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There is this guy I used to date before I started dating my present boyfriend, we had countless of naughty pictures together while we were dating. Normally, I don’t like to take or send nude or half naked pictures with or to the guys I date, because I do not want to hear any dirty stories or blackmails in the future.

But with this particular ex, it was different. We took lots of pictures together in different places, anywhere and anytime he gets his hands on his phone, my phone or any device with a camera. It was so surprising to see a guy who is a picture freak but I became cool with it eventually. There were some pictures he took I wasn’t even aware of until he showed me.

Now I am in a fix, I met my present guy over a year ago. We dated for a few months and then broke up after I travelled out of the country for a 2-year program, he was always complaining about the distance which led to series of quarrels but after some months we settled and started dating again.

Meanwhile, during the period we were separated, my ex came to the country where I was studying and we decided to hang out on a clean slate, and then one thing led to another, we went to his hotel room and the rest is history. He took lots of pictures while we were together at the pub, club and in his hotel room.

When I got back with my present boyfriend, he asked if I dated someone while we were separated, and I lied because I had no idea how he was going to take it if I had told him the truth.

Now my ex sent me some private pictures of us in the hotel room and at the pub and said he was going to send the pictures to my boyfriend on Facebook that I cheated on him.

I know it wasn’t cheating because at that time I was single but I am so confused right now because I wasn’t truthful to my boyfriend and if he finds out, he would lose his trust for me and maybe end the relationship. I told my ex to delete all my pictures but said he won’t, I wish there was a way I could delete all the pictures from his phone. Even if I block him from all my social media accounts, he knows my boyfriend’s Facebook account.

I don’t want to lose my boyfriend now as he has started talking about settling down with me. Its so difficult these days to find a good guy ready to settle down and age is no longer on my side.

Please advise.

Link: http://esther.com.ng/what-would-you-do-if-your-ex-threatens-you-with-private-pictures/

Source: www.esther.com.ng

If u can't accept the fact that u cheated @ d 1st place, den deriz ntin mre 2 say


Accept d fact dat u cheated, tel ur bf & wait 4 d out cum!!



Spreads mat to sleep!

Dear Kim kardashian,
Despite the fact that I've seen your sex tape over and over again..., still got much love for you.
Kanye West.

@OP,if you see a future with your new bf, its better you tell him about all the pix....!#shikena#

That guy is a pus-sy just tell ur bf the truth

I don't understand the reason why some people snap themselves while having sex or unclad,what will you gain from that?see yourself on different naija porn site.


Well,you invited trouble yourself,just deal with it,if your ex sends the picture and your current boyfriend sees it and break up,just accept it and look forward to dating another guy whom you'll be serious with.

All what your ex wants is to be having sex with you,so don't just try to bargain,let him do his worse and move on with whatever comes out of it.

You should ve tell us U also want ur ex back.

My fellow Niggas on this forum open your ears and listen carefully no matter how much you spend when a gal turns her heart away from u there's nothing you can do, in dis case sending private (unclad) pix to her current boyfriend can't make her come back to you if they breakup.

obiorathesubtle:
they were two little black birds sitting on a wall, one named peter, one named paul, fly away peter, fly away paul..

What now?

Tough one if you truly like the guy.

There are very few men who would do what Kanye West did. Its also good to be open to your partner...

dyadeleye:
Dear Kim kardashian,
Despite the fact that I've seen your sex tape over and over again..., still got much love for you.
Kanye West.

@OP,if you see a future with your new bf, its better you tell him about all the pix....!#shikena#

Hmmm

andromida:
Tough one if you truly like the guy.

Words of wisdom...

Seeeeeeee:
My fellow Niggas on this forum open your ears and listen carefully no matter how much you spend when a gal turns her heart away from u there's nothing you can do, in dis case sending private (unclad) pix to her current boyfriend can't make her come back to you if they breakup.

Esthersblog:
There are very few men who would do what Kanye West did. Its also good to be open to your partner...

