After reading a thread that seeks to dissuade or even ridicule guys who are seeking to marry a virgin woman,I decided to open the eyes of guys who hold a different view

Here is the thread in case u missed it;
https://www.nairaland.com/2849535/nigerian-men-craving-virgin-wives

Most people think guys want to marry virgins MERELY to be the first man to touch her,this is rather not insightful as there is more to this issue than meets the eyes.

I will use this thread to open your eyes (guys who don't want virgins because they want steamy sex ASAP) on the reasons why some futuristic guys want virgins

Let's go to the points while I try to be concise and brief

We want a virgin as a wife because;

1 THEY ARE PRONE TO FAITHFULNESS: unlike non-virgins who are so consumed with sex and cannot hold their body,believe me it is like food to most of them and even a horse cannot satisfy some of them this is so terrible,virgins are not used to such lifestyle as they are decent rather than wayward,so this makes them more of a wife material,or who doesn't want a LOYAL wife? See,a cheating spouse is a source of death,talk about STD/STI,don't let me say more to this.

2 THEY HAVE HIGH MORAL STANDARD: while some girls trade their pride just for a guy who bought them suya,or who sends them recharge cards,or more painfully,just for nothing all in the name of having fun,these set of girls know what they are doing and they are keeping themselves for someone who will take them home to mummy.

3 THEY HAVE THE FEAR OF GOD: I know u will say some are virgins because their parents are strict duh,nobody and I mean nobody can monitor you,if u want to do it u will do it,so what happens to a girl with strict parents but she is now in school,most of the wayward girls will be party riders in school and S.U at home,but here are these girls who believe the eye of God is watching them and they don't misbehave.

4 WE WANT A COMPLETE WOMAN: don't be surprised some women are incomplete,they are physically women but are biologically men,this is what I mean,a woman with no womb is not a complete woman,and this is a result of pre-marital sex which leads to pregnancy then abortion,talk about STDs (the curable and the incurable ones make I no start to list abegi) hello we want people to celebrate with us after nine months and we don't want to have problem due to some else's carelessness or ignorance.BETTER LIVE ACCORDING TO THE BIBLE AND THE PERFECT WILL OF GOD BECAUSE IT IS ALWAYS FOR YOUR OWN GOOD.

5 NO ISSUE OF THE EXES: this looks like point number one,but yes loyalty in marriage cannot be over emphasized especially in this age of whatsapp,facebook and all,we don't want someone who will jam their exes and rekindle old feelings nonsense,for this reason virgin girls are safer.

6 WE WANT PEACE OF MIND: this is rather an important point,trust me once u slept with your wife before marriage,u know u don't have two heads and she can be cheap for other men too,u cannot fully trust her because she is not the type that keeps herself clean,she is the type that makes things happen lol,can u trust her in her place of work?what if u travel abroad? With virginity comes trust and confidence in ur woman.

7 WE DON'T WANT SOMEONE WHO LIVES WITH GUILT OR LACKS CONSCIENCE: sex no doubt leads to pregnancy and if it is outside of marriage some women resort to abortion and live with the guilt,while some women are so used to abortion that they have even suppressed their own conscience,I believe the latter can make for a wicked house wife.

8 WE DON'T WANT LIARS AND POOR FOUNDATION: another interesting point,most girls who engage in pre-marital sex do it with multiple guys,when they meet a suitor,they will tell him they had only one guy in the past,this is dangerous for the foundation of marriage because that is how they will continue to lie to you

9 WE WANT TO BE THE FIRST PERSON TO TOUCH HER: yes you heard me right,as u already know we want to be the first to touch her,it is what we will not forget in our life time,talk about history here.This point comes last because it is the least important to me as one of the reasons why I want a virgin girl contrary to the opinions of all the MR I want a pro,who think we want virgins because we just want to be the first toucher

Just like point number 4,pre-marital sex comes with consequences,if u have made some mistakes just ask God for His forgiveness and start living right,BUT if u are still pure but thinking to lose your virginity don't try it for the fun is not worth the stress,don't allow pressure to make u to lose something u cannot regain,something that will earn you respect from your future husband,something that will guarantee absence of suspicion in ur marriage due to the fact that ur husband will not be suspecting u of cheating UNNECESSARILY like the non-virgins.Some even dropped out of school or could not go to school due to having children that were not planned for at all.

