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19-Year-Old Orphan Who Refused To Abort Pregnancy After She Was Gang Raped / Pregnant Lady Strips To Pant & Bra To Show Her Pregnancy Journey / Man Knocks Off His Wife's Teeth After She Refused To Abort Their Baby (Photos) (2) (3) (4)
|Re: "Ese Should Abort Her Pregnancy" - Nigerians by dennisworld1(m): 10:50am On Mar 03, 2016|
for all those ladies saying ese should abort i pray either u or child go through all this trauma since u dont like an innocent unborn child. Like say God forbid. If u quote me here u die shikenna not a swel
|Re: "Ese Should Abort Her Pregnancy" - Nigerians by Irishrena1(f): 10:50am On Mar 03, 2016|
Though I'm totally not for keeping any trace of the ugly incident, if it wasn't for the fact that the pregnancy is so far gone, I would have said abortion straight. But at this stage the risk involved is way high. Try and google the risk involved in aborting a five month old pregnancy. You'll shudder.
And people are saying Sanusi should not be blamed in any way. I don't think so.
BTW I'm not in support of abortions but I pity the stigma that other children might inflict on the child later.
|Re: "Ese Should Abort Her Pregnancy" - Nigerians by omostar: 10:51am On Mar 03, 2016|
If there is a way I can, why not? But hopefully, she will be fine and won't need my help
|Re: "Ese Should Abort Her Pregnancy" - Nigerians by Nobody: 10:52am On Mar 03, 2016|
omostar:since you already have your conclusion and opinion of me, I'll just let this argument slide
FYI, I'm nor southerner. Take note of that
|Re: "Ese Should Abort Her Pregnancy" - Nigerians by henrygale(m): 10:55am On Mar 03, 2016|
omostar:Na so una dey push people on a Slopy plane com commot shock.
If u really wanted to help,u will find her or dem(the family). But I think keeping the belle is gonna cause more problems for d gal.
|Re: "Ese Should Abort Her Pregnancy" - Nigerians by Psylas(m): 10:56am On Mar 03, 2016|
yunnyp:I will, I don't take poo
|Re: "Ese Should Abort Her Pregnancy" - Nigerians by Irishrena1(f): 10:56am On Mar 03, 2016|
Wyttcat:Ehn? Say it again. Puncture the nape? That's pure murder. It's a no no
|Re: "Ese Should Abort Her Pregnancy" - Nigerians by aalangel(f): 10:58am On Mar 03, 2016|
Ever heard of evil seed?
|Re: "Ese Should Abort Her Pregnancy" - Nigerians by omostar: 11:00am On Mar 03, 2016|
I am no Northerner either, neither am I married to one but, I am just appalled at the way people over react whenever northerners are involved. What just happened disgust me no doubt. I have a daughter also, but I also know so many parents lax in properly bringing up their kids. Young girls go out with boyfriends yet, their parents in most cases may not even be aware. They think love is some magical thing and will do crazy things just for love. I have seen so many cases like this.
It is the parent's duty to skillfully orientate their kids towards what is right. It is hard, it is difficult but without that, things like this will always happen yunusa or no yunusa,... and that is my point.
|Re: "Ese Should Abort Her Pregnancy" - Nigerians by omostar: 11:04am On Mar 03, 2016|
Aborting too can cause problems, of which death is the highest. Complications at this stage is very likely. Teenage pregnancy, and I mean girls as young as 13, 14 is rampant now. They simply give birth and give the baby to the mother( or grandma, if you may). Infact it makes some girls wiser later in life.
|Re: "Ese Should Abort Her Pregnancy" - Nigerians by peacengine(m): 11:06am On Mar 03, 2016|
Guy, this your question is tough honestly. But as the pregnancy is already 5 months, she should have the child and give it to an orphanage. Have you heard the latest? Yinusa is claiming not to be responsible.
