Romance landers I created a thread here on what I should do about a lady I met at the filling station which I fell in love with...
Based on the advice I got from nairalanders I decided to give her counter attack at her place of work on getting there see what happens

Me:hello good morning(me holding a gallon pretending to buy fuel)

fuel attendant girlcoming towards me not sighting me yet with a cheering smile)..
Yes what do u want(she said in a frowning face)

Me:well i have come to buy fuel and also to see you

Fuel attendant girlpause) No fuel

Me:are you.... (not finishing my statement)

Fuel attendant girl... (turns her back and walk away to her filling station office, without uttering a single word)
I love this benue lady but this her Shakira too much for me now
Fellow romance landers what else should I do again should I continue the struggle or withdraw
Is she feeling important or what?

below is her pics on her way coming to attend to me(Not knowing it was me) I use my pen hidden camera to snap her

My brother, I will suggest you stop going there to avoid more insult. I will advise you to start sending her sms maybe everyday and night and call once in week and above all, observe 71 days fasting and prayer on top her ahead. May God help you lover boy.

Jumat Kareem.

#MoveOn Bro

Don't rush her, give it a lil time but make she understands your body language each time u approach her...naso them dey mumu @the initial stage.

Don't rush her, give it a lil time but make she understands your body language each time u approach her...naso them dey mumu @the initial stage.....

who gave you advise to still go back and disturb her. As you can see you have reduced your value before her because of continuous pestering. You now disgust her, you better leave her and face your work. Next time you come to buy fuel come with a 2016 model of any ride with your well ironed traditional suit, starched and smelling nice then watch as she turns around to give you more than fuel.

For you to succeed, you have to kill the Man she's living with first if you can. That man suffered to bring her to Lagos.

intbizoil:
who gave you advise to still go back and disturb her. As you can see you have reduced your value before her because of continuous pestering. You now disgust her, you better leave her and face your work. Next time you come to buy fuel come with a 2016 model of any ride with your well ironed traditional suit, starched and smelling nice then watch as she turns around to give you more than fuel.

Follow this advice @OP

intbizoil:
who gave you advise to still go back and disturb her. As you can see you have reduced your value before her because of continuous pestering. You now disgust her, you better leave her and face your work. Next time you come to buy fuel come with a 2016 model of any ride with your well ironed traditional suit, starched and smelling nice then watch as she turns around to give you more than fuel.

Bro I have a car am fixing it and the car has been in the mechanic workshop for a while due to engine failure but is under repair shaa.. I use Honda Accord baby boy model.. But you see am not the type that intimidate or entice ladies with flashy things... I believe someone should accept you for who you are and not what material things u have... If a lady falls for me cos am driving the best car then I will use and dump such lady cos such kind lady cannot last....

I am a snake charmer,Give her my number let me charm that serpent.

Op,that girl don get husband,Chebi na benue... Forget,dem dey marry early.she go don born like 4 pikin.

I tot I told dis op the other Time to go see an ifa priest? Why fuel attendant go just dey humiliate u like dis eh

madridguy:
My brother, I will suggest you stop going there to avoid more insult. I will advise you to start sending her sms maybe everyday and night and call once in week and above all, observe 71 days fasting and prayer on top her ahead. May God help you lover boy.

Jumat Kareem.

Bro I tried calling her and whenever I call her with my number she won't pick
I registered two MTN sim cos of her and use the separate number call her she pick and says hello... I try to change my voice... She too was trying to observe voice before talking so she discovered it was me and the phone hang up

firstking01:
Don't rush her, give it a lil time but make she understands your body language each time u approach her...naso them dey mumu @the initial stage.....

I tot as much

Dude, stop deluding yourself.

Communicate with her with the only language gurls understands, Send her credit first, two days later send her a text. Two days later another text in the morning and night. Two days later send her credit, two days later invite her for dinner.

amiskurie:
Op,that girl don get husband,Chebi na benue... Forget,dem dey marry early.she go don born like 4 pikin.

