firstking01:
You are not into guys ba??

iPrevail:
From the chats, it seems you're becoming compliant and slowly giving in while fronting Sopulu as an excuse. You also seem as the vulnerable type (I've been on nairaland for a while, been observing).. I could be wrong tho.

But what I have for you is this, Don't date or sleep with that jerk... he knows very well what he's doing. Don't fall a victim to his plot and schemes.

Any guy with true intentions will not rush any girl into a relationship but will give it a chance to grow on it's own. The best relationship buds from friendship.

Finally I'll add, it's very wrong to date a friend's ex. In the world of relationships there are "dos and don'ts", this is one of the don'ts!

just2okworld:
Gibberish!!!!
Man up and tell it to his face you ain't interested
E be like say you din dey fall sef...GOD DEY O

calliking:
My opinion, block his contact on whatsapp and ignore all his calls. I would have asked you not to date while in school but who am I? He can't obviously offer you anything since he didn't offer any to his ex your friend. On the other hand, you don't need your friends approval to be happy. So if you wanna date him, tell your friend of his advances and ask if she's interested in going back. If yes, back off. If no, chook head.

refiner:




how do u know he didn't offer anyfin to my friend!

my dear,I just wanna take it easy wif him,..I don't wanna be too harsh on him,cos he already knows my heart!!!.....so am still trying to figure out,how to go about wif it!


fanx for ur advice tho!

folksync:

He already knows your heart?

refiner:

yea!....am into real men!

refiner:


sorry dear....was a mistake,I meant he already knows my house!....

firstking01:
noope, rather ur into lesbos

folksync:


Alright. I guessed as much. I just wanted to be sure.

About the matter, just stay firm on what you have decided. He is insisting because he believes you will fall eventually. Don't give him that satisfaction. First, cut him off on all the social networks where you are friends with him. Second, when next you meet him physically, give him no room to discuss the matter. Talk on open stuffs like his wellbeing, his friends, interesting political happenings, etc. Don't give him the satisfaction he wants. He would get frustrated and leave you alone.

refiner:




OK dear....fanx a lot!...will do such as fast as possible!

hope dis work out!

refiner:


OK den....I won't ague wif u!

av a nice day!

firstking01:
she dan vex

refiner:

refiner:


am a woman nt a man,so its better u say....woman up!...

naughtynaughty:
disappointed in her cos she's a lesbian? Rili? Like she choose dt part herslf?

ssoftappless:
hmmm is it wat im thinking?

naughtynaughty:
yes! Wteva it is yhr thinkin..

VickyRotex:



Explain this part




Okay I believe you small.

You'd have said, "You're not into guys for now because...................."



lol @ I RISE, COURT

After reading the chats up there

This is my verdict: Haaaaaaa "Op is in love. Opariiiii"

You dont need our advise anylonger, cos you'll do what you've got in mind to do.

"I RISE"


"Court"

naughtynaughty:
disappointed in her cos she's a lesbian? Rili? Like she choose dt part herslf?

Laveda:
"You're not into guys" you're into what?
Tell him you ain't interested he'll flee

refiner:


dats after much persuasion for him to stay away from me!...buh its just like pouring water on a rock!


I really wanna stay on my own!....wat should I do!

isacolukay:

No worries, dey with me.

refiner:

VickyRotex:


Could it be that some of them are into Cucumber then?

refiner:
just lastweek friday,I was just coming back from school!...on my way,a car hooted and stopped in front of me,as I was about walking past it,I heard my name!,then I looked in the car and I was surprised to see my friend's ex boyfriend!


then we exchanged greetings!.....as I was about to move on,he begged me for my number!...and this guy knows so well I am his ex girlfriend's friend!....I hesitated before giving it out to him!


he called the following day,and we chatted for close to 30 minute on phone!.....just this valentine day,he pressurized me to go out with him,but I refused his request!.....


as I was about going to bed last night,my phone rang,when I noticed he was the one calling,I ignored it....then in came a message,he wants me to be his girlfriend!


I was shocked!cos he knows also that I am not into guys!...


friends!.....what do u think!....is it right to date your friend's ex

what should I do so he will stay away from me!


note:he knows my house!....I just wish for an advice on what to do so he won't feel bad....cause he might try coming to my house and act something funny!.....