Use the comment section to drop some points u wish to state which I may not have stated,thanks.

Written by professore.

Passing by

virginity is not a true dignity... tis just lack of opotunity

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Oh boy here we go again .................. If you guys like marry fish sef e no concern me

" They have high moral standard: while some girls trade their pride just for a guy who bought them suya,or who sends them recharge cards,or more painfully,just for nothing all in the name of having fun,these set of gilrs know what they are doing and they are keeping themselves for someone who will take them home to mummy."

I have a problem with your second point. Do you want to tell me that an adult girl that decides to have sex cos she wants to or as you put it "for fun" is worse than the girl that sells it for suya That is the problem with men right there and myself included. We have found a way of concluding that women don't have right to their body and I think it's wrong because it's totally acceptable for us "men" to look for the nearest hole to stick our dick in with the slightest of urge.

My 2 cents tho...

Pennah:
virginity is not a true dignity... tis just lack of opotunity

Baba that Statement is cliche and Fallacious as Well.

Opportunity you Say How many girls today lack the opportunity to explore their Sexual fantasies? Can you give me instances Where the opportunity to have Sex eludes a virgin Girl?


Instead Of you to appreciate the fact that a virgin Girl has possibly Gone through a lot in other to preserve her chastity, You are Here On Nairaland Undermining her Efforts. What nonsense!


I respect virgin girls a lot BUT that doesn't mean that I disrespect the "Non-Virgin" Girls. It's just that I Don't Fancy "Fairly used Products".


If i, Being a virgin , Can't Find a Virgin wife, Then I might probably Take the path of Celibacy. EOS!

So
Make I dey run ontop say u dey look for virgin abi
Just do ur personal searching and when you find her, let us know.
Leave trash for 'lama"

Pennah:
virginity is not a true dignity... tis just lack of opotunity

Says which animal?

RexKex:
Baba that Statement is cliche and Fallacious as Well.

Opportunity you Say How many girls today lack the opportunity to explore their Sexual fantasies? Can you give me instances Where the opportunity to have Sex eludes a virgin Girl?


Instead Of you to appreciate the fact that a virgin Girl has possibly Gone through a lot in other to preserve her chastity, You are Here On Nairaland Undermining her Efforts. What nonsense!


I respect virgin girls a lot BUT that doesn't mean that I disrespect the "Non-Virgin" Girls. It's just that I Don't Fancy "Fairly used Products".


If i, Being a virgin , Can't Find a Virgin wife, Then I might probably Take the path of Celibacy. EOS!

But u expect her to Fancy yours ?
If you also a Virgin then ride on but if not Yours is also Fairly used so why should a virgin girl want you?

Ginaz:
Oh boy here we go again .................. If you guys like marry fish sef e no concern me

eyah! Sorry ooooo










u fit manage Alum na

StrawberryCream:

But u expect her to Fancy yours ?
If you also a Virgin then ride on but if not Yours is also Fairly used so why should a virgin girl want you?

Well, at this point, I Am "Speaking" as a virgin. So Yes! A Virgin Girl might want me & I think I Deserve her too.

Virgin or nothing..

RexKex:
Well, at this point, I Am "Speaking" as a virgin. So Yes! A Virgin Girl might want & I think I Deserve her too.

Ok if your a virgin then its understandable but if not........

StrawberryCream:

Ok if your a virgin then its understandable but if not........

Yea, I Am a Virgin.


& it is only proper That I associate with Virgin girls too. Since it is Obviously clear that you are far from Being chaste, You can kindly f**k off my Mentions! Thank You!.

Nna ur points dey OK but if i find d woman i want to marry...virgin or no virgin I don't care

andysnoopy:
" They have high moral standard: while some girls trade their pride just for a guy who bought them suya,or who sends them recharge cards,or more painfully,just for nothing all in the name of having fun,these set of gilrs know what they are doing and they are keeping themselves for someone who will take them home to mummy."

