Distance often time makes u loose interest in something, other times it strengthens and taste ur ability to withstand certain situations, at times u have mix reactions other times u take wrong turns hmmmmm, anyways the reason for creating dis trend is to get d opinion of oda Fellow NLDERS on dis matter (Distant Relationship) have u bin in one before and how did u manage it or is distant relationship a bad idea ?


Mature Suggestions are welcomed topic not 4shallow minds pls

Takes a certain level of trust, maturity and commitment to be able to maintain a relationship with someone far away from you. It depends on you tho.. Cos as jealous as I am, I can't date someone far away from me except I've got no doubts about her integrity. #BuhariStyle

I'm not a fan of long distance relationship because even short one never survive finish

Well, its not entirely a bad thing (unless u are an extremely jealous person) and can be handled nicely if you are truly interested and in love with your partner.

Before you venture into it, u should ask yourself these questions:

1. Will you be able to resist temptation whenever she's not around?

2. Do you trust her enough to be a "good girl" whenever she's not with you?

3. Would u be able to maintain a healthy communication between u two regardless of the distance?

4. Is it really worth it?

Ponder through these so that u won't waste ur time on something you can't manage.

I decide not to give my opinion as regards the topic because of the last line of this thread... Shallow minds? That's mean and makes you sound immature :-XI #okbye

Distant relationships ain't too bad sha. Trust is d key thing der tho'. Witout trust, itz lyk u're jst wasting ur tym hanging on dat person.

What distance is enough to call the relationship "distant".

Lagos to Ibadan!? (2hrs)
Lagos to Abuja (45mins)
Lagos to UK (6hrs)?...
Or even within Lagos where you'll drive 4hrs kn a bad day?

I prefer long distance relationship, you get to see each other once in a while.
There would be respect in the relationship and most importantly no free puna everyday.

Its ok but na hell

kaziblake:
I prefer long distance relationship, you get to see each other once in a while.
There would be respect in the relationship and most importantly no free puna everyday.

And when you eventually get married ?

If am building an existing relationship on distance, I guess I wouldn't mind the distance, but a new fresh relationship? No go area for me.

ayogabriel:


And when you eventually get married ?

I will join him at his base.

It's the best

Nothing is bad unless u with sumone who knos ur weakness bt wont use it against u or as a point of mockery


Well its dis generation so i wont say mch

I just wish all dose in a distant relationship

Happiness

yinkus4u2c:
I decide not to give my opinion as regards the topic because of the last line of this thread... Shallow minds? That's mean and makes you sound immature :-XI #okbye

Some kids come into trends and jst say nonsense dats y I used dat statement...hope u understand

You have got to say for how long. 6 months? 1 year? 2 years? 5 years?

I have not been in one before

But if i am, i am willing to give it my all to make it work

I know it will be hard, but i am willing to give it a try

And ppl will repeat the same ol' story over again

I can't engage myself in a distant or long distance relationship