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Re: Pregnant Bride Wears Yellow In Anglican Church Wedding (Photo) by Nobody: 2:05pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
thorpido:Exactly. I blame the couple for getting married there while facing humiliation. |
Re: Pregnant Bride Wears Yellow In Anglican Church Wedding (Photo) by Nobody: 2:05pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
ayusco85: Good sex life? |
Re: Pregnant Bride Wears Yellow In Anglican Church Wedding (Photo) by Nobody: 2:08pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
satowind: Stop embarrassing yourself The tradition of a white wedding dress is commonly credited to Queen Victoria's choice to wear a white court dress at her wedding to Prince Albert in 1840. Debutantes had long been required to wear white court dresses for their first presentation at court, at a "Drawing Room" where they were introduced to the queen for the first time. The colour white symbolises purity however that is not the main reason white wedding dress is the norm. |
Re: Pregnant Bride Wears Yellow In Anglican Church Wedding (Photo) by sarutobie(m): 2:09pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
Localamos:Point taken...by the way,I cosign your friend's decision to start having babies after his traditional wedding.. |
Re: Pregnant Bride Wears Yellow In Anglican Church Wedding (Photo) by Nobody: 2:09pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
Reference:Buried alive that the bride got married the traditional way which has scriptural backing or church wedding without bibilically backing. They would be purnish if they hadn't pay dowry but since it had being paid, there is no need. I blame the couple for their foolishness |
Re: Pregnant Bride Wears Yellow In Anglican Church Wedding (Photo) by ayusco85(m): 2:10pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
daretodiffer: let me pm u lets talk abt it. i want to say somethings but cant because its a public forum. do u mind a pm? |
Re: Pregnant Bride Wears Yellow In Anglican Church Wedding (Photo) by Nobody: 2:10pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
thorpido: This is called cultural appropriation. You see even atheists in the US getting priests to bless their marriages. It is a borrowed culture from whites. Before Christianity grew this big in Nigeria about a century ago, we still had traditional marriages that had Christian partners. I think we should draw a line between doctrines and the law. I don't stand against churches having doctrines, where I have a problem is when these doctrines try to revert us back to the days of the law. We should be free as Christians. And I mean freedom in a good way not freedom to sin. In the case of this couple, they didn't commit any sin and yet they are made to feel guilty like sinners. It is little things like this that turn growing Christians away from the church. This is a fundamental issue and it needs to be addressed. Telling people not to wed in church is not the solution. And if they must be punished at all, it should be both participants and not just the bride. |
Re: Pregnant Bride Wears Yellow In Anglican Church Wedding (Photo) by Nobody: 2:13pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
Prdo: But they are married Where is the fornication? |
Re: Pregnant Bride Wears Yellow In Anglican Church Wedding (Photo) by Nobody: 2:15pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
ayusco85: I do. Why don't you tell me on the derailers thread? |
Re: Pregnant Bride Wears Yellow In Anglican Church Wedding (Photo) by Nobody: 2:15pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
satowind:There is something that the church refuse to check and that's virginity. If you claim white gown means purity and meant for virgins, what of those that committed abortion, slept with different men yet they still wear white gown. Wouldn't be hypocrital for church to concentrate in one side and forgetting the other side?. It's not as if I support the couple's act but this need to be look into |
Re: Pregnant Bride Wears Yellow In Anglican Church Wedding (Photo) by Nobody: 2:18pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
dannywil03:Does the bible support white wedding because the couples are married in the traditional way |
Re: Pregnant Bride Wears Yellow In Anglican Church Wedding (Photo) by Nobody: 2:19pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
sarutobie: Lol, that one sef get loophole. The lady might have been raped at a point. How will they test the man that has had sex all his life till he meet the lady? |
Re: Pregnant Bride Wears Yellow In Anglican Church Wedding (Photo) by thorpido(m): 2:20pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
netizenbuzz:1 Cor. 7:1-2 says it is not good for a man to touch a woman and to prevent fornication,they should get married.You agree the Church can have doctrines which are backed up by biblical references.If the bible says no fornication,is it right then for the church not to join a couple in marriage when the bride is pregnant? @2nd bolded,you are right that they both should be punished. |
Re: Pregnant Bride Wears Yellow In Anglican Church Wedding (Photo) by Walelavender(m): 2:20pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
gist4kidsblog:OP,No sex before wedding is outdated? You must be kidding me. God doesn't lower his standard for immorality that seems to be in vogue. Your reasons are lame and shortsighted. It is not synonymous to the Anglican church alone. Most Pentecostal churches do too. They must have been told. Clearly shed crocodile's tears.They both share the shame. Church wedding isn't a must. Btw, the success of the marriage is all that matters not the one day ceremony 1 Like |
Re: Pregnant Bride Wears Yellow In Anglican Church Wedding (Photo) by Nobody: 2:22pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
thorpido: But the thing is, they didn't commit fornication as they had already done their traditional marriage. Stop twisting my words. |
Re: Pregnant Bride Wears Yellow In Anglican Church Wedding (Photo) by Nobody: 2:23pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
