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Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by laginks: 9:55am On Jan 05, 2016 |
Op by Gods grace I am Happily married. I must say that if it is possible to come back to live ten more times, I would want to marry my husband those ten times. I love him so much and I can't think of even cheating on him talk less of actually doing it. He also adores me till eternity. He is my best friend... And there is no decision I take that downs pass try him and vice versa, no matter how little it is. Yes we have our little arguments, but it is always settled immediately. I have had several heartbreaks before I met him but THANK GOD I HAD THEM. Of a truth marriage is blissful if entered into with someone you love 3 Likes |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by confun: 9:56am On Jan 05, 2016 |
] queenfav:tx you o, some feel because ur marriage is less dan 5 yrs, den u no fit talk about sweet marriage yet until 10 or 15 yrs and above....pls tell dem o..... |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by modath(f): 9:57am On Jan 05, 2016 |
Pidggin: Gerrrara my head!! Dammit!!! Stole my thoughts & expressed them in simple terms!! If you are happy all the time, then you are married to a MUMUCIOUS DUMMY. 3 Likes |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by bigW(m): 9:59am On Jan 05, 2016 |
madamL: wow, am not.married yet, but I salute.. |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by Nobody: 9:59am On Jan 05, 2016 |
confun:okay! |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by martijez(f): 10:10am On Jan 05, 2016 |
taryour Nice thread,here is what works for me. Firstly I went into my relationship with a statement on my mind(if my mum can remain with my dad with all the challenges they had which I also witnessed,then I can do better) Ability to communicate effectively, while dating and up till now in marriage with 2 kids our communication has remained very very solid. Communication has really helped my relationship a lot,it helps us both trash our differences amicably,there are somethings I can't say to my hubby face(cause I know I might not present it well and I don't want to be rude) so I put it into a chat and he understands me perfectly well. Each time we have our arguments,we make sure we apologise n trash it out before the end of the day.we do not go to bed in anger. I have also learnt not to argue so much with my hubby,whenever he is angry with me am quite and let his anger subside then I apologise(even if deep down in my heart I know I wasn't wrong)I still apologise,I know how angry my hubby can get and I know better than to push further,we both have a bad temper but there can only be one leader,outside my home you don't dare mess with me,I will dish it to you very hot and spicy. I am the very aggressive type but hubby isn't,he is more calm than I am. I argue a lot too but not with hubby except in cases when we are gisting and having fun. Hubby loves football but I hate it with everything but what can I do I simply got used to it,my first son already took after him as a football fan. We both understand ourselves perfectly,we have been together for over 10years now. We have had our ups and downs which has taught us to be more united and understand ourselves better. Our sex life might not be has active as when we where still single cause of kids but we have both been active,we have fun anywhere in the house(of course when kids are asleep or in school).we try out new things and I sure don't forget my bowl of ice-cream when I want to give a special treat(call me a dirty woman/raw woman/sex freak/whatever) I care less,his my man. We have remained each others best friends,we share gifts,watch movies together,shop together,hubby goes to market for me at times and cook as well, we gossip together and share news with each other. We are both social media fans(we actually meet on a social forum and started as friends before dating which led to our marriage). We don't hide anything from each other. He introduced me to nairaland and he is also a active member on nairaland. We do not encourage 3rd parties into our affairs,it has never and will never happen. What ever happens within our walls die within our walls.we both help ourselves to remain strong in work life and business life. We support ourselves in every possible way we can with the help of God and for once I have never regretted meeting my hubby. If there is a next life,I would chose the same man all over again. My marriage is not perfect cause there is no perfect marriage but I tell you,marriage is fun and am loving it all the way.[/quote] I dunno hw to quote posts on here buh i hope this comes out well.... Wanna tell u i love u so much already and hope to have a hone like yours with a man who adores me someday 1 Like |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by Speakdatruth: 10:13am On Jan 05, 2016 |
taryour:lobatan. dats all God bless your home. 1 Like |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by anumide(f): 10:34am On Jan 05, 2016 |
placeofallure:I want to be your friend |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by God2man(m): 10:36am On Jan 05, 2016 |
Married for 15yrs. Happy? Yes. challenges? Yes. Wife? Great The truth is I do not know what I will do without my wife. I thank God for this wonderful gift. 8 Likes |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by vaniesexy: 10:42am On Jan 05, 2016 |
A very nice topic indeed, tank God for d stories of some successful marriages I read it means there is still hope in our society, To the singles out dia cos am also single, What i do know about marriage is that you must prepare for it, try to cultivate good virtues as a single person. you need to read books on marriage,attitude,dating etc n also listen to audio tapes,you must visualise the home you want in the future. Also go to seminars to gain knowledge on marriage. 3 Likes |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by robosky02(m): 10:46am On Jan 05, 2016 |
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Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by 989900: 10:50am On Jan 05, 2016 |
modath: No doubt. |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by Hoyehdayg(m): 11:02am On Jan 05, 2016 |
tete7000: Not as married couple. While we were in a relationship before we got married. |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by Skmoda360(m): 11:33am On Jan 05, 2016 |
ivyT:how about your character? Have you checked it? Keep taping, your character might be an enemy to ur intending marriage. |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by Osama10(m): 11:44am On Jan 05, 2016 |
