@Poster,
DId u not c she was ugly b4 u got emotionally involved?Man,take care of ur biz like a man! If she's good like u claim,then chill wit her.She could be d one!

Is this r/s only 3 months old?

Yes sistawoman, though we have known for about a year but it was clear there was no relationship until 3 months ago.

OBNOXIOUS:

An Ugly Woman should be shot because she isnt fit to be amongst the prescence or good looking men talkless of marrying one!

@Poster

Throw away that shapeless looking freak of nature away from your life ASAP!

My guy, you harsh o!

Ebila she may be the one but i sometimes wonder, would God give me something that is not really my heart's desire?

Kamsonwill:

Charminme, i would not want to cheat on her or any woman for that matter but my kids. This will be irreversible. I guess I will turn to prayers. God knows my thoughts and intentions no matter how bad they are. The truth even those of you criticising me, not one of you would want ugly kids.

I would turn to God, we actually started dating seriously about 3months ago, we have been friends more like hanging out and trying to get to know. She told my friend she likes me and I am not the person that likes to hurt anyone.

Personally, i dnt think i can marry an ugly guy, cos i want beautiful kids
But sometimes it does not work that way, it is really possible to have good looking kids,
10 out of 100 anyway

Listen young man,it was wrong for u to hav stuck with her all this tym knowing she wasn't up to par.But if u do feel this strongly about her looks pls don't take that plunge for the sake of posterity.u'l hate urself for doin that,break it off now while u can-better safe than sorry,Use ur head.

so you ppl are still responding to this guy?

me i don tire for am oh - i have told him what i think based on the info he gave - unless he can bring us new info

make 'im just leave d girl and continue his search for his beautiful princess - just pray say she no get FINE FACE, WOWO FASHION

I repeat Ugly women should be shot or beheaded! I can't stand them! There is even one on my face book trying to add me that i dont know from Adam. Her profile pic corrupted my whole system by just opening it!

is this thread still going on.

Thank you everyone for your advice both the good ones and the ones that criticised me.

Kamsonwill

listen to me u dont need advice from any one.

u only knows what to do, since u dont like her been urgly dump her.

once u lost interest in the relationship she will knows and cry but dont allow her, then she will move on.

dont marry out of petty becos is wrong decition

This is what happens when kids won't grow up

OBNOXIOUS:

I repeat[s] [b]Ugly women should be shot or beheaded![/b[/s]] I can't stand them! There is even one on my face book trying to add me that i dont know from Adam. Her profile pic corrupted my whole system by just opening it!

Wat are u feelin like,

@poster,
What do u mean heart desire?Listen man,sometimes u hav to make compromises to obtain happiness!

@poster,
What do u mean heart desire?Listen man,sometimes u hav to make compromises to obtain happiness! She's human too remember!

OBNOXIOUS:

I repeat Ugly women should be shot or beheaded! I can't stand them! There is even one on my face book trying to add me that i dont know from Adam. Her profile pic corrupted my whole system by just opening it!

And you are the most handsome guy on earth

@ Kamson,

I feel your pain brother, have you thought of taking her for deliverance from this wowo problem!

@poster

You need serious deliverance!

OBNOXIOUS:

An Ugly Woman should be shot because she isnt fit to be amongst the prescence or good looking men talkless of marrying one!

@Poster

Throw away that shapeless looking freak of nature away from your life ASAP!

guy u wicked

so you ppl are still responding to this guy?

lol

I think the guy is worried for himself. He just didn't want to sound too selfish that's why he put up the "what would my baby look like" defense.

Exactly how ugly is this woman? Are her eyes crossed? Do her knees knock? Are her armpits black? Do her mouth parts look like mandibles? Do her palms feel like sandpaper?

Oh yeah.Shes a looker! Snatch her up real quick . . , .

@op - You don't really want to admit it but you don't love her. It maakes you feel better to say u don't want ugly kids, but that is not it. All parents love their kids and no parent's child is ugly in the parent's eyes. You don't love this lady but got involved out of pity. Let her go and find one who will love her. She is not too ugly to marry. Also, if are sleeping with her, please stop and please cease all communications after the break up.

Im surprised at the rate at which people openly bash ugly people on this forum. Remember God created us all. Its so wrong to make fun of people for their physical disadvantage. It hurts.

OP, I'd start off by saying you are very vain. In saying this, you shouldn't have even started to lead the poor girl on in the first place if you knew you wouldn't be able to bear spending the future with her. Its wrong to lead people on.

She may be the nicest person on earth, but you should know what you want, and not make her believe something will come out of it.
If you are goodlooking, or fairly goodlooking, there's a probability that the child may not be ugly if they take after you, but Its your choice at the end of the day. If you really dont feel any love for her, its beter to end it in a slow, friendly and natural way.

Don't give her reasons(not to hurt her ego), just slowly drift away, spend less time with her, and if you re even bold enough, you can let her know that its not working and its not her fault but yours.

Sorry Dude. . .But we can't always have it all!


And If your so bothered about her look then take her for a facial reconstruction or leave her alone to someone who would appreciate her better!

I never said i am the most handsome dude, some of you r just talking like u wouldnt do worst.

thoniaslim, thats funny,it will b degrading to take her 4 such.

thank you all once again

Dude, if she's as ugly as u make her look, then u're better off moving on. The ugly girls usually make-up with being nice or churcheous If u find her unattractive in that area, get someone else - that cant be too hard!

Think of your kids, think of your class, u need a girl you'd be proud to have beside u or your guys go secretly laugh u tire. The wahala is not necessary, she wouldn't think about u twice if the tables were turned around and u were the ugly one - no matter how nice u r she will have better looking guys.

Make hay while the sun shines, dont get too deeply involved to dig yourself out!

Not easy bro, some of this people are just criticising me like they do not want their kids to be beautiful. I will think about it.

How is she ugly? Do you mean facially or bodywise? You said she has a good character, wouldn't that cover for what you define as her being ugly? You should really think this over and talk to God to help you decide well before you make a costly mistake.