mary36:The couple in question were married. Your church hasn't provide any biblical backing for suspending such a person except they haven't pay dowry which is the ideal thing. Any other rules are man made rules 1 Like |
Re: Pregnant Bride Wears Yellow In Anglican Church Wedding (Photo) by UIA04(f): 2:24pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
Ajinoride:She is not against the rule she is against the woman being made to wear yellow alone while the man doesn't when both of them are guilty |
Re: Pregnant Bride Wears Yellow In Anglican Church Wedding (Photo) by Nobody: 2:24pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
sarutobie:Exactly |
Re: Pregnant Bride Wears Yellow In Anglican Church Wedding (Photo) by SIRTee15: 2:24pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
olakan22: The op clearly stated the couples had already performed the traditional wedding. I don't care about their obsession for church wedding or the church's predisposition to other forms of marriage......... But one thing that is clear is that they are legally married n are not committing fornication. Get that into ur skulls.......and all u christian zombies. |
Re: Pregnant Bride Wears Yellow In Anglican Church Wedding (Photo) by Nobody: 2:26pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
Amhappy:Yeah but your church hasn't provide biblically backing for such punishment |
Re: Pregnant Bride Wears Yellow In Anglican Church Wedding (Photo) by Nobody: 2:27pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
thorpido: I don't day there were. Church wedding is a Western practice. A white Christian would put on a white wedding dress for her marriage. The only wedding they are going to have would be in the church. The couples are African Christians. They will have to do two weddings to satisfy the traditional and Western requirements. It is Western because there is no biblical reference to mandate a wedding in a church. It was passed on to us during colonisation. However this is Africa. We can adopt some foreign cultures and practices if they are better than ours however when there are indigenous non-harmful alternatives, we should adopt them instead of embarrassing ourselves. We should stop trying to do the same thing twice because we want to satisfy western tradition and foreign traditions. There is no law or sound logic that would tell me that a pastor cannot officiate a traditional wedding. It doesn't have to be in the church. Look at most islamic weddings, they are the fusion of both. The Imam comes, do his thing and sits. They continue with the occasion. |
Re: Pregnant Bride Wears Yellow In Anglican Church Wedding (Photo) by Nobody: 2:28pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
ayusco85:Test run, touching bubu e.t.c is sin. No matter how you coin it, it's still sin. |
Re: Pregnant Bride Wears Yellow In Anglican Church Wedding (Photo) by ayusco85(m): 2:34pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
asuustrike2009: are u living a sinless life? |
Re: Pregnant Bride Wears Yellow In Anglican Church Wedding (Photo) by ayusco85(m): 2:35pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
daretodiffer: where is said thread? |
Re: Pregnant Bride Wears Yellow In Anglican Church Wedding (Photo) by Nobody: 2:38pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
ayusco85: https://www.nairaland.com/2144338/chat-central-derailers-paradise-welcome |
Re: Pregnant Bride Wears Yellow In Anglican Church Wedding (Photo) by Nobody: 2:40pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
freshkik:Even by the rules, the church is encouraging fornication especially as they don't conduct virginity test on the couples. Now tell me is all bride that wear white that are pure? It's not as if I support sex before marriage, why is the church not conducting virginity test instead of focusing on pregnancy? |
Re: Pregnant Bride Wears Yellow In Anglican Church Wedding (Photo) by Nobody: 2:42pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
Prdo:Do you say fornicators? So those committing abortion and bleeping before marriage can be wedded because no pot belly showing right |
Re: Pregnant Bride Wears Yellow In Anglican Church Wedding (Photo) by ayusco85(m): 2:43pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
daretodiffer: mention my moniker on the thread |
Re: Pregnant Bride Wears Yellow In Anglican Church Wedding (Photo) by Amhappy(f): 2:45pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
asuustrike2009: My dear I have never read about Christ punishing people for their sins or publicly disgracing them so biblical is out of it. It's more of an institutional thing(man made). So i reasoned it my own way;give them a private low key church wedding/marriage blessing as punishment or make them wait after child birth for the big public wedding. |
Re: Pregnant Bride Wears Yellow In Anglican Church Wedding (Photo) by eyinjuege: 2:49pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
adeaks: There is no doubt thpse in question are already married before God and even man. However, what exactly is the purpose of repeating the wedding for a couple already married? Are they going for church blessings or renewal of their vows? That's an entirely different thing. They should have told their Reverend they're there for church blessings or renewal of vows and not say they're getting married. I'm sure IVs must have said wedding ceremony while in actual fact, they already had that. |
Re: Pregnant Bride Wears Yellow In Anglican Church Wedding (Photo) by Nobody: 2:50pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
Joseph4God:Did you read the post at all? They didn't defile any bed because the groom paid dowry. So retract that your biblically backing. Supposing they had sex before the traditional wedding, it's a different thing |
Re: Pregnant Bride Wears Yellow In Anglican Church Wedding (Photo) by dasparrow: 2:55pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
@Post If they cannot obey the rules of the church, they should get married the traditional way and the court registry way and call it a day. |
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