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Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by Arihodo(f): 11:45am On Jan 05, 2016 |
[quote author=nefertitiram post=41664609]Am I Happy? Yes Am I happily married? Yes Why? Because I have no expectations whatsoever. I give my all to my marriage with no reservations, it makes me happy. My happiness cannot be determined by another person. Is my husband happy? Yes Happily married? Yes Why? Because he married a happy woman who remains happy in spite of the situation, and joy is contagious. Like today, Oga dropped me at the market and forgot to give me the money to cook. I used the money I held for baby wipes (patapata, I will wash baby's bum bum with water and soap). I saw goat meat, chai, ds one go make one bad ass soup o! I chartered it. Oga called, hw far, you forgot to collect money to cook (as if say he didn't forget to give me). I told him I used baby wipes money. He came home with the baby wipes (I didn't expect it, but nothing spoil, no need for water and soap therapy) and he praised food taya, goat meat never tasted so good. U just my day. eternity 4ever! 2 Likes |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by ivyT(f): 12:00pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Skmoda360: No one is 100% flawless including you,so when i tap into the sucess,dat includes the patience,tolerance,goodCharacter nd wise decisions towards issues...abeg no carry my mata 4 head dis is 2016...shuo o o! 1 Like |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by Nobody: 12:02pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
I come late |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by AbaGuyMan(m): 12:03pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Ginaz: Lol...don't worry dear, soonest he will find you. And yours will be a marriage made in heaven cos i see wonderful attributes in you (not hyping you ooo...). Was reading some of your posts the other day. |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by PepsiBoy: 12:06pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
I am happily married. I have been married for over 10 years and it is worth it. We have had our fair share of challenges, as every couple does, but by and large, marriage has been a good thing for me, my wife and our children. I will recommend it any day. The thing is that there are some things you need to know about marriage, which have helped us: (1) Marry your friend. Don't marry someone you hardly know. Your spouse must be a friend. (2) The two of you must share similar spiritual values. (3) Trust is important. You must be faithful to each other. Since we got married, my wife and I have been faithful to each other. it has helped us to build trust. Stay faithful! (4) Have a mentor. There should be someone who the two of you look up to as mentor and who can help resolve some small (sometimes big) disputes between the two of you. Such a person must be spiritual and must be someone you both respect. This is my 2 cents! Bets wishes. 6 Likes |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by ivyT(f): 12:07pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Teddeebear: Thats it.. |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by Teddeebear: 12:10pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
ivyT:lol, i for pm you, but You said you love good things, me no want stories that touches oooo |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by placeofallure(f): 12:19pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
anumide:You're welcome darling. |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by tete7000(m): 12:28pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Hoyehdayg: Thank you but that your post suggested otherwise. Maybe you might consider modifying it. 1 Like |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by ivyT(f): 12:33pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Teddeebear: its 'want' not 'love' _so u want ordinary things of life;dats a big lie. |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by Teddeebear: 12:42pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
ivyT:you have missed the point, the lady married a jobless man, no one talked of ordinary things, even at that, every one strives to get better by the day, hence the jobless guy now has a job. when you talk of ordinary things I don't get what you mean … |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by funmi2013(f): 12:56pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
2goodbobo:. AwwWw so sweet I tap into ur happy marriage, am just a year in my marriage, I want to live long with hubby and be happy together with our children, may God bless our marriages 2 Likes |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by skimarvel: 1:00pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Realberry:There are two options for you!!! Either avoid marriage completely or get married after serious counseling and prayer.. Your opinion about marriage is really terrible. And am seriously sorry about it 4 Likes |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by Nobody: 1:11pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
placeofallure:Madam, we will need to put that to test for confirmation. Pray that your loyalty is not put to test 2 Likes |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by 2goodbobo(m): 1:14pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
funmi2013: You shall live long with your Hubby and your children and also be happy in all ramifications of your marriage. thanx 1 Like |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by pattybf(f): 1:18pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
when it comes to marriage, every woman is a liar. I can manage to believe some men but women? naah! never you admire any marriage over ur own cos urs may just be better! 4 Likes |
Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by zemaye: 1:26pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Realberry:so sorry darling! this is what we are saying women keep enduring rubbish in the name of marriage , growing children in toxic environment !!! and this same women keep saying is for my children , now see how screwed this lady is because of here parents decision dear Realberry, they are sweet marriages, condusive homes and lovely families all together open your mind and see the big picture throw away this notion of boxing ring abeg so the circle of boxers will not continue. i am so emotional right now. so sorry dear you deserve better. 6 Likes |
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