CaroLyner:
extremely wrong advice.

Infact Foolish advice sef.

cruzita:
at least she told u her mind instead of deceiving u.u should be grateful .all u have to do is to show her more love and make her believe u are better and more worthy of her than her ex.my opinion

Be grateful for what? Pls read, think and analyse b4 u post abeg.

benedictac:


I don't see anything wrong with the babe's chat. she is just being herself. I don't understand some of our naija men mentality. Someone being an EX doesn't mean they should be enemies. They could still be friends. I'm happily married today and my Ex is my best friend and he come to the house. we quarrel a lot and also settle. He does my printing jobs. I do his cakes. he's married with 2 kids and his wife is also my friend. Everything is about trust. My hubby and I know very well we can't cheat on each other.


I remember before I got married years back, my husband then my fiance and I went out and I was rushing to leave coz I wanted to go and watch one of those Mexican soaps. He was angry and he said " When we get married u will not be watching that nonsense in my house" and instantly I replied him " wait make we marry first then we go know who be the man and who be the woman". Though that statement scared him at first but he soon realized that was me. At least that was what he told me later.

So personally I don't see any wrong with the chat except the guy in question is not sure of the relationship and doesn't trust the babe.

I have a feeling you r still 4king ur ex nd this post is just to defend/justify ur guilty pleasure. At a point u were incoherent cos I dnt understand how ur Mexican wareva fits into d premiss. Meanwhile I might be wrong but if m right I hope ur husband get to read this.

AdeniyiA:
sharp guy... ,you sharpaly end am to save your cash

Exactly my situation bro. I CAN NEVER BE A SIDE NIGGA!!! GOD FORBID!!

The truth is that she is a lot better than most ladies out there!! Atleast,she was bold enough to come out with the truth. It's obvious she loves her Ex more than you,it is better you let her be becos u are taken as an opportunity forgone! No be fight matter.

My girlfriend got raped visiting her ex....na their way forget her and move on with your life abeg

CaroLyner:
extremely wrong advice.

I agree with you.Very dangerous advice.

obonono:
That na why I hate discussing anything meaningful for whatsapp. Why person go just crop conversation carry show the whole world. Phone call na the best.

and you think phone call can't be recorded

benedictac:


I read it. the guy asked a stupiid question and got a the answer he deserved

Seriously?stupid question?my gf?...Sis,ur husband needs his eyes opened ASAP

cruzita:
at least she told u her mind instead of deceiving u.u should be grateful .all u have to do is to show her more love and make her believe u are better and more worthy of her than her ex.my opinion

Very wrong advice

eleshin:


I have a feeling you r still 4king ur ex nd this post is just to defend/justify ur guilty pleasure. At a point u were incoherent cos I dnt understand how ur Mexican wareva fits into d premiss. Meanwhile I might be wrong but if m right I hope ur husband get to read this.

I can see u are small boy who hasn't seen life. I leave you to ur thoughts and doubts. Seasons greetings

IamLucy:
see da way she's replying with one one word.you sure thats his bae ? cause it doesnt seem like it from this conversation

you are right, the girl response is awkward

IamLucy:
see da way she's replying with one one word.you sure thats his bae ? cause it doesnt seem like it from this conversation

Coming from a female... so u ppl are aware that one syllable replies are annoying? no girl is worth accepting one syllable convo frm, never! Reply me in a stretch of conversation with one syllable I delete u fast, nonsense!

Deeypeey:

Seriously?stupid question?my gf?...Sis,ur husband needs his eyes opened ASAP

just as yours is wide open and yet fall into pits

Mikeyjoe:

U see.
She told me the guy wanted to get her to it forcefully but she pleaded with him and was pardoned

Guy she was ryt, he wanted 2 do it forcefully and she pleaded 4 him 2 go softly, and she split wide eagle 4 him and they bleeped softly 2, remembering old times. Hahaha!

dump the bae...her heart still wants her ex and DAT one word reply jus said it all ur her sideguy!

refiner:
;Ddump her and pick me instead...dats my humble advice....

