what makes a good wife


ans: A ruthless husband

sexyLeamon:

guys is that really true?

100% true if you are no more a virgin sorry you should have kept your legs close. every man want a fresh thing

check our mothers.they are what a good wife should be cos our fathers are so wicked yet these women are still with them!
unfortunately,today s women dont ve a quarter of these qualities

sweetpie23:

100% true if you are no more a virgin sorry you should have kept your legs close. every man want a fresh thing

Liar Every man?

maybe th stupid ones would

be a virgin . It matters much.

   What Men nowadays want from women cannot precisely be mentioned because some men don't even understand what pay them at a marital home. Reason why they firstly fail, learn sort of lessons before eventually get to their destiny.

   But whatever, to have rest of mind, let your dignity (virginity) be in place. Many men may say they don't care about it, they use this slang to deviate some new girls over there who are easily and emotionally vulnerable to evil practices. These men say opposite to what is in their mind. Most men overlook it when they no get am, but when they get am, they will be proud of it and feel special with the wife. Although some girls possess this dignity and they are not still dignified, men feel you real when you are dignified with it. It matters much to make your husband special to you among any other men. It creates  responsbility for you on your husband and which tacitly claims a right for you as a reward for devoting yourself to him alone.

     Also, try to be fairly (or very) attractive, so that your husband will be almost torched whenever he sees you at home or anywhere.

      Try to be honest and devote yourself solely for your husband especially if  U R very attractive and good-looking.

      Respect your husband when and where necessary, Or always respect him and show love when and where necessary.

     Always be at alert.

    Know all what supposed to be known by women - cooking, dressing, neatness, etc.

  Read and understand your man - in many things: Eating, dressing, fun, intelligence etc. Remove what is bad that U don't like in men (in him) and create what is good that you would like to see in men (in him).

 Always try to be cool but say all your mind when U R alone with him, and trust him.

 If you are able to do all these on your part as a woman, then pray to God to give you your match, a right man, not a demon, or a devil. You can't do without prayer to have a real man who is a cherisher of what real man cherishes as listed above.

Dabbs:

be a virgin . It matters much.

What Men nowadays want from women cannot precisely be mentioned because some men don't even understand what pay them at a marital home. Reason why they firstly fail, learn sort of lessons before eventually get to their destiny.

But whatever, to have rest of mind, let your dignity (virginity) be in place. Many men may say they don't care about it, they use this slang to deviate some new girls over there who are easily and emotionally vulnerable to evil practices. These men say opposite to what is in their mind. Most men overlook it when they no get am, but when they get am, they will be proud of it and feel special with the wife. Although some girls possess this dignity and they are not still dignified, men feel you real when you are dignified with it. It matters much to make your husband special to you among any other men. It creates responsbility for you on your husband and which tacitly claims a right for you as a reward for devoting yourself to him alone.

good someone sensible

What makes a my good wife? Some one who is reliable.
am sure you would think honesty should come first but consider someone who causes a crisis just because she made a "honest" mistake. Every other quality a man seeks in a good wife stems from her being reliable, what you have day 1 will be what you will always have at your death bed or hers whichever comes first. For example, trustworty ,respectful, compatible,intelligent, emotionally ready, fun, driven, with goals etc etc can be present in the begining but you need it to be sustained forever.
So guys a note of caution always seek someone who is dependable.

My Brown JAY?!?!?! Oh my gosh. The list is endless. Is there any hope?!

Lol. Do tell - have you found someone with all these qualities? Can such a person really exist?!?!

For me, I think the ride or die mentality should be higher up in the list, especially in Nigeria.

- someone honest
- someone trustworty
- someone respectful (of us but also others)
- someone compatible (physically, mentally and sexually)
- someone intelligent
- someone emotionally ready
- someone fun
- someone driven, with goals
- someone who can communicate with you and understands you
- someone who doesnt nag all day
- someone not afraid to be herself
- someone who knows how to step away from an argument with a smile
- someone strong minded
- someone beautiful and sexy
- someone that can ride and die with you
- someone not afraid to show affection in public
- someone who wont give up trying to seduce me the day that ring is on her finger
- someone who is ready to go on dates for the rest of our lives(even after 15yrs)
- someone who can say whats on their mind (them daily "i love you" are perfect)
- someone who can listen when its needed without making it a confrontation
- someone who understands that being sexy is part of life and that if your man aint sexually attracted to you then the marriage will suffer
- someone who keep fit and who will work hard to loose the extra baby fat

and when all these points are met, she has to be a freak in the sheets whenever required.

i want a lady in the street and a freak in the bed!!!

a wife that knows the meaning of the word husband.

quadrey:

i want a lady in the street and a freak in the bed!!!

