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Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by Kenchukky(m): 9:24am On Dec 25, 2015 |
My dear this is a life time journey we are talking about. broken relationship better than broken marriage. If he is not comfortable and got a nasty answer when he talked to her about it then that is it. She is not serious. We have serious ladies out there. 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by Homguy(m): 9:24am On Dec 25, 2015 |
VampireeM:what gibberish are you typing happily, you agreed that she was doing something wrong yet you are giving excuses for her, you obviously do same. How can a lady not have simple glass wares? Who talked about microwave. ? Serving her fiance and his friend with stainless plate yet acquiring clothes and jewelries is totally wrong. I wont take it.stop justifying nonsense. If you visited your brotherd fiancee n she served u with flat stainless plates how would u feel? Unless thats what you use at home, there's no need justifying her action. She has even refused to change. 9 Likes |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by blaise26abj(m): 9:26am On Dec 25, 2015 |
jopretty:Stainless steel plate oh. She can buy shoes, clothes and jewellery but won't buy common ceramic plate in her OWN father's house ? That is messed up. 3 Likes |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by bolade15: 9:27am On Dec 25, 2015 |
One of the reasons I like ladies to stay alone before marriage, b'cos when she stays alone she'll know what she need in her own apartment, i've been buying kitchen wares before I left school so when I left my parent's house i've more than enough that even my friends who are getting married came to pack some & am not married but when you get to my house & kitchen you'll ask if am selling them & as at today am still buying & I love fashion a lot. Maybe she didn't know she owns the kitchen let her see reasons then talk about it if she refuse then let the will of God be done. Merry Xmas 3 Likes |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by ifeomaekol(f): 9:28am On Dec 25, 2015 |
Op dnt make me angry dis morning today is christmas! Ur cousin is 100% correct n i support his actions----------hw cn a lady dt ll start a family tmrw nt think of getting important things dt ll make her home beautiful?? Let him call d wedding off, she's d kind dt wuld end up ruining ur cousin afta marriage bt thank God say ur cousin na sharp correct guy. Dnt evn think of encouraging him otherwise. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by mira4u: 9:29am On Dec 25, 2015 |
How does her refusal to buy cutleries portray her as a bad wife or one who isn't ready for marriage? He is so narrow minded. He reasons on a thin line. 2 Likes |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by victorazy(m): 9:29am On Dec 25, 2015 |
VampireeM: "Just looking for excuse to call it quit" as in what? That he can never get married? Or his 3rd leg has disappeared? Plz for what reason? Explain! |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by Nobody: 9:29am On Dec 25, 2015 |
wwwkaycom:So he will be coming to ur house to pick stuffs forever abi??...oga ur cousin get sense abeg.....for dis kind time eh, any lady who is not willing to support her husband should go to hell 2 Likes |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by Nobody: 9:29am On Dec 25, 2015 |
This is serious o |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by teemy(m): 9:29am On Dec 25, 2015 |
wwwkaycom:One thing i can tell you strains marriages in the first year is little things of 'this is how i want my own'. even you would agree this falls under that category. They both need to ignore small things and each pick up on the other's lapses without complaining over something they could jest about. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by iswallker(m): 9:31am On Dec 25, 2015 |
ogawisdom: Is she got property she should throw it away bah....am watching u in 3d and laughing. Wait o....but the guy take style mumu o....so any girl wey him go marry must come home with a kitchen....smh 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by ashjay001(m): 9:32am On Dec 25, 2015 |
wwwkaycom: Flimsy ke? What he won't take b4 marriage can only get worse. Let hm continue d search or dey both end up in a frustrating marriage. 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by Homguy(m): 9:33am On Dec 25, 2015 |
wwwkaycom:you must be wicked or have got something to gain from that manipulative simpleton stsying on with your cousin. Leave the young man alone, he shouldn't have told you. You inadvertently dont mean well for him, encouraging him to continue with that thoughtless recalcitrant lady. Most decent ladies start to build their kitchen from spinster hood. Not having a breakable plate to serve your futurrfuture husband with , while acquiring clothes and jewelries is the height of irresponsibility and thoughtlessness. . Whats Worse?. , shes refused to change. If that young man goes on to marry such a woman because of your persuasion, you are worse than an enemy. 6 Likes |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by 9jatatafo(m): 9:33am On Dec 25, 2015 |
9th wonders of the world. |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by victorazy(m): 9:33am On Dec 25, 2015 |
mira4u: People are diff expecially men. What you see as nothing as a woman may mean big thing as man because its all about his home, his house and his money. No man is ready to suffer to get money and to suffer to spend it rather to enjoy it. She won't cool down now, tomorrow she will start praying and casting who may have working against her not to get married. 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by Nobody: 9:34am On Dec 25, 2015 |