If it was my daughter, sister or wife, nawao, God forbid bad thing abeg...
|Re: "Ese Should Abort Her Pregnancy" - Nigerians by Wyttcat: 11:13am On Mar 03, 2016|
The doctor carefully brings the baby's head out making sure the body doesn't come out, because if it comes out, game over, he can't touch the baby or else it would be a real murder. I worked in an abortion clinic back then when I didn't know much and saw things that I can't even describe. The guilt is like forever.
|Re: "Ese Should Abort Her Pregnancy" - Nigerians by Octaves(m): 11:14am On Mar 03, 2016|
It's surprising that some of the people clamouring 4 abortion are christians who pray to God for one thing or another. Abortion = murder however you want to look at it. If it's wrong to kill the baby after birth or at 8/9 months stage, then its also wrong to kill it at 2/3/4 months stage. That's common sense. It's not the baby's fault. You can give it up for adoption later if don't want it
|Re: "Ese Should Abort Her Pregnancy" - Nigerians by AhmedInusa: 11:22am On Mar 03, 2016|
Hian... all this Ladies shouting abortion abortion, if you guyz are used to it please Ese is not n will not be one of ya kind. Besides she submit herself n Agreed to the terms get to listen to the Guy's version n not jump into silly conclusions.#Odikwa wailers.
|Re: "Ese Should Abort Her Pregnancy" - Nigerians by streetzdreamz(m): 11:25am On Mar 03, 2016|
to think all those advocating for abortion are of the same gender is worrisome,aborting a 5months old pregnancy??just 4 months to go, seriously some people have lost it!!!!!!!! they should just cut the lady up and rip the baby outa her belly,very foolish people.
|Re: "Ese Should Abort Her Pregnancy" - Nigerians by luke10: 11:35am On Mar 03, 2016|
There is no way, no way I will ever agree with Northerners. This vexation is even increasing each time these type stories are spreading. Someone, because he or they are Fulanis, because they do not care for any other persons or because they have the suicide bumbers available to kill people, because they can just undermind others, or maybe because they are Islamists, because they do not have value for lives, just take my daughter without my knowledge, get her impregnated. Ho my God. Sometimes, I will be asking questions within me why can I go somewhere and forcefully devide this country? Time shall tell.
|Re: "Ese Should Abort Her Pregnancy" - Nigerians by henrygale(m): 11:43am On Mar 03, 2016|
omostar:Huh! Sounds so easy but u know it gonna linger for long,coz as we know,d parents are not well to do.
So,y not take d gal to a gynaecologist/obsterician who will ripen her cervix and she expels it and dats all. No complications,and she can go on with her life on her own terms and not on someone else's!
Wch ever way,i pray God help her recover from whatever dey might have done to her.
|Re: "Ese Should Abort Her Pregnancy" - Nigerians by PAGAN9JA(m): 11:46am On Mar 03, 2016|
Abort the half-bred thing.
|Re: "Ese Should Abort Her Pregnancy" - Nigerians by jessytra(f): 11:48am On Mar 03, 2016|
Abort it...if it were to be my child(God forbid)I won't think about it twice... The way he was conceived will be a stigma to the child everyday of his life.
|Re: "Ese Should Abort Her Pregnancy" - Nigerians by dhabeautyjas(f): 11:53am On Mar 03, 2016|
Sincerely, this case is really saddening. but somehow its overhyped maybe cos of the present sentiments on the rise in this country. i did my NYSC in that area and i can tell you most of their girls are already sexually active from age 9 and even have kids in their parent's house and life continues. The fuss they are all making is mostly because of the guys religion and the CONVERSION which i am against.
if we are all true to ourselves, many youngstars elope all in the name of love (LUST). but most cases swept under the carpet but the volatile situation the country is in is what is making this an issue.
funnilly, another benue case is coming up, just to get public sympathy i suppose, when they voluntarily use their women to serve visitors? funny people i must say
i wish to see a nigeria of no sentiment someday. mind you i am not a northerner*******
|Re: "Ese Should Abort Her Pregnancy" - Nigerians by klimson: 11:54am On Mar 03, 2016|
Islam am paedophilia is inseparable. No matter how they hide it. It keep showing in their actions and inactions. Ndi ala! Shame.
|Re: "Ese Should Abort Her Pregnancy" - Nigerians by repogirl(f): 11:58am On Mar 03, 2016|
coolviv:which father? Yunusa? The same father that abducted the mother from her parents? What do you want the child to become? You have sentenced the poor child to the Almajiri system.