No sir,, she never marry she stays with her sister,, she told me that when last we spoke..... She just clock 21...cos that day she perceive beer odour she asked me to predict her age and I said 21 and she told me I got it right
I asked her it she was joking and she said dats her real age.... Even that day she was asking me if I have married and I said no and she said she does not believe me that someone of my age above 30 should have settled down by now and I told her it's not yet

omron:

No sir,, she never marry she stays with her sister,, she told me that when last we spoke..... She just clock 21...cos that day she perceive beer odour she asked me to predict her age and I said 21 and she told me I got it right
I asked her it she was joking and she said dats her real age.... Even that day she was asking me if I have married and I said no and she said she does not believe me that someone of my age above 30 should have settled down by now and I told her it's not yet

Me just knw say most benue girls dey run leave husband.that's fact!

Keep on sending her sms as I am very sure she will be reading it. At times women can be very funny but at the end na you go tire for love.

If I may ask you OP, are you Yoruba/Muslim ? I have my reason please.

omron:


Bro I tried calling her and whenever I call her with my number she won't pick
I registered two MTN sim cos of her and use the separate number call her she pick and says hello... I try to change my voice... She too was trying to observe voice before talking so she discovered it was me and the phone hang up

tasceige:
Communicate with her with the only languages gurls understands, Send her credit first, two days later send her a text. Two days later another text in the morning and night. Two days later send her credit, two days later invite her for dinner.

hummmm nice concept bro... I will try that today but like how much credit do u think I should send to her

madridguy:
Keep on sending her sms as I am very sure she will be reading it. At times women can be very funny but at the end na you go tire for love.

If I may ask you OP, are you Yoruba/Muslim ? I have my reason please.

Bro am Yoruba and am a Christian

I've come to realize Benue girls do more shakara in dis world than any other tribe. Wat are they even feeling like sef

Leave her smelling ass and look for someone nice. By the time u are with the new girl, stroll down together to d Benue girl's filling station and specifically buy fuel from d lady while you're playing and giggling wit ur new catch. I swear, dat Benue girl will look for ur number and begin to call u. Wat arrant nonsense

You'll know if she's yours if you can do this; FREE HER FOR A WEEK, don't call, text or go to her station after a week start calling during her break times, because calling during her working hours could make her do mistake and you know what that means?

omron:
hummmm nice concept bro... I will try that today but like how much credit do u think I should send to her

It's worth it only If truly you care about her though.. Depends on yur purse boss, plus dont put pressure on her. She will surely read your messages over and over when ever she's bored....
And hey you better pray she's not on Nairaland.

StPete:
I've come to realize Benue girls do more shakara in dis world than any other tribe. Wat are they even feeling like sef

Leave her smelling ass and look for someone nice. By the time u are with the new girl, stroll down together to d Benue girl's filling station and specifically buy fuel from d lady while you're playing and giggling wit ur new catch. I swear, dat Benue girl will look for ur number and begin to call u. Wat arrant nonsense

May be that is what I will still do self if she continues her Shakara attitude

Eeyah, I sense you like this girl so much and not telling you exact your offense for her sudden change of attitude towards you is really giving you tough time. I would have teach you one Quranic verse to recite " just " for her to give you audience and tell you why she is acting strange.

Try harder bros and our fore fathers always say " Koje ngbadun lobinrin gbafun " I pray soonest you will invite us all for una wedding.

omron:
Bro am Yoruba and am a Christian

@OP. "Patience is used when eating up a hot soup"- Proverb.

tasceige:


It's worth it only If truly you care about her though.. Depends on yur purse boss, plus dont put pressure on her. She will surely read your messages over and over when ever she's bored....
And hey you better pray she's not on Nairaland.

She might be on Nairaland.com or not but one thing I know is that th e last time I asked her her Facebook name she told me and I added her and when I told her when she will accept she said she lost her phone that she doesn't have browsing fone for now.....she holl Nokia torch that day and she even showed me
If she is on nairaland.com I don't send shaaa

madridguy:
Eeyah, I sense you like this girl so much and not telling you exact your offense for her sudden change of attitude towards you is really giving you tough time. I would have teach you one Quranic verse to recite " just " for her to give you audience and tell you why she is acting strange.

Try harder bros and our fore fathers always say " Koje ngbadun lobinrin gbafun " I pray soonest you will invite us all for una wedding.

Yeah tanx for your concern bro

omron:

She might be on Nairaland.com or not but one thing I know is that th e last time I asked her her Facebook name she told me and I added her and when I told her when she will accept she said she lost her phone that she doesn't have browsing fone for now.....she holl Nokia torch that day and she even showed me
If she is on nairaland.com I don't send shaaa

Just give her time and be consistent

Fine gal o