This is actually the first time that I will be creating a post on NL. But as the saying goes, a desperate situation requires a desperate measure.
I do not truly believe in love until I met Sophia. Fast forward 12 months; my love for her still grows by each passing day. I promised to marry her. She loves me like mad. But the problem is that her parents do not want her to marry outside her state, let alone my state.
We are the same tribe but her mum by some reason does not like people from my state and has told my Sophia that I may be a good man but that if she marries me she (the mum) will never be happy.
I was expecting that with time the woman will soften her stand but this Christmas it became obvious she won't change. Now, a suitor from the same state is asking for my girl's hand in marriage and her mum wants her to marry the guy.
After speaking with my girl this night she told me that the pressure is too much because she cant go against her parents wish and that 'Mr. A (the suitor) is a nice guy too'. With that statement I feel that my girl is about leaving me.
So it's with a heavy heart I write this piece. I really need your advise. Thanks in anticipation!

Dude labeled his rival Mr A...

You saying he's First

She said she cant go against her parent n the guy is nice .....
Not really sure what u want us to say
so u better start mending your heart ... Next time do background checks early in the relationship before investing ur heart in it.

IamLEGEND1:
dump the harlót & go locate another bítch.

You obviously offer nothing special as the only thing u were to her was 'a nice guy' and since this new guy is a 'nice guy' too.........ur market is no longer selling.

trust me,if you were making 400k a month, the mama and the daughter no go even ask wic tribe u be.

See as u finish the guy career ...

iceberylin:
Dude labeled his rival Mr A...

You saying he's First

Lols I think all of them in this tale are bleeped up mentally

samflexxy:
Lols I think all of them in this tale are bleeped up mentally

God has a lot of helping to Do

A lot of bitches out there for you bro forget her

abeg.. The only thing you shouldn't let slip away is your Nairabet slip..

This bitxh isn't worth shxt!

iceberylin:

God has a lot of helping to Do

hehee bro longest tym

StrawberryCream:

See as u finish the guy career ...

we just helping a brother out. we know how dem dey operate for 9ja.


tribal bigotry goes straight out the window when the Benjamins come out to play

Boss...u fail to say whether or not u have met with the mother herself. .or even the Father... What is d stance of the father ?? is he against you too ??

Have u tried to engage with the mother in a polite and logical discussion of why you are the best for her daughter and how much u love her..

Be man enough.. Perhaps what d Mother is waiting for is to see you grow some balls. Arrange a meeting with the mum... converse with her like your own mother. be free with her...pour your heart out and let her know how serious ur love for her is ...

Then more important.. .Pray and Seek the favour of God...I believe all will be Well ..

#LeaveMatterforMatthias

cheers.

the issue after she gets married to the guy she would start regretting why she didnt fight for her love. Op dont give up yet and dont forget prayers too.

"NICE" actually means he is richer than you.

Don't take life that seriously..

Let her go.. Work harder..

When u are made, u become the universally acceptable suitor that every tribe wanna marry..


Who cares where don Jazzy is from? .. But we all wanna marry him


Even me.. Lol.. Na play o

Never force urself to a family who doesn't want u even u love that girl...not all fairytales has a happy ending anyway beside in this new generation, love is ain't enough...a lot of women will marry a man who has financial stability to secure the future of the family...

KashyBaby:
Never force urself to a family who doesn't want u even u love that girl...not all fairytales has a happy ending anyway beside in this new generation, love is ain't enough...a lot of women will marry a man who has financial stability to secure the future of the family...

this girl na better wife material.

Baiibayy!!! Am kneeling down on the keyboard of my laptop right now to propose to you, will you marry me??

Bad wife is better than bad inlaws

Take the exit door bruv

My 1p

From your post I can deduce that she is an Igbo girl. How did u get urself involved with such a family self? Dump her now before she dump u. She isn't worth an increase of BP.

I gat nothing to say to u





































Nigga

yahoomessenger:
This is actually the first time that I will be creating a post on NL. But as the saying goes, a desperate situation requires a desperate measure.
I do not truly believe in love until I met Sophia. Fast forward 12 months; my love for her still grows by each passing day. I promised to marry her. She loves me like mad. But the problem is that her parents do not want her to marry outside her state, let alone my state.
We are the same tribe but her mum by some reason does not like people from my state and has told my Sophia that I may be a good man but that if she marries me she (the mum) will never be happy.
I was expecting that with time the woman will soften her stand but this Christmas it became obvious she won't change. Now, a suitor from the same state is asking for my girl's hand in marriage and her mum wants her to marry the guy.
After speaking with my girl this night she told me that the pressure is too much because she cant go against her parents wish and that 'Mr. A (the suitor) is a nice guy too'. With that statement I feel that my girl is about leaving me.
So it's with a heavy heart I write this piece. I really need your advise. Thanks in anticipation!

....is she lightskin?

stupidity:
this girl na better wife material.

Baiibayy!!! Am kneeling down on the keyboard of my laptop right now to propose to you, will you marry me??

Lol...u will juz break my heart coz after u will say u can't marry a lady that not from ur tribe

Jk

StrawberryCream:
She said she cant go against her parent n the guy is nice .....
Not really sure what u want us to say
so u better start mending your heart ... Next time do background checks early in the relationship before investing ur heart in it.

That was cold, let him down easy na

MrCork:



....is she lightskin?

Can he afford a lightskin girl?

Still dunno why guys these days chase women like their life depends on it.

ClassCaptain:
Boss...u fail to say whether or not u have met with the mother herself. .or even the Father... What is d stance of the father ?? is he against you too ??

Have u tried to engage with the mother in a polite and logical discussion of why you are the best for her daughter and how much u love her..

Be man enough.. Perhaps what d Mother is waiting for is to see you grow some balls. Arrange a meeting with the mum... converse with her like your own mother. be free with her...pour your heart out and let her know how serious ur love for her is ...

Then more important.. .Pray and Seek the favour of God...I believe all will be Well ..

#LeaveMatterforMatthias

cheers.

Thanks bro for dat constructive reasoning. Truth is, I have not met with either of her parents bt she has met mine. I was preparing to go visit d mum bt she said d mum does not even want to see me. I am so confused right now and her parents will be going back to their base this Saturday, which is d only time I will have chance to see them.

intbizoil:
the issue after she gets married to the guy she would start regretting why she didnt fight for her love. Op dont give up yet and dont forget prayers too.

I try to reason that with her too. Thanks bro

kilokeys:
"NICE" actually means he is richer than you.

Don't take life that seriously..

Let her go.. Work harder..

When u are made, u become the universally acceptable suitor that every tribe wanna marry..


Who cares where don Jazzy is from? .. But we all wanna marry him


Even me.. Lol.. Na play o

I think the guy is richer, but I am made of my own stuff too.

KashyBaby:
Never force urself to a family who doesn't want u even u love that girl...not all fairytales has a happy ending anyway beside in this new generation, love is ain't enough...a lot of women will marry a man who has financial stability to secure the future of the family...

Buh wife is hard to find babe

ibe9ja:
From your post I can deduce that she is an Igbo girl. How did u get urself involved with such a family self? Dump her now before she dump u. She isn't worth an increase of BP.

How pls did u come to dat conclusion?

TrapLORD:
Still dunno why guys these days chase women like their life depends on it.

Some gals are worth chasing broda

samflexxy:
hehee bro longest tym

You went Awol...waitn happen..