mira4u: He is not so narrow-minded What type of human being will not have at least 5 pieces of ceramics for hospitality purposes? A working woman for goodness sake. You would think that her education would have unconsciously prepared her for this. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by ogawisdom(m): 9:34am On Dec 25, 2015 |
iswallker: She shld send it to her immediate family or relations, she shldnt move in with them |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by Bakbillz44(m): 9:36am On Dec 25, 2015 |
Na so dis mumu girls dey kill dem self oooo... Later if dem don 35 dem go wan go die for church. Even wen I was a student in school, I wasn't using stainless steel to eat my konkoshion rice or ewa oloyin.. Now for a working class lady that is about to marry.... It's a total no no. ( won tun ba so, o tun warunki) BTW d dude is a Stern businessman, he knows Wat he wants. He's not just allowing emotions to becloud his thinking. I salute him for that. 2 Likes |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by Nobody: 9:37am On Dec 25, 2015 |
shabbey09: I don't think that is the issue here Did you used to serve him with stainless plates when he visited? |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by Sgwash: 9:39am On Dec 25, 2015 |
ogawisdom: can u chill, relax, sit back and listen u urself talk. really, marriage isn't a partnership what is it then 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by victorazy(m): 9:40am On Dec 25, 2015 |
Homguy: My guy u get hot temper o! This is outrageous nau! |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by unknown87: 9:41am On Dec 25, 2015 |
wwwkaycom:It is better to be known as the guy that caLled off his wedding than a divorcee |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by Homguy(m): 9:42am On Dec 25, 2015 |
mira4u:after reading this post and other posts from most ladies on nl i am now fully convinced , most nigerian ladies are just thoughtless. Immature. Narrow minded, simpletons always looking for who to leech on. So its wronwrong for a lady to have her own glasswares? Or have the decency to serve her fiance and his friend with such. I hope you make such gaffe with your sharp fiance since you are even attacking the dude for using his head. 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by Nobody: 9:42am On Dec 25, 2015 |
VenusBetty:betty |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by victorazy(m): 9:42am On Dec 25, 2015 |
daretodiffer: |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by kessel: 9:43am On Dec 25, 2015 |
Demmocrats:Love is not the issue but from her response when questioned, it appears she doesn't take corrections and now, that is a big problem. Serving a man meal anyhow especially a soon to be is a sure sign that you have not recognized his kingship over you and you have not recognized your place as a queen.. Now considering the fact that she rarely takes correction how do you pass this across to her 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by Nobody: 9:44am On Dec 25, 2015 |
Re-read again or dont u see where the op said he discuss it with her and her responses was that it's the guy responsibilities VampireeM: 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by thunderbabs: 9:45am On Dec 25, 2015 |
Many ladies just bask in the euphoria of wedding buh do not knw wht it takes in marriage. Smx, wen i hear tlk tinz thru wit a lady....its easy buh ao about change. Personality of any individual is nt so easy to change, coz Change itself is difficult. My Candid Advice is for d guy to look further or get bleeped up. Adios 3 Likes |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by prophetfire: 9:45am On Dec 25, 2015 |
Look ur cousin shud run away frm that girl.I see his point n I believe ur cousin is principled.I dumped a girl I wantd to marry over d same issue n today I thank God I was bold to do de right thing,cos today de girl is still livin in fantasy island.I wonder de mess she cld av made of my life.if after all her goin to church n workin she has nt learnt to grow up n be a responsible woman then she cnt change.to tell ur man dt its his responsibility to think of de home shows how pathetic she is in reasonin. Dt type of lady, if a man runs into problem, she ll just dump him n look 4 another man that can sustain her fantasy island way of life. IN CHOOSING A LIFE PARTNER SHINE YOUR EYES N BE REALISTIC.DNT LET EMOTIONS N SENTIMENTS BECLOUD YOUR SENSE OF REASONING. You kno why I did de right thing n dumped mine? Its cos my step brother made this type of mistake n de girl ruined his life.I learnt from his mistake. Dnt push your cousin into fire. Allow him to follow his mind n do de right thing if you love him. 5 Likes |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by Kirinwa: 9:46am On Dec 25, 2015 |
Op your cousin is wiser than you and you should drink a little from his wisdom. The girl isn't matured yet irrespective of her age. Why I feel that serving you with stainless plate is not enough to end the relationship, I do agree that her attitude and response is. She's probably one of these EndTime girls that will say, my money is my money, your money is our money! Whoever is teaching them about marriage needs a reorientation. She should be a helpmate not a stalemate. 4 Likes |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by wwwkaycom(m): 9:46am On Dec 25, 2015 |
Helkayklassic:abi you no see am? I said its too flimsy and petty but guys aren't seeing it that way, well, we see things differently sha 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin Wants To Call Off His Wedding by lordprosh(m): 9:47am On Dec 25, 2015 |
wwwkaycom: In marriage she'll spend the kids school fees on clothes. She's not ready 4 marriage. Its better he ends it Now. Marriage is a forever tin o |
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