Lol. As Jerry Hall famously said - "“Maid in the living room, cook in the kitchen, LovePeddler in the bedroom”

compartibility!!

Those Qualities mentioned by MMr.Brownjay are great but for me ,its all about the fear of God,when a woman has that she has everything.

be a virgin . It matters much.

I hope the man plans to be a virgin too.

Those Qualities mentioned by MMr.Brownjay are great but for me ,its all about the fear of God,when a woman has that she has everything.

I 100% second this. If both the husband and wife have the fear of God, I believe they can work through any challenges in their marriage.

Consultant:

I hope the man plans to be a virgin too.

how would you know if a man is a virgin

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Consultant:

The same way he would know if I was a virgin (because I would not sleep with a man before marriage) - I will ask him.

oh please get real you and I know very well that women bleed when they are virgin and they are tight.
now tell me a sign that a guy is a virgin

sweetpie23:

maybe th stupid ones would

So a guy who doesn't marry a virgin or mind marring a non-virgin is stupid. Don't make me laugh. Speak for yourself.

Consultant:

I hope the man plans to be a virgin too.

I 100% second this. If both the husband and wife have the fear of God, I believe they can work through any challenges in their marriage.

Thank you o!

sweetpie23:

oh please get real you and I know very well that women bleed when they are virgin and they are tight.
now tell me a sign that a guy is a virgin

Ye! Laugh wan kill me die. So after you disvirgin the lady,how long will she remain tight for? And do you know that some women who were disvirgined 10 yrs ago can still be tight? Before you cuss or talk think about it. Some women have lovely muscles down there that can bounce back while others don't.

This is why so many men have little to no respect for women. There are to many woman out there that give themselves to easily to often. no husband wants to hold a conversation or shake hands with the man who his wife have sex with when she was just the other mans girlfriend or even worse, his play thing. Do you really wanna kiss a woman whose had someone elses penis in her mouth and make her your wife ?

The heart of her husband safety trusts her, so he will have no lack of gain

she does him good not evil all the days of her life,

she is not afraid of snow for her household,

she grids herself with strength, and strengthens her arm,

she extend her her hand to the poor, yes, she reaches out her hands to the needy,

she opens her mouth with wisdom, and on her her tongue is the law of kidness.

her husband is known in the gates, when he sits amoung the elgers of the land.

All this shall a good wife posses.

This is why so many men have little to no respect for women. There are to many woman out there that give themselves to easily to often. no husband wants to hold a conversation or shake hands with the man who his wife have sex with when she was just the other mans girlfriend or even worse, his play thing. Do you really wanna kiss a woman whose had someone elses penis in her mouth and make her your wife ?

Sweetpie, you still need to explain to me why this does not apply to a man.

And there are other reasons why some women are not virgins, including rape and child abuse. I think the more important factor is what kind of person the woman is, rather than where she has been (same for a man). DOes she fear God? Is she honest and sincere? Does she have the qualities that you believe will make for a good wife and mother (which, by the way is very subjective)?

Consultant:

Sweetpie, you still need to explain to me why this does not apply to a man.

Thank you. I was going to say the same thing.

Consultant:

Sweetpie, you still need to explain to me why this does not apply to a man.

Yeah but doesn't character mean that a woman keeps her virginity for marriage other than screwing around?
how do you feel on your honeymoon when there is no blood,I mean you would feel cheated right? if the men here are satisfied and comfortable with the knowledge of being with a woman who has previously slept with man yother guys that's you deceiving yourself.

A gud wife to me is the woman who caught me on top of her sister and still forgive me !

that is a stupid wife not a good one

it takes the grace of God to be a good wife

sweetpie23:

Yeah but doesn't character mean that a woman keeps her virginity for marriage other than screwing around?
how do you feel on your honeymoon when there is no blood,I mean you would feel cheated right? if the men here are satisfied and comfortable with the knowledge of being with a woman who has previously slept with man yother guys that's you deceiving yourself.

Keep going around worshipping hymen. How is the woman supposed to feel when she finds out her husband screwed other women?

The opposite of all that made a bad wife
Lemme be serious now, i think a good wife should be
1. Supportive.
2. Encouraging.
3. Corrective.
4. Prudent and never arrogant.
5. Accomodating and tolerating.
6. Home maker
7. Above all, Loves God and some moreeeeeeeeeeee

How? Huh Huh i am yet to meet a guy who wants to marry a virgin. i think that is old school. Most guys actually prefer a lady to know what she's doing. Easier to learn new skills from there instead of teaching from scratch.

Bullshit!!!

I bet your'e verry skilfull and easy!