Vanquay:
Well you must be a Gold Digger to be blind to the fact that he likes bootylicious specimens during your courtship. i understand how hard it is to gain weight so Just start doing kegel exercise to strengthen your punany at least if Yansh no dey make pvssy tight?

This agbaya no wan let me rest ....Bros Bayo respect yourself and sit in your lane, Dont cross your boundary

bayocanny:

This kid has come again

Mzdivacious:
surgery n squatting......NEEXT!

sule17:
I dnt have to read all ur story, but with the two line I read am ok.......... His is ur husband makes him like u, that is why God said we should nt aloud any to chose a life partner for us. Ur love one must be ur soulmate. It's ur duty to keep him all to ur self

StPete:
Did u get pregnant before getting married to him? Were there some conditions that forced him to marry you? Did you date for long? Some of these questions need answers

bayocanny:
Sit him down and talk to him on how u feel about the whole situation

cynalvy:
Yes I was pregnant.was into a long distance relationship but all the while had d idea that he accepted me the way I was cos he never complained

freakthingz:


So disrespectul

how tight is your own

Anyways o.p try and be more adventurous in bed......some men sha come sef is your husband an adonis if he ain't then tell him his not your type too you need six pack and 12inch

Decker:
Your case dikwa serious.

On a more serious note, I wonder why you husband went ahead to marry someone who wasn't obviously his taste. That's where the whole problem started.

You should understand one thing; If your husband starts sleeping around with women who are his taste, technically he isn't married to you anymore because by that, he has broken the principles that guide your marriage and defied your union and bond.

Is that what you want? Don't you think you are better than that?

Honestly, I think the love your husband has for you is depleting and for him to say he isn't sexually attracted and is already looking else where, means it would only keep on depleting.

I am never an advocate for divorce, but I am also not an advocate for people to stay in unhappy and burdensome relationships.

So, I'd advice you talk things with your husband, hear what he has to say about the whole thing. Ask him if he is satisfied with having you as a wife or if he isn't. If he says he isn't and that he prefers better, then please I hate to say this, but just leave him and file for a divorce. It's for the best. You deserve to be happy. You deserve to be cherished and loved for who you are.

AfroKnight:
Dear sister, you have to hope for the best. It is possible to gain weight in the strategic areas without surgery but nearly impossible to lose specific fat when you're too busty or bootilicious without going under the knife.

Therefore, you are in luck. Pregnancy will fill out your boobies. Butt is simply fat in the posterior region so its all about fat. Don't worry much. He will notice your efforts. Be positive about it. Learn new ways to excite him in the bedroom too. It's well.

cynalvy:
Thanks for your mature input

Estharfabian:
Guys!!! You can't always please them!

All men Love bootylicious n fleshy women! I don't think that's the issue!

Wait...like You don't care if he goes outside? like You don't care if he cheats on You? so far he stays in the marriage!?? now, that's super weird n irky...

One question, Are You sure You love this guy? Like totally Love him? coz i do not see why you would welcome such irrational Thoughts...I can't grasp my head around the thought of Someone I love dearly being With some other person..Like heads would roll!

nyways...about your dying sex life. there's nothing a little Communication n porn won't solve! You should communicate more..tell him what You like, what make you all Tingly And he should do likewise..

if You do these I'm sure Your sex life would be like that of Mr and Mrs Smith's in No time!
Goodluck...!

StPete:


That's where d issue lies. He accepted u not because he truly wanted but because he felt obligated to keep u n d baby

Mzdivacious:
eerrm...how tight is my what??
surgery n squatting r about d only options to get a better shape,did i look like i was making some rude joke