I have a problem with your second point. Do you want to tell me that an adult girl that decides to have sex cos she wants to or as you put it "for fun" is worse than the girl that sells it for suya That is the problem with men right there and myself included. We have found a way of concluding that women don't have right to their body and I think it's wrong because it's totally acceptable for us "men" to look for the nearest hole to stick our dick in with the slightest of urge.

My 2 cents tho...

u jst sed dis 4 likes and ntin more, shioooor!




Oya take am.........













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What is wrong with nairaland and virgins today?

oshe11:
eyah! Sorry ooooo










u fit manage Alum na

Your sense dey inside of your village witch pot, go collect am mumu

Clap for yourselves

You spoke the gospel truth




















Iranu

Ginaz:
Oh boy here we go again .................. If you guys like marry fish sef e no concern me

seems them don open ur hole.

Ginaz:



Your sense dey inside of your village witch pot, go collect am mumu

E PAIN AM

oshe11:
E PAIN AM

Why would it pain me? Some guys are really as senseless in this nairaland. You won't give any reasonable comments when needed but when it comes to say rubbish and silly things they will get at it with relish.

You can really tell an educated and mature person by their comments on social media, its a thing of shame that you should be showing your stupidity with so much confidence it makes a senseless goat jealous. You should comment on the above topic for discussion and not making a fool of yourself. Or if you feel like saying it, can you call your girlfriend that has done 100 abortion and with certificate of her prostitution to amuse you?

Go pick on someone else, you act like a goat! Disgusting and silly !

oshe11:
u jst sed dis 4 likes and ntin more, shioooor!




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Ginaz:



Why would it pain me? Some guys are really as senseless in this nairaland. You won't give any reasonable comments when needed but when it comes to say rubbish and silly things they will get at it with relish.

You can really tell an educated and mature person by their comments on social media, its a thing of shame that you should be showing your stupidity with so much confidence it makes a senseless goat jealous. You should comment on the above topic for discussion and not making a fool of yourself. Or if you feel like saying it, can you call your girlfriend that has done 100 abortion and with certificate of her prostitution to amuse you?

Go pick on someone else, you act like a goat! Disgusting and silly !

why so pained? Lemme Leave You For LAWMA

ernesty20:
seems them don open ur hole.

You mean your girlfriend wia dem don fuvk back to back? Her runs was a hit, from London to Paris , from Paris to Dubai yet na Nokia torchlight and black paper bag she carry come. Tell her street is taking over, iyalaya prostitutue

We? Who are they 'we'? You better talk for yourself

oshe11:
why so pained? Lemme Leave You For LAWMA

I'm not pained, lol . leave trash for lawma and stop acting like a goat .

Ginaz:



I'm not pained, lol . leave trash for lawma and stop acting like a goat .

oya Sorry! Didnt mean it the way U took it, ur komment made it obvious u werent a virgin, bt den again U sounded like virginity meant ntin wen we both knw it does. Was jst tryin to poke U in a subtle and joking way but the u took It d wrong way n I klearli undastand. Not dat I dnt respect Non Virgin gals, trust me I do, jst like I respect Virgin gals also. The OP made some sense bt U wanted to thwart his effort, so I called U out nt to spite U tho!



Anyways cheers!




Na true quarrel I gt my 1st gal(tho we aint 2geda again), lemme leav U b4 U bkum my 2nd gal

oshe11:
oya Sorry! Didnt mean it the way U took it, ur komment made it obvious u werent a virgin, bt den again U sounded like virginity meant ntin wen we both knw it does. Was jst tryin to poke U in a subtle and joking way but the u took It d wrong way n I klearli undastand. Not dat I dnt respect Non Virgin gals, trust me I do, jst like I respect Virgin gals also. The OP made some sense bt U wanted to thwart his effort, so I called U out nt to spite U tho!



Anyways shares!




Na true quarrel I gt my 1st gal(tho we aint 2geda again), lemme leav U b4 U bkum my 2nd gal

I'm calling lawma to take you to the trash, stop mentioning me like I owned you money. Cheers, M.ORON

Ginaz:


I'm calling lawma to take you to the trash, stop mentioning me like I owned you money. Cheers, M.ORON

u r a lady dearie, pls act as one and forgive me for mentioning U kos i'm sorry!