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Re: Can I Get Married With This Income In Abeokuta, Ogun State? by edorhe14(m): 3:07pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
EastanPower:#word thats the problem with most marriages today its based on financial security and not love |
Re: Can I Get Married With This Income In Abeokuta, Ogun State? by freeage7(m): 3:08pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
I don't believe your story. |
Re: Can I Get Married With This Income In Abeokuta, Ogun State? by Dakad: 3:08pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
You are making roughly 100k based on what you said and you manage to save about 40k. You can go ahead and settle down if you have a wife material. And I can assure you that if you marry a prudent woman, you will still save up to that before having children. I leave in PH and I do spend roughly 100k monthly before I got married. And now with a kid, I spend just a little above that. However, I'm sure the bill will be higher with one more kid most especially when they start school. And mind you, my wife is not working yet till we have our second child. The honest truth is that my wife is very prudent and not the "copy copy" type 6 Likes |
Re: Can I Get Married With This Income In Abeokuta, Ogun State? by LeoFish92(m): 3:10pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
missyadorable:He who finds a wife finds a good thing.. ...and obtains favor from the Lord 4 Likes |
Re: Can I Get Married With This Income In Abeokuta, Ogun State? by Hafyz23(m): 3:10pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
Olarajee:Oyami lenu o. When so many people r living below or on 18k and r doing well. Depend on him and his spouse spendings sha 1 Like |
Re: Can I Get Married With This Income In Abeokuta, Ogun State? by nepapole(m): 3:10pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
Sure....na GOD dey feed us jare. |
Re: Can I Get Married With This Income In Abeokuta, Ogun State? by andy24(m): 3:12pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
Sir... Save ur salary & going into plantain farming cos Ogun has the soil and good climatic conditions for the production of plantain full time. With two years of dedication and hard u will be counting ur moni in millions. I am a true life testimony. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Can I Get Married With This Income In Abeokuta, Ogun State? by kingofchess(m): 3:12pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
greatgod2012:I love ur post and I love u too...can we get married? lol |
Re: Can I Get Married With This Income In Abeokuta, Ogun State? by atirolu(m): 3:13pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
I got married me 30k income and yet I live a low key life and my wife understand the situation the combination of our income was 65k some 3 years back. The bible says "he who find a wife findth a good ting and obtain favor from the lord" however, today with a team work and support giving by my wife we have income of over 250k monthly bro you are ready to go just make sure she's the right woman that will support you. God bless you 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can I Get Married With This Income In Abeokuta, Ogun State? by mamawin(f): 3:16pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
thecrush:Why must he not? |
Re: Can I Get Married With This Income In Abeokuta, Ogun State? by Aarenasbaba(m): 3:16pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
winkmart:Even if you are earning 10k, if you know what u re doing.....am sure you won't strive....cut ur coat according to ur size |
Re: Can I Get Married With This Income In Abeokuta, Ogun State? by adeborode: 3:17pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
u r a rich man my guy,here dat I am some pple marry with 25k monthly.u can marry o provided u marry ur wife. |
Re: Can I Get Married With This Income In Abeokuta, Ogun State? by scholes23(m): 3:17pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
winkmart:Bros go ahead, I've lived in ABK and i must confess, the cost of living over there is far better than that of Lagos. Even people who are on the same salary scale with you in Lagos and married. At least in abk u can get a 3-4 bedroom apartment for between 250-350k and things are kinda cheap over there so my guy ur good to go. All d best. 1 Like |
Re: Can I Get Married With This Income In Abeokuta, Ogun State? by ibile1: 3:20pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
EastanPower: Please don't deceive the OP. Arrange for a better income before you get married to avoid stories that touch...... women of these days are nothing to write home about if you cant provide the cash. 1 Like |
Re: Can I Get Married With This Income In Abeokuta, Ogun State? by Sweetlemon(f): 3:20pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
Marry if you feel so strongly about it. But please don't do it because of any so-called societal obligation. Make sure you and your wife are prudent and resourceful. Left to me, there is no hurry yet. Concentrate on building business ideas first. 3 Likes |
Re: Can I Get Married With This Income In Abeokuta, Ogun State? by ReLaTE(m): 3:22pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
greatgod2012:With this two points excluded,am afraid u wl encounter problems if you marry wt that income. |
Re: Can I Get Married With This Income In Abeokuta, Ogun State? by Carter4luv(m): 3:22pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
Sure it will. |
Re: Can I Get Married With This Income In Abeokuta, Ogun State? by rolams(m): 3:23pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
Yes u can. Bro, when u marry, ur creator will always provide for u what both of you will eat. When you multiply, the blessing continues like that. Remember our parent usually tell us they don't have money when it comes to some responsibility, when discussing with friends or relatives even they use to tell us there is no money but we eat at home and able to me up some responsibilities. But there is a miracle I av noticed, when the children departs and rent their apartments, our parents complaints still remains no money. This shows that God provides for the family based on d number of people in dat family. Go bro, God is with you. You will never regret. My own income was not up to that when I got married. |
Re: Can I Get Married With This Income In Abeokuta, Ogun State? by tweeby: 3:23pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
