DrPurposeful:
The very moment you say you are accepting a man's proposal for marriage, you are coming under subjection. Subjection is not torment.
A man who fears the Lord doesn't take that for-granted to abuse and take due advantage of you.
Subjecting to your spouse is a command from God. Because the man is the head of the home as Christ is the head of the church, that is not the time or reason to get so proud and become fool of yourself to the extent that you cannot respect your wife and listen to her many good words and advice.
The reason why many marriages never last is because the woman is so highly placed and doesn't need any man to control her or be in charge of her. Because of her degree from harvard and position with Chevron, she see no reason why an ordinary bank branch manager or a medical doctor with one small health centre in port harcourt would control her or tell her what to do when she controls men in her work place and thousands of people calling her Ma/madam.
Don't allow position or class of degree fool you. If you cannot stand a man(your husband) telling you what to do, better remain single and no man would ever have control over you.
Most women compare their rich dad with their spouse; it shouldn't be so.
Respect your husband, listen when he speaks and welcome him when he comes home. Don't always be the complaining kind of wife.
When you give a man all he requires and he still treats your wrongly, then he needs God's intervention.
No man is too big to assist the wife in the kitchen; after all she is you and you are one.
The reason also why so many marriages break up after 10yrears is because most couple watch celebrities on television and want to do the things they do. Never live your life based on the happenings in some other persons life.
Love your spouse, obey and respect them; then show me where the devil would come in... Never give the devil the chance to ruin your marriage.
You will prosper!
You will Succeed!

prettythicksme:
My marriage is now 20yrs!

prettythicksme:
My age is now 20yrs!

talktonase:
The moment you consented to his views outrightly because he is NOT Nigerian and seeking to have such minds around when men dey here Yapppaa!

deeptesting:


Bro "That is how it should be but that is not what it is". Can human love unconditionally without reciprocation from the other party? I guess you are not married... No doubt love is a necessary factor in marriage but keeping the marriage requires more than love.. Or are you Jesus Christ? As they say "Easier said than done".

The reason for failed marriages cannot be pinned to one, two or three factors, so also the solution. The success of a marriage is dependent on the two individuals involve, how much are they willing & determined to swim the tide together.

shalomm:
i pity the mumu wer go marry u.

KruggerINC:



Be careful how address then Almighty God.....anyway I don't need to tell you He has seen for himself how you have disrespected him and I pray He has mercy on you.

xynerise:

Are you up to 20years?

happney65:


Another lie Mohammed.

ogaprime:
Something is wrong here...



Let me fix it...




Correct!!!

cruzita:
op some marriages today break because the man exercises too much authority on his wife. he wants to control every aspect of her life forgetting she is his soulmate and not his servant .I witnessed a marriage where the man asked his wife not to visit her parents unless he says so but he visits his own every weekend.Is that right?some men can really be annoying

Strahovski1:


You guessed wrong. I am married with 3 Kids

Strahovski1:


What makes marriage last is love.. not subjection or advanced slavery.. love is what keeps marriage.

Strahovski1:
I will take you serious when you post the other version of this directed at men as this is directed at women.

Besides a woman refusing control over her husband should not break a marriage it means there wasn't love in the first place. Today people have turned marriage into an obligation whether their love is true or not.. marriage! And that is when things like this come in.. why would a man be picky because he cannot control his wife? Did he marry her to control her? Also why would a woman be rude to her husband because she is in a higher position? There is no love.

Man, what makes marriage last is love.. not subjection or advanced slavery.. love is what keeps marriage. When there is love.. the woman would respect her hubby as the hubby will respect her. Not one sided subjection because one god commanded it.

prettythicksme:
Oh u guys dont believe me?good for u i wont tell u my age!

prettythicksme:
Hehehehehehe dey there dey fix,no go marry!

deeptesting:


Then you are not been sincere or you are 1 out off 1000 with a partner who is willing to subject herself to the leadership of the home as clearly stated in the Bible & African Culture.

xynerise:

I believe your joke

ogaprime:


Lool....coming up very soon. Thanks

Estharfabian:
LoL

I didn't mean to hurt your feelings. really.

I just stated it was sad that he Ain't Nigerian.? It would've been Nice knowing someone here atleast Shares his views?

I wasn't stereotyping... Only Praising.
Anyways..I stand corrected. I see You agree with him?

prettythicksme:
My marriage is now 20yrs!

banmee:


Lol. . .the only reason marriages fail is because inability of the husband to LEAD. Don't shift the blame to women. Lead your household and your spouse will follow. This is not the '60s and it is no longer a man's world. People need to start waking up to this reality.

prettythicksme:
lol,u guys dont take me serious bet y?

xynerise:

Well..............maybe because you are not serious

canDy4eva:
...lyk serioxly

prettythicksme:
hehehehehe dat's good tho

Strahovski1:


Do i look like someone who is christian?

Look at me

gaffig:

I doubt u are married, or even mature enough to do so.. ..