Benita27:
I'm in a relationship. I said I was single but not searching 'cause I'm not married, and not 'cause I'm heartbroken.
Btw, heartbreak isn't something one should be ashamed of.

DavidTheGeek:

Oh i see! so you're one of those girls

hazard1759:
I'm having serious issues with my fiance..One thing led to another, we didnt talk for abt 1week,after which she started calln n sending me texts askn aw i was n all. Sometimes i dnt bother pickn d calls. Two days bck, she sent a text askn d last time we had s*x. I gnored d text n she tried talkn to me tru other family members but i gnored.She sent me a txt that she has been pregnant n she tried telln me abt it but i ignored her so she got rid of it. I told her I'll never forgive her if she aborts my baby but she insists the did has been done n that I've moved on so she plans to do same... Pls Guys, i need advice on wot to do

Benita27:
Una no get work.
I wonder how many guys went through some dating drills before wooing a girl.

Mtcheew!.

Benita27:
I'm very much single but not searching. Have been seeing the thread but decided to look up what has been happening on here, and got disappointed.

If HARDDON like make him vex, e no concern me.

ambs50:
Good day @HardDon and others. Am not happy with you guys except @Magikalz. i posted a problem here and I didnt get enough response. I need help

Guys pls pls do the needful by responding cos am confused right now. Below is d issue


@ HardDon and other love doctors in the house

Now my story is this, there is dis lady in my church I dnt know wat is popping between us.
For some months now, if am not around in church, she is d first person I hear looks out for me. Also, my words really make her laugh. Although I know I can be quite humorous. There are times our eyes meet just like that.

Recently, I noticed she always calls on me to either put in a word for her or support her wen we are gisting perhaps after d service because we only see often in church. We dnt live in d same area.
In essence, I am just noticing some unusual chemistry btw us. Even those (youths) around us are always match-making just suddenly.

So pls, is there anything btw us or it just my fantasies? Is it that I am d one reading meanings to things that are normal? And pls, d match-making stuff, is it also just their fantasies cos I knw I do it back then in school? Pls wat do I do?

NB: I don't come from a boxed up background.
I am just a normal guy. Not that active in church. (gave these backgrounds to make known reason am the more confused)

Awaitng many responses.
Thanks

DavidTheGeek:

Uhmm i remember seeing your post bro... buh Magikalz already answered you so what else do you want?

SHE LIKES YOU!

ambs50:
Good day @HardDon and others. Am not happy with you guys except @Magikalz. i posted a problem here and I didnt get enough response. I need help

Guys pls pls do the needful by responding cos am confused right now. Below is d issue


@ HardDon and other love doctors in the house

Now my story is this, there is dis lady in my church I dnt know wat is popping between us.
For some months now, if am not around in church, she is d first person I hear looks out for me. Also, my words really make her laugh. Although I know I can be quite humorous. There are times our eyes meet just like that.

Recently, I noticed she always calls on me to either put in a word for her or support her wen we are gisting perhaps after d service because we only see often in church. We dnt live in d same area.
In essence, I am just noticing some unusual chemistry btw us. Even those (youths) around us are always match-making just suddenly.

So pls, is there anything btw us or it just my fantasies? Is it that I am d one reading meanings to things that are normal? And pls, d match-making stuff, is it also just their fantasies cos I knw I do it back then in school? Pls wat do I do?

NB: I don't come from a boxed up background.
I am just a normal guy. Not that active in church. (gave these backgrounds to make known reason am the more confused)

Awaitng many responses.
Thanks

magikalz:


Omo, I tire ooo.

Obviously, this chick likes you a lot and has been throwing green light around for you. Is it till she turns it to red light that you will start responding accordingly.

QUICK QUESTION - Do you want her?

If you are answer is yes, which other sign do you want from her to proceed, bros?

You keep mentioning you are not bucksed up...who asked you for money?

Na we niggaz mentality dey cause all these shyte.....now you will go into something with her and start over-doing because you have already set monetary expectations that shouldn't be there.

Nigga relax and make a solid move on this girl.

Not having money isn't an ish for now unless you make it so.

You can decide to forget her and go make money if you want, that's even better........but she will likely be gone by then.

Or you can decide to go for her if you want her and work on yourself while you are at it.

If money issues come up as is common with Nigerian ladies, let her know you are working on yourself and something.

If she wan dey, she go dey....if not, she can bail from the ship.


Who knows, you might collected your 3 points by then at least.

Not so bad.

See, my point is for you to quash this limiting belief and make your move if you want the gal.

Other factors will be sorted out as you guys roll.

Comprende

Now, I don't wanna see you whine and pine again.

Man up, you got balls for a reason.

If you had gone through this thread from Page 1 till now, you would have answered yourself already.

Mkbryants:


Very much single... Loling. How does that increase our knowledge bank ryt now

See bonito spaghetti ...our hands are full at the moment.

But if we were to even consider you in the future,

You are somewhat fair in complexion (we luv em creamy chocolate, spotless, sleek skin), her eyes, though not crystal white, are lovely but huge, her lips are so kissable though, but we dont know if she wud know how to use them! . let's not mention her nose please don't!! , whyt big teeth with no noticeable diastema, her neck is somewhat close to what we luv, she is 5'6, two inch short of our standard, her cup is somewhere in the 38D-40" range( big 38 , medium 40 most probable ) and finally, she is so tender @ heart. awwww.