My point exactly. Be open to your partner...nothing is special about what kanye did...!...can do more than that jere..#

two things are involved.....
1.tell him and he will leave break up cus you lied to him and he probably won't trust you and forget it the betreyal.
2.don't tell him and if he finds out about it, you might as well put a knife to his heart cus it will be like a bomb shell, opening your facebook account and seeing your gf naked pix with her ex after she denied not cheating on you..

either way tell him and set your mind free but don't be selfish to think he will still accept you cus i won't(am not kanye).

Ordinary naked pix

Who dem wan dey scare

Oga post it make orunmila scatter ur generation with sango lightnening

missKiffy:
That guy is a pus-sy just tell ur bf the truth

Wow. That's the first time I've ever seen you use a vulgar word

Rollar:

Wow. That's the first time I've ever seen you use a vulgar word

No mind me jare

missKiffy:

No mind me jare

Nah, I like your dark side. You can't always be all prim and proper

We all have secrets, sometimes they remain in the dark, sometimes revealing them might just be the only way forward, in this case it's the only way forward, or you can choose to stay backward with your Lil secret and your fake a** nigga ex. Just make your bf understand whatever reason you lied to him for, if he doesn't then you need to start dating mature guys.

Two years ago, I was a registered member of this forum but never read about your sexcapades. Since the issue no concern me then, why now?

Some ladies are scared of the unknown when it comes to keeping their partners, not knowing most times it better to be open...
I know a guy who says, he won't tolerate his girlfriend's or any girl he dates communicating with any of her exes because according to him, its very easy for a lady to sleep with her ex when they meet...

schumastic:
two things are involved.....
1.tell him and he will leave break up cus you lied to him and he probably won't trust you and forget it the betreyal.
2.don't tell him and if he finds out about it, you might as well put a knife to his heart cus it will be like a bomb shell, opening your facebook account and seeing your gf naked pix with her ex after she denied not cheating on you..

either way tell him and set your mind free but don't be selfish to think he will still accept you cus i won't(am not kanye).

Relationship matters... Hmmm...

Nzeh12:
We all have secrets, sometimes they remain in the dark, sometimes revealing them might just be the only way forward, in this case it's the only way forward, or you can choose to stay backward with your Lil secret and your fake a** nigga ex. Just make your bf understand whatever reason you lied to him for, if he doesn't then you need to start dating mature guys.

There are some kind of stories you hear, ehnn... You won't know when those words comes out...

Rollar:

Wow. That's the first time I've ever seen you use a vulgar word

Lol...

sickstars:
Ordinary naked pix

Who dem wan dey scare

Oga post it make orunmila scatter ur generation with sango lightnening

Lol... If I hear!!!

dyadeleye:


My point exactly. Be open to your partner...nothing is special about what kanye did...!...can do more than that jere..#

Esthersblog:
There are some kind of stories you hear, ehnn... You won't know when those words comes out...

Lol, I can imagine.
I like it when girls use swear words, makes me all warm and fuzzy inside. How about a few from you?

Esthersblog:
Lol... If I hear!!!

I'm serious

Esthersblog:
Some ladies are scared of the unknown when it comes to keeping their partners, not knowing most times it better to be open...
I know a guy who says, he won't tolerate his girlfriend's or any girl he dates communicating with any of her exes because according to him, its very easy for a lady to sleep with her ex when they meet...

i agree with your friend and it goes beyond ex cus sometimes the ones she calls friends and bestie are the ones that can betray you and cheat with her...though i learnt mine the hard way and the lessons i learnt from it are

1.love is exaggerated and don't exist, the only love that truly exist and genuine is the love of God over man kind.

2.is good to trust but better not to and if you want to trust then be ready to get disappointed

if he threatens u with private pics threaten him with public pics

Lol. Naaah...

Rollar:

Lol, I can imagine.
I like it when girls use swear words, makes me all warm and fuzzy inside. How about a few from you?