I'm a young lady of 24 years, currently serving, I met a man of 30 years like 10months ago, he's a very good man in most aspects. Recently, he's disturbing me to come meet his people and for him to meet mine too but I'm afraid because this man has never given me a dime before even though he works and earn cool salary. Even if he wants me to come and visit him because he works in Abuja while I'm serving in Lagos.

He will never talk about my transport fare and I don't ask because I don't know how to ask for money from anybody. My fear now is that will he be a responsible husband? Please how do I handle such a man? Will it be reasonable enough to walk out of such relationship? Do you think he's naturally stingy? I'm confused about the future.


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http://gennypearl..com.ng/2016/02/is-he-naturally-stingy.html?m=1

I dislike stingy guys.

Don't conclude yet, he might be doing so as a result of past experiences. Keep studying him.

"He is a very good man in most aspect" then marry him what else do you require of him?
He is even disturbing you for formal introduction just after 10 months not 10years. marry him he is not a "hit and run" dude.
"he works and earn cool money" let me believe it is this dude you love not his "cool money" you as a corp member are you not receiving "alawee"
can't you afford the transport to Abuja? I know you can. go meet him, use your transport.

OK, to your questions: 1 don't be afraid he will be a responsible man. 2 handle with care and much care. 3 if you work out for the sake of money, you are not reasonable. 4 He his not a stingy man, but, I will not advise you to ask him for money to proof whether he is a stingy man.

For the FUTURE just pray and commit it into God's hand, don't be confuse your future is Bright. be optimistic!

sayin he's stingy is an irrelevant conclusion, I personally dnt giv unless wen am been asked. cos sumtyms given witout asking myt b embarrassing, d receiver myt tk it d wrong way. if u av Ur to-tfare, y nt use it n wen cumin bk, its only normal he return bk d to- tfare 2 u n pays 4 Ur fro. N most importantly, wen u really nid financial assistance, its necessary u Ask. even d good book said it, " Ask, n it shall b given 2 u"

What can i say?

I guess he is a good man. Someone who is after ur kini will spend heavily and later dump u. Bsides a responsible man who is ready for marriage shud know he has to cater for his family financialy.

A man who isnt concerned about your welfare(the fact he didnt even ask if you had money on you to come and visit him) would not be concerned about your welfare even after getting married. It is a really good thing that you have never asked him for a dime, but him trying to even ask about your welfare wouldn't hurt.

My sister don't conclude yet,continue watching him .

Babe, you guys are just dating and the guy is not financially responsible for your bills or transport fare when you visit him. How do you even know that his salary is ''cool''? Naija babes and money. You are serving and earning at least 19,800 monthly. Abeg free the young man joor, em no be your papa.