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Re: Should I Be Worried If It's Not Me? by nguage(m): 5:20am On Jun 15, 2009 |
I didn't read through, so forgive me if someone said this already. It's possible he's trying to get you by bringing down your self-esteem first. Also, guys are not the same, there's no formula to explain how guys behave. |
Re: Should I Be Worried If It's Not Me? by SeanT21(f): 5:27am On Jun 15, 2009 |
OYINDA and C2H5OH GET A ROOM ALREADY!! |
Re: Should I Be Worried If It's Not Me? by oyinda3(f): 5:27am On Jun 15, 2009 |
C2H5OH: who gave you suya? haha pls don't spoil the girl's thread |
Re: Should I Be Worried If It's Not Me? by Diva1(f): 5:30am On Jun 15, 2009 |
@ Topup You didn't admit if you liked him?, personally if it's me, a guy I have no feelings for complimenting my friend, yea I could be a lil jealous but it ends there. No worries, no probs. He could also be doing that to see your reaction and how you feel to see if you are interested in him, who knows? It could be his tactics. C2H5OH: When was the last time I ate suya? sighs, can you mail some here? |
Re: Should I Be Worried If It's Not Me? by Oxone(m): 5:34am On Jun 15, 2009 |
@topup not every guy knows how to put their feelings into words, so the guy might actually like u but do not know how to go abt it without been rejected & that ur jealous means u feel something for him |
Re: Should I Be Worried If It's Not Me? by C2H5OH(f): 5:37am On Jun 15, 2009 |
oyinda.:Aww a tale of two halves meshing together to form a whole. That is very touching. You are probably right about what you said, but topup would not be caught dead square in anything this silly. She is not interested. Thanks for your analysis. SeanT21:Jealous? Would you like to join us for a 3some oyinda.:Making some on the grill in the backyard Diva1:Girl where's the addy? You know I got you mama |
Re: Should I Be Worried If It's Not Me? by SeanT21(f): 5:42am On Jun 15, 2009 |
Jealous? I already own U.I am leasing U to Oyinda for 3 nairas an hour!!! |
Re: Should I Be Worried If It's Not Me? by oyinda3(f): 5:45am On Jun 15, 2009 |
lol ok then i don't feel as jealous. I really thought you were having suya. it must be bad if you're making it yourself SeanT21: wow that's dirt cheap rate. you are not profit conscious at all. smh |
Re: Should I Be Worried If It's Not Me? by SeanT21(f): 5:47am On Jun 15, 2009 |
C2H5OH is not that worth it!!! |
Re: Should I Be Worried If It's Not Me? by C2H5OH(f): 5:47am On Jun 15, 2009 |
SeanT21:Woa holy shat . you must have some apple bottoms on you for you to be able to make some comment like that. |
Re: Should I Be Worried If It's Not Me? by C2H5OH(f): 5:50am On Jun 15, 2009 |
oyinda.: What the Why am I being pawned off like property SeanT21:GMAO excuse me? You do not mean that So you go just take me throway like that WOMEN! |
Re: Should I Be Worried If It's Not Me? by SeanT21(f): 5:52am On Jun 15, 2009 |
kidding ooo |
Re: Should I Be Worried If It's Not Me? by oyinda3(f): 5:54am On Jun 15, 2009 |
C2H5OH:hehe |
Re: Should I Be Worried If It's Not Me? by C2H5OH(f): 5:57am On Jun 15, 2009 |
you are FIRED ashanti! topup is the head of the pantheon occupied by all NL chicks. All y'all better learn a thing or two from her and diva1. Diva1 is American beauty . |
Re: Should I Be Worried If It's Not Me? by oyinda3(f): 6:01am On Jun 15, 2009 |
if sean is leasing you to me for 3naira/hr I wonder how much topup or diva will charge. lol it won't be in sean's interest to do that so pls rule it out. srry SeanT21: |
Re: Should I Be Worried If It's Not Me? by C2H5OH(f): 6:06am On Jun 15, 2009 |
oyinda.:oh no you didn't. |
Re: Should I Be Worried If It's Not Me? by chihums(m): 7:21am On Jun 15, 2009 |
u guys hav spoilt topup's wonderful thread wit ur suya stuff. if u divert again, i will give u kpomo. you guys suck. |
Re: Should I Be Worried If It's Not Me? by Nobody: 11:19am On Jun 15, 2009 |
i have been told that one of the ways to get under the skin of a gal you are toasting is to focus your attentions somewhere else |
Re: Should I Be Worried If It's Not Me? by spikedcylinder: 11:36am On Jun 15, 2009 |
oyb: And then when you bring your attention back to your original focus point, you'll only find an insect there because the object of your desire has walked away. Some guys seem to forget that if you see something and you like it or think of it as very desirable, others are seeing it as well. |
Re: Should I Be Worried If It's Not Me? by Nobody: 11:41am On Jun 15, 2009 |
spikedcylinder: not wholly refocusing, just enough to make the object of desire realise that there are 'other fish in the sea'. btw , it was two diff chicks that told me this. one said the jealousy you feel when a guy you have been posting ( he is mine, i have him wrapped around my finger ) focuses elsewhere is baad. of course, it has also been said (by women for that matter ) that you cannot understand women, so its more of an artform than a science |
Re: Should I Be Worried If It's Not Me? by spikedcylinder: 2:36pm On Jun 15, 2009 |
Your "two different chicks" are confused beings. What do they know anyway? They are just chicks. |
Re: Should I Be Worried If It's Not Me? by Nobody: 2:42pm On Jun 15, 2009 |
spikedcylinder: of course, it has also[b] been said (by women for that matter ) that you cannot understand women,[/b] so its more of an artform than a science i no talk am the chicks are not chicks any more o! this was waaaaay back.they are hens with broods now |
Re: Should I Be Worried If It's Not Me? by Steve49ja1(m): 2:53pm On Jun 15, 2009 |