See ... who knows, maybe we might consider you in the future schedule.

Aloofed regards.

Cc. Harddon

hazard1759:
I'm having serious issues with my fiance..One thing led to another, we didnt talk for abt 1week,after which she started calln n sending me texts askn aw i was n all. Sometimes i dnt bother pickn d calls. Two days bck, she sent a text askn d last time we had s*x. I gnored d text n she tried talkn to me tru other family members but i gnored.She sent me a txt that she has been pregnant n she tried telln me abt it but i ignored her so she got rid of it. I told her I'll never forgive her if she aborts my baby but she insists the did has been done n that I've moved on so she plans to do same... Pls Guys, i need advice on wot to do

Benita27:
Una no get work.
I wonder how many guys went through some dating drills before wooing a girl.

Mtcheew!.

Donbun:
Geeks in the house please help.

There is actually this girl beside my house, I love her and we've dated once that's when we are still at secondary school, I didn't bang her though just the normal romance, We broke up later at the final year and we entered diff university, The problem is I don't know if she loves me, I'm sure she would have meet other big guys in sch that bangs her, but a day won't pass without her calling me.

I still love the girl uptil Now, We saw each other recently and was acting like a sex doctor, She even touched my d*ck (interntionally) buh whenever I want to get my hands on the Private parts she pulls off.

I've asked her if in anyway she has feelings for me, She suspended me till the second day and later told me she have in the normal way but nothing is included Asked her what is the thing that is not included she said nothing.

Is she trying to play me or not, It's not easy to forget about the girl, Please help a guy out.

HARDDON:



, nice very nice ...... Guys have been d ones crying .

A lil tears from d lady folks wudnt be outa place wud it?

fresher123:


Dons in the house I would luv ur help on this.

Aw does one initiate a conversation on social media platforms(like Facebook), with a girl u don't know at all but is on ur friend list.

Harddon when treating this alluded to going through her page to get line of notes to hit on.

But that helps in very little way as most girls now are averse to the idea of writing much about them online. so one gets little to no info abt them.

And Using the normal (hi, hey) greetings is obviously bland.

so can anyone in the house help on aw best to break the ice in such scenarios.

Mkbryants:


Attention seeker!...Seen

Meanwhile.

You don't need dating drills before approaching any girl.

All you need is; know your onion.

HARDDON:



This is what happens when you throw a chicken into a pond, it gets confounded......
just imagine her contradicting herself :



then she when on



I was expecting you guys to ask her two questions:

1. What is Our Onion
2. How do we know it?


Dating Drills is all about Discovering Our Onion and regaling in itz full Robes.......
No?

ShinyJay22:
Boss, I hail o.Long time no see(on here).Was thinking one lady kidnapped you ,any ways pls I'd love to be part of this thread on whatsapp. How do I go about it bro

Mylestone:
;o

I will have to admit it


this Davidthegeek is FINALLY GOOD

HARDDON:




DRILL NUGGET 15:

DEALING WITH REJECTION

DRILL NUGGET 16:

NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE

THE DIFFERENT PYSCHOLOGICAL MAKE UP OF MEN N LADIES( ladies experience faster n blow older men, boys grow slower n look to younger ladies)
DRILL NUGGET 17:

BLEND D BLISS..... CLOWN NOT


DRILL NUGGET 18:

BE EXPERIENCED/BALANCED

DRILL NUGGET 19:

M PROPOSAL

DRILL NUGGET 20

GURL TYPES/GRADES

DRILL NUGGET 21

HANDLING LUV & BALLS

DRILL NUGGET 22

MARRIAGE LIGHT


DRILL NUGGET 23

...........
LEARN LINES, RHYMES, PEOTRY, AT LEAST ONE MUSICAL INSTRUMENT, IF YOU CAN, SING!


.........

HARDDON:


if you didnt know,

Im from a land where rhymes reign, wine blind n mind dine.

Not for naught was i born with balls

I pledge to sway stay to these sound stands

So help me Heart

HARDDON:
Happy Father's Big Baller's Day Guys!

Church was Awesome today!

n if you didnt know,

Im from a land where rhymes reign, wine blind n mind dine.

Not for naught was i born with balls

I pledge to sway stay to these sound stands

So help me Heart

Don Endorsed!

HARDDON:
Derailed much, we have
Drill now, we must



DRILL NUGGET 16B

THE DIFFERENT PYSCHOLOGICAL MAKE UP OF MEN N LADIES( ladies gain experience faster n blow older men, boys grow slower n look to younger ladies)

B4 we roll on,
There is a book titled men from Mars, Women from Venus by John Grey.... find it , buy it n digest it.

It basically opens your eyes to d wide gulf btw guys n gurls. Men n women . Father n mothers. Husbands n Wifys n their respective psychological make up.

It dares to defile norms by letting us know we werent all wired with same response line to life

hazard1759:
I'm having serious issues with my fiance..One thing led to another, we didnt talk for abt 1week,after which she started calln n sending me texts askn aw i was n all. Sometimes i dnt bother pickn d calls. Two days bck, she sent a text askn d last time we had s*x. I gnored d text n she tried talkn to me tru other family members but i gnored.She sent me a txt that she has been pregnant n she tried telln me abt it but i ignored her so she got rid of it. I told her I'll never forgive her if she aborts my baby but she insists the did has been done n that I've moved on so she plans to do same... Pls Guys, i need advice on wot to do