stan4guy6:
coffee killz libido perhaps u can use it when trying to quit to give ur self cont

I think u r wrong. Coffee enhances libido. I fed on it for years. Just started to minimize on it recently because of memory loss.

nd07:


I think u r wrong. Coffee enhances libido. I fed on it for years. Just started to minimize on it recently because of memory loss.

sure ? then reverse becomes the case for me because this is what I observe after taking it.

Smellymouth:

I swear no matter how.angry I am, d comments on Nairaland helps me forget it and laugh like a mad personal ..lol.lmao. so funny ..can't do without this website. so Inspiring wen u meet people with the same issues you have and realise dier thinking is like urs

Let me tell you something, Op and everybody.

Masturbation is a bad habit I suppose, and like every bad habit, it feeds on mindset and willingness to indulge further.

My story!

Last year and upwards I was a big time agnostic. This means I strongly doubted God and his existence and that doubt gave me the needed freedom to explore life. I felt the need to live limitlessly since I'd conquered God and his caging dictates.
I was happy and free of all "indoctrination". I womanized, by the way that was my major. I found it hard to sleep alone and I rarely did, and none of the females knew. I was living the dream. I had everything smooth, academics and all.

I lived like this till December last year, an upwards of 4years. Stopped going to church and when I did go, I only sat there challenging the gospel in my head.

However, as with all agnostics, I still had this feeling that God still is. I had always known that these were all bad habits and the pleasure derived therefrom was overrated but the issue was getting myself to stop.

Nonetheless I made commitments to stop on several occasions but failed in all. The urge was enormous, especially when you are alone.

To cut it short, on 31st December last year I made a pledge to myself and to God (The Creator of heaven and earth, in His existence and wherever He is) that I was going to stop. It felt good but I fell again on 1st/2nd night.

Nobody will deliver you, nobody will pray for you. It is a decision that you and you alone will take. You dont need to open all your doors and windows and avoid being alone as many will advise.

I felt very bad after this last experience and decided this time to end it. I didnt cut off anything, I didnt stop talking to girls, though I got it minimized and strictly in line.
By the way, the first set of things I did were delete my porn collections, reorientate myself to the fact that breasts and behinds were nothing but parts of the body.
Then begin to see these girls in the same way that you see your sisters.

Sex is overrated. I've been there unfortunately, and there are times I just wish I never had sex for the first time

You can stop any bad habit. Just make up your mind to stop, and with conviction and determination. Nobody is clean enough to advise you against your habits.

#peace for now..

Let me also correct something I've read from many people here.
Having a girlfriend who lets you have sex with her or getting a prostitute as backup will only increase your chances of indulging again (whether masturbation or outright sex)....you will always say stuff like "sin is sin, if I can have sex, why not I just masturbate? Or If I can masturbate, why don't I just have sex?" Plus having sex increases your chances of masturbating when she is not with you. That 5 seconds over hyped urge can always make the weak reach or for a phone or an option.

The advice is STOP, not substitute.

God bless you

Masturbation is NOT a sin but the gift of God for all to enjoy. The Bible and common sense tells you that.

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Pornography_is_NOT_normal_x_rated_photos_Bible_verses_used_against_nude_photos

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Masturbation_NOT_a_sin_but_a_Gift_From_God

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=God_Created_Sexual_Human_Nature

Great way to reduce masturbation, if you are trying to do that,, Copy King David, (Man after God's own heart) he had 20++ wives and concubine and UNLIMITED virgins available to him 2 Sam 12:8

OR copy King Solomon wisest man on earth he had 1000 wives and concubines and UNLIMITED virgins available to him SOS 6:8

All men have UNLIMITED virgin availiable to them also even today. At creation God gave unlimited sex partner to all creation including all man for all times not only during the OT but for all times.

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=God_Gave_Sexual_Freedom_to_All_Creation

Another way to avoid masturbation is to have sex with a prostitute like they did in Bible days. Prostitution was alway legal in the Bible days.. The bad prostitution in the Bible was in connection with the Baal Pagan worship of pagan fertility god that Paul defined as fornication in the Bible.

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Bible_Prostitutes_in_the_Bible

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=PROSTITUTION_From_the_Book_Divine_Sex

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Fornication_Correctly_Defined_with_all_Bible_Verses

Another way to avoid masturbation is to have your master or Boss loan you one of his many wives as they did in the Bible days. In Ex 21: 4-6 Ex 21:10-11

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Swingers_in_the_Bible_Swinging_NOT_a_Sin


http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Expose_Wrong_Sex_Teaching_With_URLs



http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Pornography_What_it_is_and_What_it_is_NOT



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MrTeCO:
To be Honest, i masturbate all the time. Every day infact. I started in my SS3 back in 2010 while i was still in the Seminary. Am trying hard to stop cos its making me feel like i don't need any gurl to satisfy my sexual urge. I don't even put much effort to toast a gurl. Once she starts doing shakara to give me the Koko i jeje leave her n do ma tin. I hope i get to stop this soon cos am not rili hapi abt masturbating all the time. Thanks 4 d post though.

exactky bro, like you don't even feel the need to chase girls for long......once attitude start, m off nd it is sad

Don't resist the urge neither should you feel guilty when you give in.. Marriage is a lasting solution

OP and guys. I swear, the worst side effect of masturbation is the fact that it steals your happiness and it also there's stigma. People, like me, having this 'addiction' are not pitied and sympathised, but are judged and discriminated. The adverse medical effects are also present.

I have been on this battle for almost 8 years now. And it's been defeating me.
I've taken decision a couple of times to stop but along the line I fall back in.
This time around, I've met some friends here on NL passing through the same challenge and we have been helping one another as we fight this addiction. I've gone a week without masturbating and I don't feel the urge that bad again, for now. If you want to join us, send me a pm and I'll add you to our group.
Thanks!