winkmart:Yes you can... God bless u new home n provide more for you. Will join d league soon in Jesus name, Amen!!! Plz wat online business do u do? |
Re: Can I Get Married With This Income In Abeokuta, Ogun State? by mamawin(f): 3:24pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
atirolu:my husb was earning N4k and I was waiting for service wt a baby. we had d best time then, compare to now that we chase money up ans down. there's nothing new under d sun, but let d op sit d wife-to-be down and have a heart to heart talk. not that she wl discover d reality after marriage. they can even have children, but well-spaced, God will be with them. 2 Likes |
Re: Can I Get Married With This Income In Abeokuta, Ogun State? by Truckpusher(m): 3:24pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
winkmart:If you want to make your kids pass through what you passed through and ended up earning 50k per month then get married bro. Marriage isn't a limited stock in the market , I still can't figure out why a young man in his 30s will wife a girl and birth children he is fully aware that he can't cater for with his income . 5 Likes |
Re: Can I Get Married With This Income In Abeokuta, Ogun State? by MisteerConcord(m): 3:27pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
winkmart:Bro, marry... Ehmmm... I'm concerned about that ur online biz... Help me oh |
Re: Can I Get Married With This Income In Abeokuta, Ogun State? by Nobody: 3:28pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
EastanPower: |
Re: Can I Get Married With This Income In Abeokuta, Ogun State? by toluxa1(m): 3:28pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
mamawin: Four thousand or forty thousand.? |
Re: Can I Get Married With This Income In Abeokuta, Ogun State? by luke10: 3:29pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
EastanPower:This one na small excuse. Some will even say, I like the girl but I cannot marry her because she too black, too yello, too short. nigerians sha. |
Re: Can I Get Married With This Income In Abeokuta, Ogun State? by emzila(m): 3:30pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
EastanPower:you will know when she enter your house and you don't have enough to provide fore her. that a girl should have a work doing doesn't mean she has to be government or private employee. if she is actually up to marriageable age, she should have something doing be it tailoring, provision store owner etc. there are many reason for this, first is that she will be somehow financially discipline, she would be able to take care of certain personal need when indeed you do not have for her, she would a shock absorber in time of unexpected sack etc. avoid certain things while you still can. 2 Likes |
Re: Can I Get Married With This Income In Abeokuta, Ogun State? by boujaye: 3:32pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
winkmart:Bro, from your mindset i see you are very responsible, you are not just careless. My humble advise is that you can marry, provided she is matured, understanding and Godfearing. But you can keep a continuous savings for at least 10 months, and setup a biz, then gather another savings for atleast 6months for your marriage, that's 1 and half year preparation. At age 30 you still have time to prepare. Don't plan you life to rely on what will come from your spouse, assuming she is zero income, but if she happens to be enterprising or working class then its still a plus to you. Goodluck. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can I Get Married With This Income In Abeokuta, Ogun State? by Sweetlemon(f): 3:33pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
Truckpusher: My dear! I don't just understand Nigerians and this marriage mentality. Some are even saying that marriage brings success, meaning that no matter your income God will sha provide. Like he's providing for all those naked children roaming around slums who are suffering as a a result of underpaid parents? Just look at this one here! rolams: Smh Why won't we have half baked and unemployable graduates here and there when so many can't afford quality education? Do people think about these things before getting married? Na real wa! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can I Get Married With This Income In Abeokuta, Ogun State? by xp17(m): 3:34pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
EastanPower:will a girl who has a job marry you if you have no job? Before you conclude, you have to put yourself in a reverse situation sir. 4 Likes |
Re: Can I Get Married With This Income In Abeokuta, Ogun State? by bichikay(m): 3:34pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
Funny enough...some people telling the OP that he can't marry with such income don't earn more than him monthly. What a funny world 2 Likes |
Re: Can I Get Married With This Income In Abeokuta, Ogun State? by luke10: 3:35pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
nbright:I agree but not every Nigerian girls. You cannot in places like Warri, I mean Delta state, Lagos state and a few others. The girls in these states are killers. I lived in Delta for amy years and in Lagos and other places. |
Re: Can I Get Married With This Income In Abeokuta, Ogun State? by basty: 3:37pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
EastanPower: You are a wealth of experience. Sometime ago I wanted to marry and needed to change my job. I took my CV to one MD in an Insurance company, as an Accountant I was sure the man will help me but I met another thing. The man asked me some questions as, do you have a room, bed, chair, mattress, carpet etc. he asked me if I was 25years old and I answered no and he asked me why? I said I needed to change my job so I can receive bigger salary and the man now said I should go and get married. He said when he married, he was only having 2 1/2 bed with a fan and nothing more and now he has built several houses I was disappointed because I was not expecting that from him. I cried and blamed myself for going to him. But later I thought over the message and took it in good faith and married about two years later and that was what changed my story for better in life. Each time I have opportunity to advise people, I always sound it to them to always marry early in life and this helps later in life. Please stick to this advise and marry as soon as possible. You don't need millions of Naira to get married. The LORD will assist you in the course in Jesus name. 1 Like 1 Share |
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