Wow, first time ill see top-up seek advice. . . wow! Mami take things easy you prolly filling the gap when youre not spose to. Please! Please!! Please!!! Dont ask him his intentions Please dearie. . . That'll make you cheap if i were him your worth would decrease if you ask me such so please keep up with your high ego. A man could suck ya toes if you act it well. Relax, when he's around dont seem to listen to everything he says. . . I cant imagine trying to set a babe on the right path (ask her out) and complement about her friend thats CRAZY. . . . So I'll say: He just wants some some of your body, a guy who doesnt control what he says when tipsy prolly can lure/take your sister to bed when tipsy. Space him my dear and have him running after you if he really has any intentions of being with you. Hope this helps dearie. Let me know with updatez. |
Re: Should I Be Worried If It's Not Me? by Busybody2(f): 3:30pm On Jun 15, 2009 |
topup: So far so good topup: Can anyone help, I can't seem to be able to keep my jaw from dropping to the floor topup: Don't want to risk damage to my jaw again so i will just say hmmn topup: When he is sober, he is flirty, and when he is tipsy, he is very flirty And once again, its a hmmn from moi topup: From the quote above, I detect an inkling of awareness, that your thinking is along the lines of "he should have kept his thoughts and fantasy to himself out of respect to you". . . err . . . no? . . . yes? . . . topup: You don't say topup: Then my jaw was just dropping to the floor, now it is surgically glued to the floor somebody help, I am seriously not crying wolf here topup: No need to beat yourself up about this dude If your losing interest, is just on account of him flirting with other girls when you are interested, don't apportion any blame on yourself, he is 100% to blame for your waivering topup: Yay. . . yippee. . . I detect some flickering - a couple of lightbulb moment Phew someone is at home And now I can stop holding my breath, and finally breath, what a relief Hopefully all is well that ends well I hope . . . considering this is Topup |
Re: Should I Be Worried If It's Not Me? by Feelitx(m): 3:00pm On Jun 16, 2009 |
Maybe the guy got pushed away because you didn't encourage him initially. Again, I feel if he as much as place a premium on you,he will not openly be throwing compliments on your friend.How can he possibly place a value on you and then go flirting with with every one like you said? Even if you had him to yourself,does this man look like the kind who can be faithful ? I think you deserve a lot better than this one. |
Re: Should I Be Worried If It's Not Me? by Romeo4real(m): 7:27pm On Jun 16, 2009 |
So, does that mean, if a guy likes you, he'll always like everything about you?? Definitely not! It is a choice to see past someones physical imperfections, whether u love or like them, as no one is perfect. There is nothing wrong in a man both finding u and ur girlfriend attractive, especially if u are both attractive. Though u may look quite different (as you have attested to), it is still normal, as there are aspects of both your physicality that he finds attractive. Men usually don't have a type, and even if they do, they are willing to go for another attractive woman who is not their "type". The criteria is always "attractive". Anyway this is no big deal. Nigga may be gay, or he lacks liver. |
Re: Should I Be Worried If It's Not Me? by topup: 3:21pm On Jun 18, 2009 |
Can I just give a HUGE applause to the replies here, you guys have truly thought this through and some good and great advice here. The situation thus so far, Nothing, nada. I know I tend to be vague when I'm describing certain things, and at times completely over-descriptive - and I'm usually like this because of paranoia, I think if I'm too specific, that I'm just a google search away from being found out - and the SHAME that would come from it . Anyways, it's cool, nothing's happened, and I was probably bored to begin with. I think Feelitx you're very close, I believe I didn't encourage him at the time he may have had the most feelings for me and now, they've plataued. As for everybody who asked questions about why he was admitting these things, we were playing a very mature game called 'Truth or Dare' . You tend to think, once you're over 20, you can handle the game, or take it to the next level, but really, it's just as childish as it was back in primary school or whatever. I have a very very interogative friend, she is more analytical than ME!! And she made it her mission to find out what the guy's thoughts were - mind you he had no clue that this was her intention as we all played. I admitted to her a couple of nights before that I had a crush on this guy, and in this game, she asked him to rate the girls in the room, and it wasn't who he was most attracted to like I mentioned earlier, it was infact, who he would have sex with (where I came third), who he'd like to kiss (where I came first) and who he'd like to marry (I also came first). She asked more questions too. |
Re: Should I Be Worried If It's Not Me? by oyinda3(f): 5:08am On Jun 20, 2009 |
topup: wow. abajo. you are very very silly (maybe in a good way ). but what exactly makes this sillyness nairaland romance topic worthy? |
Re: Should I Be Worried If It's Not Me? by oyinda3(f): 5:20am On Jun 20, 2009 |
ok. I read ur blog. very interesting. you're very pretty btw I like your pic in the green jacket. but you worry tooooo much abt boys stop it |
Re: Should I Be Worried If It's Not Me? by C2H5OH(f): 8:03am On Jun 20, 2009 |
Nothing wrong with worrying about boys. Long as she's worrying about the right kind of boys. Maybe when she focuses on ME she can stop worrying about so many boys. but sometimes the ball doesn't bounce the way it should |
Re: Should I Be Worried If It's Not Me? by oyinda3(f): 8:14am On Jun 20, 2009 |
look at them. two grown up agbayas behaving like little kids. another reason u need to start posting in brown to complement your twin |
Re: Should I Be Worried If It's Not Me? by C2H5OH(f): 8:22am On Jun 20, 2009 |
Nope. Sometimes it has a lot more to do with two homosapiens complimenting and understanding each other. when those two are matched, it is a beautiful thing to see them working together in perfect harmony. |
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