KunleSteel:


God bless you

Strongly disagree with sex being overrated, it's the most pleasurable thing in the world. Name me one thing that is better than sex?

Nche95:
xvideos and naijauncut, if only Government can block these two sites eh.. i remember when i vowed never to visit xvideos again, 1 hr later, i saw myself typing it into my browser....

I can relate bro..

Nche95:
xvideos and naijauncut, if only Government can block these two sites eh.. i remember when i vowed never to visit xvideos again, 1 hr later, i saw myself typing it into my browser....

I can relate bro..

masterbator:
OP and guys. I swear, the worst side effect of masturbation is the fact that it steals your happiness and it also there's stigma. People, like me, having this 'addiction' are not pitied and sympathised, but are judged and discriminated. The adverse medical effects are also present.


Thanks!

NOT true!! God and the Bible say the OPPOSITE. Any proper research expose lies and show God designed sexual enjoyment masturbation are very good for you. [color=#000099]God designed it, God said it is excellence! You say OPPOSITE of creator God [/color]

Masturbation has 50 + benefits

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Another place explain 7 heath benefit to masturbation

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http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Masturbation_Shameless_Guiltless_Gift_From_God

Hear what many other Pastors are saying.

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Masturbation is NOT a sin but the gift of God for all to enjoy. The Bible and common sense tells you that.

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Pornography_is_NOT_normal_x_rated_photos_Bible_verses_used_against_nude_photos

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Masturbation_NOT_a_sin_but_a_Gift_From_God

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=God_Created_Sexual_Human_Nature

Great way to reduce masturbation, if you are trying to do that,, Copy King David, (Man after God's own heart) he had 20++ wives and concubine and UNLIMITED virgins available to him 2 Sam 12:8

OR copy King Solomon wisest man on earth he had 1000 wives and concubines and UNLIMITED virgins available to him SOS 6:8

All men have UNLIMITED virgin available to them also even today. At creation God gave unlimited sex partner to all creation including all men for all times not only during the OT but for all times.

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=God_Gave_Sexual_Freedom_to_All_Creation

Another way to avoid masturbation is to have sex with a prostitute like they did in Bible days. Prostitution was alway legal in the Bible days.. The bad prostitution in the Bible was in connection with the Baal Pagan worship of pagan fertility god that Paul defined as fornication in the Bible.

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Bible_Prostitutes_in_the_Bible

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=PROSTITUTION_From_the_Book_Divine_Sex

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Fornication_Correctly_Defined_with_all_Bible_Verses

Another way to avoid masturbation is to have your master or Boss loan you one of his many wives as they did in the Bible days. In Ex 21: 4-6 Ex 21:10-11

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Swingers_in_the_Bible_Swinging_NOT_a_Sin


http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Expose_Wrong_Sex_Teaching_With_URLs



http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Pornography_What_it_is_and_What_it_is_NOT



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Am a chronic masturbator... Am 23 now and started masturbating since I was 14.. will tell you, since I started masturbating, no week pass by without me masturbating least twice... Believe me, I have never had sex buh what I have vomited can feel a tank... With my masturbating fantasy, I don't really see the need of a girl as they keep on being toxic to me... Buh the funny aspect is, since my masturbating saga, I have never been caught or suspected... Due to how I carry myself, everybody within my environment always sees me as a good boy who don't really womanize or get much interest with opposite sex, added up of me being a medical student, they really sees me as a very determine human who really have a strong taught for career... Buh I must confess, am really tired of living this kind of disgusting life... I have been a loner who never fall into trouble or being troubled by people...
Am really willing to change and really need help from folks here.. am really ashame of saying this buh I must speak out to know if I can be free from demons causing this.... Have really accepted by soul and mind to desist from masturbation and live a worthy live am gonna be proud of... Less I forget, have really tempted taking my own live both by concoction and by hanging... I really feel guilty everytime am done masturbating buh the funny thing is, I will still do it next time... It all started after being taught by our moral instructor teacher that the only sin in masturbating is, if being addicted it can cause brain damage and depression... I leverage on this to be free from womanizing as I detest that so much... I really pray for God to forgive me for all those viable fluids I really wasted during me spree as a masturbator... I believe as I speak out on this mamount platform, am gonna work on myself to be free and live a normal live once again...

A lot of young folks don't understand what masturbation does to the body.

When you start masturbating, nothing happens to your body, except that you'll feel dizzy and tired most times, while your mental ability weakens. That alone can make you suffer academically.

Thereafter, it begins to affect other body parts like your skin, eyes and even some internal organs. It destroys your body because you're releasing important and vital hormones and nutrients when you jerk-off.

It can give you serious eye problems because you're increasing your eye pressure while you sex-chat or watch porn; and ofcourse your anti-inflammatory hormones are reduced from ejaculation. It can cause the bulid-up of excess eye floaters and flashes.


Masturbation also causes you to panic and experience excessive nervous tendencies. You'd just be getting nervous at intervals; you won't be able to confidently speak, no charisma, no aura. You'd just be a simp. To woo a lady becomes a daunting task.

I'm a medical practitioner and I can tell from my years of experience that masturbation destroys.

I've met thousands of young men who belong to the category. All their problems are consistent with what I just listed.

Semen is so important. If you knew how important your semen is, you wouldn't even want to see them. It takes 21 days for you to replenish your body after a round of ejaculation. And a drop of semen is equal to 8 spoons of blood.

Your sperm can make your skin smooth and elastic. It clears your complexion; women won't stop looking at you. It gives your hair the finest texture.

It gives you confidence. You heart is firm and solid. Your penis is smooth, meaty and firm when you're erect. I can go on and on.

Stop masturbating and be a MAN.