly_stays at yahoo.com"so that we can gist further on any[s][/s][sup][/sup][size=8pt][/size][font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font][color=#006600][/color] topic.Charles

Man-eater:

Other guys don't like the idea because they have girls for everyday of the week, so moving in will cramp their style.

thats my girl!!

Hey,

hello pple, a new member!!!

Nah, mi cant! Sleep ova if i ave no choice (which is rear) bt live with him, no way! its jst not right, !!!

Safe

Nothing bad in it jare

i support the idea  ooooooooooo cos its cool cos you will know the person you re really dating and make up your mind there after.

:-x