How would you react if someone tells you: you are not so goodlooking but I'd really like to date you. I think you are cool and fun and we could make a good couple together.

Men and women, what would you say?

no i wouldnt

michelin89:

How would you react if someone tells you: you are not so goodlooking but I'd really like to date you. I think you are cool and fun and we could make a good couple together.

Men and women, what would you say?

If I like him enuff to date him. . . .Hell Yes!!
A part of me would respect him for being bold enuff to tell his true appraisal.
Whoever said every Guy that says a Girl is Pretty literally means it?

There's one thing not to find someone good looking and still date them, and there is another thing not to find someone good looking and have the boldness to actually tell them that and request a date in the same sentence. Talk about shattering someone's confidence. I wouldn't want to be reminded everytime we go for a cuddle or a kiss that hey, 'this my guy don't even find me attractive'.

It takes a BOLD and HONEST person to be disclose such.I think that is a strong and positive character but whether my ego/emotion(dented by such bluntness maybe) will be receptive to such a person is difficult to say.

kay_pumpin:

It takes a BOLD and HONEST person to be disclose such.I think that is a strong and positive character but whether my ego/emotion(dented by such bluntness maybe) will be receptive to such a person is difficult to say.

Yes, but are there not better ways to say somethng like that than to say 'you're not soo good looking'? lmao. haba that is too much now. lol.

Secretz:

Yes, but are there not better ways to say somethng like that than to say 'you're not soo good looking'? lmao. haba that is too much now. lol.

i agree, thats just a confidence killer there!

Secretz:

Yes, but are there not better ways to say somethng like that than to say 'you're not soo good looking'? lmao. haba that is too much now. lol.

I doubt if any potential suitor will go "you are not good looking yet i want to date you" ,there are ways of telling someone to go to hell in such a way that he/she will look forward to the journey with keen interest;it is called diplomacy!

But let's even get hypothetical here and assume for one minute,this dude was this blunt.Will you rather have him OR a lying scum who will forget the face and concentrate on the base.? ,then tell it someone else that girl is fugly

Secretz:

Yes, but are there not better ways to say somethng like that than to say 'you're not soo good looking'? lmao. haba that is too much now. lol.

How possibly would he have sugar-coated it?
''I like You but Your nose isn't suitable for Your face and Your eyes are a NO-NO''.
C'mon!! Either ways he woulda made his point clear. . . . .
I just find the act worthy of awe even though it would impermanently hurt one's confidence.
Not everyone is bold enuff to be that truthful. . . It takes only a friend to do that.

kay_pumpin:

I doubt if any potential suitor will go "you are not good looking yet i want to date you" ,there are ways of telling someone to go to hell in such a way that he/she will look forward to the journey with keen interest;it is called diplomacy!

But let's even get hypothetical here and assume for one minute,this dude was this blunt.Will you rather have him OR a lying scum who will forget the face and concentrate on the base.?

Neither.  

But I would rather the person tell me I'm not usually the type they would go for than to tell me 'You're not soo good looking'.  

hell no!

michelin89:

How would you react if someone tells you: you are not so goodlooking but I'd really like to date you. I think you are cool and fun and we could make a good couple together.

Men and women, what would you say?

He told you the truth atleast. . . Dont shy away from it,ok

showbobo:

He told you the truth atleast. . . Dont shy away from it,ok

It's a pity he thought that way!

Chill, d fact dt d guy says she isn't goodlooking dozn't mean he dozn't find her attractive, dose re 2 different things.If a girl told me I wasn't goodlooking I wouldn't bliv her anyway,it's called self-confidence.

If you don't mind what he said, then go for it. If you do mind the way he approached you, let it die a natural death, no need for drama. Not everyone you meet is a potential life mate.

why should i?

ugly for face or for mind?
ugly with good heart yes i will go for him

No: There should be some form of attraction.

michelin89:

It's a pity he thought that way!

Hmmmm,From my perspective:. . . . . I dont think u are that bad

a friendship would be better than dating in this case. take it from there and see how it works, how can they even kiss if as soon as he gets his face close to hers, she is turned off?

michelin89:

How would you react if someone tells you: you are not so goodlooking but I'd really like to date you. I think you are cool and fun and we could make a good couple together.

Men and women, what would you say?

Hell nah

i`ll if the person is not good looking too

:p

I know i am good-looking so one can say otherwise pullezzz as for the question NO cause the person will be salting my game

Poster@D guy must b either GUD lookin or d kinda guy who is really attractd 2 beauty bt not 2 worry.I actually thinks he is attracted 2 u sumtin bout u Dats wat matters.Anyway he has an ego so use it 2 test him i.e put him on a long tin.Attraction lik dis is GUD.It will actually lead to a great relationship.

Timsilver:

Poster@D guy must b either GUD lookin or d kinda guy who is really attractd 2 beauty bt not 2 worry.I actually thinks he is attracted 2 u sumtin bout u Dats wat matters.Anyway he has an ego so use it 2 test him i.e put him on a long tin.Attraction lik dis is GUD.It will actually lead to a great relationship.

Why do you think I am talking about me?

@post, we no go ever flow

Then he/she must be demented to think we'd have something great going.