tosyne2much:
When will our ladies start using their brains to think? I don't just get the morale of this story. So because you volunteered to help pay his fare automatically puts him a position to keep shut and be ashamed of himself ? If he paid your won fare and tried to woo you, I would have said his brain needs formatting but according your story, you paid his fare which is a different case


Often times, I have paid fare for ladies I barely knew without the intention of asking for their phone numbers afterward. But in a situation like this, if a lady who barely knows me pays my fare, this rare act of generousity can ensnare her to me, hence, wanting to know more of her

Cutehector:
no u dnt want to knw more of her.. what do u say wen someoned does good to you?

Thank you.. dats the word.. nothing more.

I don't just know what the ladies really want. A guy pays the fare of a lady and tries to engage her in a conversation, she will say the dude is taking advantage of her. A lady on the other hand pays the fare of a dude and the dude is fascinated by her kindness and generousity and can't but want to know more of her yet she says the dude should be afraid of himself.


Can you now see that these species are just confused?

tommychow:
Leriebloom, I don't get. If he paid for you, he would be allowed to ask you out? Or did he look too low-class to ask you out? Elaborate.

Maybe you should look at it differently though. What if he's a loaded guy but he had no cash on him, then he decided to ask you out to show appreciation for paying for him? He might be that rich guy you've been dreaming of. Humble yourself!

tosyne2much:
I don't just know what the ladies really want. A guy pays the fare of a lady and tries to engage her in a conversation, she will say the dude is taking advantage of her. A lady on the other hand pays the fare of a lady and the dude is fascinated by her kindness and generousity and can't but want to know more of her yet she says the dude should be afraid of himself.


Can you now see that these species are just confused?

tosyne2much:
When will our ladies start using their brains to think? I don't just get the morale of this story. So because you volunteered to help a dude pay his fare automatically puts him in a position to keep his mouth shut and be ashamed of himself ? If he paid your own fare all in a bid to woo you, I would have said his brain needs formatting but according to your story, you paid the fare of a stranded brother at your own discretion which is totally a different case


Often times, I have paid fare for ladies I barely knew without any intention of asking for their phone numbers afterwards; in fact, I won't even look at them twice. But in a situation like this, if a lady who barely knows me pays my fare, this rare act of generousity and kindness can ensnare her to me, hence, strike an inquisitive convo with her wanting to know more of her


TheSonOf Mark and Ronald 4lif, where art thou ?

Leriebloom:

Lolz, i still would av passed on that giving d situation, loaded or not. "Humble myself"?? , excuse me, what gave u d idea that i wasn't being humble just because i didnt give the guy my contact. And for ur information i am not looking for an already made man so u can keep ur assumptions, thank you.

tommychow:


Listen, I'm not here to castigate you. That's just how you came off; that you found him cheap for being incapable of paying for his own transport fare and still had the ballz to ask you out. And I implied you can't validate his ability to provide for you as your boyfriend because of that single incident. Reason I said "humble yourself". I was just following your lead. If I misinterpreted, my bad.

ronald4lif:


Egbon mi, what you said it's accurate. Guys are used to paying ladies tfare and for a lady to pay for a guy's tfare is rare and like you rightly said it's capable of making the guy curious to know her. I'd already convey same opinion to the OP before now.

Cutehector:
my brother, the confusion started wen eve ate d fruit of confusion

Lol wah I do is dis... I dnt even ask for anythn at all.. see if a babe wants ya number, she will ask u.. dats just it. Even if you dnt ask, she will be like, hey u ddnt ask for my number.. just smile and gv to her.

If na me be dah Bros, walahi, I for tell am thank u very much, Waka my way.

tosyne2much:
I just don't know why some people tend to look down on those they render financial assistance. As I have said earlier, I still don't know the lesson the OP wants us to learn from this story

tommychow:


Same happened to me when I was serving. This BBW cheerfully paid for my fare. It was so unreal and I felt obliged to yan this rare chick. Unfortunately, I was too skinny to handle a BBW so I let it slide. Lol.

ronald4lif:


Lol. You for lash am na guy, via the d*g*y way. That's usually the best tactics to handle BBW for slender guys like us.

Tolution1:



That's how they'll miss their future husband. They won't know he came and they chased him away..

;
make I run comot for here before person report me


Check ya mail @PushMusic tommorrow na so pastor go tell am say na winch from their great great grand father dey delay em marriage.....ordinary 50 naira transport fare wey em pay for my nigga...

Eveezy:
as I came down frm d bus nd decided to pay, she had quickly paid d bus driver nd said I shuldnt worry, nd I was like "no no, u dey try yab me?"

ronald4lif:


Hmmm you're just being presuppositional and aren't certain his advances was designed to take advantage of your charitable gesture. Asking you out after offsetting his tfare doesn't imply he's baleful.

Has it occurred to you that your rare act of benevolent towards him, especially as a lady, might have ensnared you to his heart and his intentions were genuine?

Leriebloom:

So many people dont see this as nothing, i dnt see anything wrong in helping a stranger out. But today after entering a bus and meeting a guy who asked me to pay his transport (after which i did), this guy started asking me out. Inside a bus. After paying his transport. No shame. That's a real big turn off. So pls guys what do u think.

Leriebloom:

Tnk u
I cld tell it wsnt mainly bcoz he was moved or overwhelmed with emotion, he wanted sth more, frm d way he spoke he made it pretty obvious.

sickstars:


Tank u we are happy nd lonely

Youngpo413:
You have a great sense of humor,I like that.

3rdlegxxx:
So dear if I asked you to pay my T-fair, you won't agree to go out with me again abi, ah! ah! That's not fair na

Leriebloom:

Lolz.

Leriebloom:

Lolz.

3rdlegxxx:
am not laughing with u ooo, I'm really hurt right now, answer na, so we won't go again abi and I was thinking of asking u to borrow me money b4, so that is how u would told everybody about me abi, hehehehe just teasing oo

Leriebloom:
And i thought you were serious.

3rdlegxxx:

I was na, anyways what's good