Babe don't worry about confused ppl I pick u instead, that's if u are the one on ur dp. I give all myself 2 u, all myself... seriously. Check my profile pic, u can't resist me.

lol.....bros....no go ooh...that gal na tym bomb...she go explore anytym she is alone at home as a spouse...hmmm...be warned, Choi...she chat nau...abegi I take God beg u...remeber...marriage is like a channel t.v dat u will watch for d rest of ur life...dnt u wanna enjoy ur long life channel t.v

Chai... I just feel like being in the guy's shoes. I'll make sure I ex her knowing fully well she'll regret it and come back begging.
Oh good Lord, how I love these kind of situations.

Dats galz for u dey r very confuse telling u out of experience ooo dats how one of ma babe said she has feeling for her ex can u imagine why u con leave am dey dnt really know what dey want

faith551:
Which one is marriage suitor again

Been in this situation before, I told her to choose and she said it's difficult, I told her am done. She was shocked tho but I wasn't ready to be no one's second choice, was on a Christmas season like this too. Brother my advice for you, take a walk

I guess you would have preferred she chose you, and that'll make you happy, right?. But think again she was being sincere. You would have helped her by allowing her some time to clear the cobwebs off her mind and go for her heart. If you ask me you just dumped a sincere lady who took the risk of opening her heart to you, a good virtue you could have benefited from tomorrow assuming she finally settled for you. My thoughts anyway!

JeffreyJamez:
pain to my eyes.people still chat like this?!

Asinnn

cruzita:
at least she told u her mind instead of deceiving u.u should be grateful .all u have to do is to show her more love and make her believe u are better and more worthy of her than her ex.my opinion

Silly opinion...a man has got to knw wat he wants..same for a woman

The best advice advice in this scenario is dat d guy shl break up with her and move on, one year (and counting) of breaking up with her ex, she's still emotionally attached. I've been down this road before and i can say it hurt (seeing that uve sacrificed alot for the lady in question). Of course i asked her to choose btw me and d ex, she obviously chose me kos d ex aint physcially present. The situation would have been complicated as well as interesting if the three of us were physically present (babe, ex and i) and then ask her to choose. Well, longstory short, we broke up eventually.

Dude, save urslf the pain and heart ache now!!!

cruzita:
at least she told u her mind instead of deceiving u.u should be grateful .all u have to do is to show her more love and make her believe u are better and more worthy of her than her ex.my opinion

This above comment is a clear indication that you have more than one lover.

chinkelly:

Babe don't worry about confused ppl I pick u instead, that's if u are the one on ur dp. I give all myself 2 u, all myself... seriously. Check my profile pic, u can't resist me.

my goodness!!!is DAT u at ur dp? sure I couldn't resist u........so will u be my romeo

I feel the guy in question is a mor*n though. am sorry, but didn't she mentioned she still have feelings for him?

Some guys behave like donkeys, He is her ex, they have been in a relationship once, the Ex wants a come back, the girl in question still has feelings for the Ex. what else are u waiting for? till he shows up and the both reunite and start kissing infront of you?

i bet the lady will soon start looking for faults just to leave the new donkey, or maybe start frustrating him so he could quit himself. with that, there ain't gonna be no blame on the girl.

how can this thread get to 6 pages? or am i dreaming...


how did you guys understood their chat?

nosike3:
Sh!!!!t!!!!! You stole my tot bish! but to that negro isn't even a side nigga!! He is what ladies call 'some guy'. That's way below the side nigga ranking! That's the recruits in Nigerian army, the bone in grilled chicken; the filthy old paper used to wipe the as§ after the non-availability of toilet paper,water,sand,leaf etc!

lmaoo

looks like I know this girl...

Besto:
morning pals... kk this got to me so i actually had to share it on here to get a wider view so as not to advice the friend involved wrongly.
A close friend of mine actually showed me the convo he had with his bae last night, having seen the convo he asked for my opinion.
* He is strict and str8 forward person.
*He also confirms the gal loves him and he never for once had doubts uptill this moment.
*Relationship is not his priority but he loves the gal in person and has never put anyone above her.

So n landers.. pls emulate and drop one or 2 advice. thanks

where is d gal from?

benedictac:


You don't know me to have such statement about me. Well I pity ur half brain

sowi sis but my half brain is big enuf to know dat u been that close to ur EX means ur husband's ESS ain't safe