You have to look at the father's family and be sure they can cater to the child before you lump upon them a burden that they will also abandon.
If the mother can't care for it, she should give it out. Simple.
|Re: "Ese Should Abort Her Pregnancy" - Nigerians by omostar: 12:00pm On Mar 03, 2016|
at the bolded.
Abio, And that is why we must work towards helping douse that tension and not "adding more fuel". And the tenage preggy stuff is everywhere either through marriage(in the north) or through waywardness (in the south and east). I knew a 16 years old girl who already had 3 kids for 3 different men and still living with her parents.
|Re: "Ese Should Abort Her Pregnancy" - Nigerians by Nobody: 12:07pm On Mar 03, 2016|
This is really serious. In saner climes, Yinusa will be behind bars. For what it's worth, this is a classic example of grooming.
|Re: "Ese Should Abort Her Pregnancy" - Nigerians by Nobody: 12:39pm On Mar 03, 2016|
Toothless Nigerians. Our only voice is social media. That which is meant as a blessing has now become a curse since we can all now sit and home, type gibberish and feel we've contributed a physical quota to a cause.
Truly, the youth are lazy.
Yes, she can't consent to an abortion but the pregnancy is now too late to abort. No one, not even her parents have a say in this. Let nature take its course.
|Re: "Ese Should Abort Her Pregnancy" - Nigerians by soderican(m): 12:47pm On Mar 03, 2016|
Ife balaba abago
|Re: "Ese Should Abort Her Pregnancy" - Nigerians by Nobody: 12:48pm On Mar 03, 2016|
Flexherbal:Love gbakwaa oku
|Re: "Ese Should Abort Her Pregnancy" - Nigerians by Amhappy(f): 1:00pm On Mar 03, 2016|
I don't know where they will find a Nigerian doctor who will risk his hard earned license on abortion at this stage of pregnancy. Abortion for ESe is a NO NO.
|Re: "Ese Should Abort Her Pregnancy" - Nigerians by nijabazaar: 1:07pm On Mar 03, 2016|
I wish some capable person could give the parents money or some doctor (qualified) should offer his services free for a D & C....that foetus should be aborted simple....
She's too tender to be a mother. the foetus needs two parents.....The father is a criminal and the mother in her early teens, so it is rational to have the foetus ripped off least it ends up as another almajiri, albeit a southern one.
|Re: "Ese Should Abort Her Pregnancy" - Nigerians by nijabazaar: 1:08pm On Mar 03, 2016|
and who would be responsible for that foetus upkeep?
Bleep nature, she should save her future and go for a D & C.
|Re: "Ese Should Abort Her Pregnancy" - Nigerians by Nobody: 1:19pm On Mar 03, 2016|
The problem is not the pregnancy, the problem is not the child...the problem is us, it is our society, so loveless and so careless and unwilling to embrace the most fragile sides of life. If we would stand around the girl, give her a safe environment to carry her pregnancy to end, if we were willing to invest in her future, to find a home for the new life, if we would get rid of concepts of shame, of thinking in impossibilities, in doom scenarios, if we would learn to think in opportunities, in making the best out of the worse...if we would just have a heart and love every life, even when it comes in not perfect circumstances, and stand together to make a curse a blessing...then we wouldnt take in our mouth the word abortion, we wouldnt give the girl another lifelong scar, the best way to healing is love and not denial and removal of a problem that will hunt you lifelong anyway, death or alive.
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|Re: "Ese Should Abort Her Pregnancy" - Nigerians by FlawlessRebirth2(f): 1:36pm On Mar 03, 2016|
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